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Jul 15, 2019 18:45
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Jul 15, 2019 18:54
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omg that's just outright atrocious 
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Jul 15, 2019 19:00
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I'm stealing this, for what it's worth.
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Jul 15, 2019 19:07
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iospace posted:I'm stealing this, for what it's worth.
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flakeloaf posted:
oh so she's like super a terf huh
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aardvaard posted:oh so she's like super a terf huh trans men are just confused lesbians etc etc etc
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Lain Iwakura posted:trans men are just confused lesbians etc etc etc it's so bizarre to see "trans men are confused lesbians" and "lesbians just need a dick to convince them not to be lesbians" in the same story but here we are i guess
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Shame Boy posted:it's so bizarre to see "trans men are confused lesbians" and "lesbians just need a dick to convince them not to be lesbians" in the same story but here we are i guess terfs are the type of people who hate how women are defined by their “biological roles” and then yet define “women” by their broken, patriarchal views of biology Lain Iwakura fucked around with this message at 16:44 on Jul 16, 2019 |
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Jul 16, 2019 15:28
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Lain Iwakura posted:terfs are the type of people who hate how women are defined by their “biological roles” and then yet define “women” by their broken, patriarchal views of biology 
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Jul 16, 2019 17:12
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terfs are cryptofascists
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Jul 16, 2019 17:21
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afaict “being a woman is awful and we must keep it that way” is a core part of the terf ideology.
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Plorkyeran posted:afaict “being a woman is awful and we must keep it that way” is a core part of the terf ideology. most TERF leaders are forced birth activists
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Lain Iwakura posted:most TERF leaders are forced birth activists i am deeply afraid of googling this term. the sort of raw, primitive fear that wells up somewhere deep inside you, the limbic system's intense, desperate cry e: okay this is not great but i thought it was gonna be much, much worse, like some entirely new horrible quiverfull cult thing. E4C85D38 fucked around with this message at 20:07 on Jul 16, 2019 |
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Jul 16, 2019 20:02
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my new insurance has some coverage for grs. this could realistically happen!!!!
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Jul 16, 2019 20:31
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mailorder bees! posted:my new insurance has some coverage for grs. this could realistically happen!!!!  here's hoping for minimal insurer fuckery!
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mailorder bees! posted:my new insurance has some coverage for grs. this could realistically happen!!!! hell yeah!
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mailorder bees! posted:my new insurance has some coverage for grs. this could realistically happen!!!! congratulations!
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Plorkyeran posted:afaict “being a woman is awful and we must keep it that way” is a core part of the terf ideology. the worst part of terf/“gender critical” ideology is how they seek out cis-women who have been harmed by cis-men and exploit their pain and suffering to foster hate and disgust toward other groups that are also abused by cis-men :/
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creationist believer posted:the worst part of terf/“gender critical” ideology is how they seek out cis-women who have been harmed by cis-men and exploit their pain and suffering to foster hate and disgust toward other groups that are also abused by cis-men :/ poo poo they even recruit enbies. I had to kick an amab person out of a gathering because they kept spouting off about how we are too hard on terfs because at the end of the day they're just women who've been abused by men and they're just afraid trans woman might be men too and who can blame them for being jumpy real great loving solidarity there when all of us loving bend ourselves into knots explaining why *e is a real and valid pronoun when cis people attack you and you're just like "yeah it's valid to think trans women are men".
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there are plenty of trans people of all sorts of genders (including trans women) who have been poisoned by terf rhetoric. some people find the idea of being "one of the good ones" attractive, and don't care about who they're throwing under the bus.
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jit bull transpile posted:poo poo they even recruit enbies. I had to kick an amab person out of a gathering because they kept spouting off about how we are too hard on terfs because at the end of the day they're just women who've been abused by men and they're just afraid trans woman might be men too and who can blame them for being jumpy at least contrapoints recently made a video about terfs i can point them to before canceling them forever
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we in vancouver have a "trans-identified male" who is super popular with fundies and terfs here because he (his pronouns) thinks that big pharma is turning all the kids trans or some poo poo and that trans women are invading spaces meant for "biological females". basically his shtick is to host talks wearing the same outfit each time for "concerned citizens" about the dangers trans people and big pharma he recently said that since he was not welcomed at pride that he'd show up at the dyke march and festival but he won't be allowed there either
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jit bull transpile posted:oh yeah other queers will glom onto you if you're at all stable and suck out all your emotional energy. it can be fulfilling but you have to set limits or you'll be exhausted christ almighty I've been thinking of this quote a lot this year, especially as I reflect on the first half
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END ME SCOOB posted:christ almighty I've been thinking of this quote a lot this year, especially as I reflect on the first half yeah it resonated a ton with me too and i think that's true of basically every even-remotely-stable queer person in the world ever
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Jul 17, 2019 14:28
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hence why I don’t socialize much anymore
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Jul 17, 2019 14:40
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oh god yes. its extremely true
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Jul 17, 2019 15:33
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its the sad brains
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Jul 17, 2019 15:41
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moving down to three times a day for dilations is like being released on probation but you still have to check in with your probation officer every eight hours
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Lain Iwakura posted:moving down to three times a day for dilations is like being released on probation but you still have to check in with your probation officer every eight hours wtf brassards dilation routine is so different from Satterwhite
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jit bull transpile posted:wtf brassards dilation routine is so different from Satterwhite it's pretty intense. people are weirded out when i tell them that i use orange now
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Lain Iwakura posted:it's pretty intense. people are weirded out when i tell them that i use orange now I'm not supposed to use orange until like the 9 or 12 month mark. I'm ahead of schedule using green. also I started at 3x and moved to 2x at 3 months, 1x at 6 and then it's biweekly after 12 months.
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that is really weird. my friend who was staying with my so and i after her srs is supposed to start trying the orange tomorrow, 3 weeks after surgery (but the doc at her check-in appointment yesterday said it's ok if she can't manage it for another week or two). this was at NYU Langone hospital and I don't recall if it was specifically dr. Bluebond-Langner or dr. zhao that did her surgery, but their teams have unified procedures as far as i'm aware my so had it with dr mcginn a few years back and i dont recall the exact schedule but she was using the orange one by like 2 months in (after having some complications)
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Jul 18, 2019 02:05
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Who has two thumbs, speaks limited French and has her surgery letter? This moi!
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Fatty Crabcakes posted:Who has two thumbs, speaks limited French and has her surgery letter? hell yeah i take it that you're going to montreal?
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Fatty Crabcakes posted:Who has two thumbs, speaks limited French and has her surgery letter? grats! my fuckin power is out
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Jul 18, 2019 22:28
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i thought i remember her saying it was an orchi, but that’s great either way
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lol we were supposed to start ivf next week but insurance just surprised out of nowhere with the info that none of th drugs are covered under pharmacy benefits and would come out of our 20k lifetime limit on infertility services, which was already barely enough to pay for the actual retrieval and one implantation attempt. so now we're looking at almost 6k out of pocket for these drugs so we can have a loving child, something that most cis couples take for granted as an inalienable right. kill me.
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OldAlias posted:i thought i remember her saying it was an orchi, but that’s great either way They even cover  surgery, although I m just gonna see what the gym can do for me in that regard before I give up spankings for Lent.
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