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My bf has “trapped” me into our relationshipquote:I (24F) have been in a relationship with my bf (27M) for 6 years. Two years ago my grandparents passed, leaving me a small inheritance and the option to purchase their home. I purchased their home using my savings and used the inheritance towards renovating. I gave my bf the option to buy in as I felt obligated too, however he declined so we agreed on him paying half the mortgage which he was more than happy with - he earns $60 an hour, the mortgage is $120 a week.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 06:59 |
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Bobulus posted:The weird thing is that the kid is supposed to be named after a deceased grandfather. Very low odds the grandfather spelled his name that way. Wouldn't it be more reasonable to spell it the way grandpa did? Yeah, unless Grandpa was from China or something and 'Zachary' was the closest romanisation of his name, that is absolutely not how he would have spelled it. Why the gently caress is this guy so hung up on spelling the name in a completely bizarre way? <read update> Ah. He just wants Grandpa's name but Cooler and to hell with it looking stupid. Roseo posted:My bf has “trapped” me into our relationship If he doesn't want to pay an hour's worth of work a week towards the mortgage, then the correct choice is to discuss that first. Not surprise her with "haha, now you owe me money instead" and a new floor that is not only not what she wanted but literally not something she asked for. If this is the hill he wants to die on, she can turn the tables again and hand him an eviction notice and tell him to gtfo.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 07:14 |
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Roseo posted:My bf has “trapped” me into our relationship hahahaha "I bought $10,000 worth of poo poo you don't want because I'm insecure and thought you were going to leave me" Holy poo poo if she is even considering paying this dude back -- hello! welcome to doormat city!
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 07:15 |
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DeeplyConcerned posted:hahahaha The best bit is that he's so insecure that he emailed her this invoice instead of having a discussion about it
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 08:00 |
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I feel like it might work in a culture with a strong emphasis on moral debt. Like in Japan where neighbors can get trapped in an endless gift giving loop because someone bought as slightly too expensive gift. Op might have too much of a giri towards their boyfriend that gave her an expensive gift she didn’t ask for or want.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 08:13 |
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AITA for ordering the same thing at a restaurant every time?quote:There is a Mexican restaurant in my town that I go to frequently, and I always order loaded nachos. It’s a lot of food so I normally don’t order anything else. The staff knows who I am and what I order. They don’t even ask me anymore because I’ve been there so many times. I decided to eat at the Mexican restaurant today, and there was a new server. I told her that I always get loaded nachos and that’s it. She puts my order in and the cook gets mad. The cook told her to tell me that I need to order something else because he is tired of making loaded nachos. I told the server that I’m not going to order something else and she didn’t care, but the cook did. After she told the cook that I refuse to order something different, he called me rude and said I was being difficult.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 08:42 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for ordering the same thing at a restaurant every time? Unless this was some kind of highfalutin' 5 Michelin Star restaurant, why should the cook care? if anything, they ought to be grateful for a customer who doesn't keep them on their toes all the time.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 08:57 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for ordering the same thing at a restaurant every time? It sounds like the cook is unreasonable, but they are actually all in purgatory and this guy is the only customer, just asking for loaded nachos over and over.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 09:11 |
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CommissarMega posted:Unless this was some kind of highfalutin' 5 Michelin Star restaurant, why should the cook care? if anything, they ought to be grateful for a customer who doesn't keep them on their toes all the time. There’s got to be more too it, my bet is that he has weird specific pain in the rear end poo poo he doesn’t want on it or added too it. The bit I can’t figure out is how the chef knows exactly who he is from his order alone, presumably mixed in with other peoples orders who do order different things EDIT: or the restaurant is circling the drain and he’s like the only customer they ever get and the chefs frustrated and bailing anyway. Rudager fucked around with this message at 10:00 on Sep 26, 2022 |
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I mean a woman I knew always ordered a mcdonalds hamburger bun with only cheese inside and like, everyone at the McDonald's in her hometown got briefed on her so I can see it sticking out enough you figure out who it is.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 11:01 |
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Barudak posted:I mean a woman I knew always ordered a mcdonalds hamburger bun with only cheese inside and like, everyone at the McDonald's in her hometown got briefed on her so I can see it sticking out enough you figure out who it is. Yeah that’s what I mean though, if she just ordered a standard cheeseburger with no changes no-one would remember her or care, which goes back to my theory there’s way more to his order than just “loaded nachos” exactly as they are from the menu.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 11:12 |
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Rudager posted:Yeah that’s what I mean though, if she just ordered a standard cheeseburger with no changes no-one would remember her or care, which goes back to my theory there’s way more to his order than just “loaded nachos” exactly as they are from the menu. Im hoping that loaded nachos aren't even on the menu and this dude is in a Oaxacan restaurant.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 11:19 |
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If I was tired of making loaded nachos I would probably quit my job as the chef in a Mexican restaurant.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 11:31 |
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Roseo posted:My bf has “trapped” me into our relationship
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 12:00 |
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RV dad should send the aunt an invoice for the work done.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 12:04 |
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trickybiscuits posted:A whole ago I read that something like one- third of all medical procedures that have to be redone are because the patient refused to follow medical advice for recovery (it accompanied a story about a teenager who, a few days after having an eye operation and being told to spend the next week quietly resting at home, went on a roller coaster). If you have any other stories like this I'm all ears. They are all as boring as the story of a woman just refusing to consider that a bad thing might happen to her despite all attempts to prevent it. I just happened to be really frustrated by that one and the comment about Americans not understanding "if...then" statements hit home.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 12:06 |
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Breetai posted:me: hr my job in the halloween factory involves actual halloween decorations and im being shunned by the community please dont sing dragula 30 some odd pages been but this is fuckin gold lmfao
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 12:14 |
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BrigadierSensible posted:Forgive the rudeness of these questions: She found out eventually that we all knew. We were all pretty pissed about it because we had to carry her up half a mountain to get to a road and then walk a few miles before we reached any sort of assistance. The area was rather remote. From what I know she has zero history of self-harming or any other self-harming behavior like this. Rather than a habit it was probably an impulsive spur of the moment move to get her and her husband out of the situation while still looking like One of The Good Guys. She is not friends with the topless ladies and never warmed to them, we suspect because of the boobs and all. None of us had known her for more than a week before this happened. Over the next few months she exhibited a lot of paranoid and controlling behavior, and would not let him go out anywhere without bringing her, but she never wanted to actually go anywhere so we rarely saw my friend again. We live in separate cities, and I haven't actually seen him in person since she demanded he leave that Very Dangerous City (no) because she eventually refused to leave the house without him escorting her, even to walk to the corner store or whatever. I still play online games with him but only when she is not home because she will get quite angry if she finds him Doing Stuff - it doesn't really seem to matter what he does. From what I know she's forced him to quit his baseball team, quit his bar trivia, quit developing his videogame, quit writing his novel, and pretty much all other activities that don't revolve around her. He's kind of wayyyyy out of her league so maybe this was her way of locking him down. Worked, I guess. Sad story. Miss the guy.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 12:14 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for ordering the same thing at a restaurant every time? When I was in university I would always go eat at this German place that was kind of like the soup Nazi, except the accents were a lot more authentically Nazi sounding. On their menu they had this really cheap sandwich + soup 'special' every day. You'd get a little sandwich, amazing sauerkraut on the side, and whatever was leftover from yesterday's soup, which was usually even better than today's soup. I was broke, it was $2, and I lived with a bunch of loving filthy savages in which I could never even find a place in the kitchen not covered in dirty dishes. I'd get the special pretty much every weekday right after class. Every loving day they would give me poo poo about ordering the 'cheapskate special' and lambast me for not spending enough. I always gave a buck as a tip which was 50% , but still, they'd whine. I'd bitch right back at them and tell them to erase if off the loving menu if they don't want people to order it, I'm doing them a favor by just paying for leftovers anyway. Over months of me putting up with their bullshit I think I earned a grudging respect, and new customers would be amused/horrified as I'd walk in there and curse up a storm about getting these goddamn soup-nazis to make my loving lunch, and they'd be screaming right back from the kitchen about needing to chase off drug addled slackers like myself. Good times.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 12:26 |
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I don't think there's any reason to pretend it's nacho guy's fault somehow
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 13:10 |
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it's nacho fault
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AITA for learning Spanish despite my boyfriends wishes?quote:My boyfriend (m32) and I (f30) have been living together for 3 years now, together for 4. The comments are 90 percent NTAs, the rest being ESH for some brainwormed reason or YTA for “not being true to yourself” however, Reddit has this labeled as Which is starting to make me think if this has happened elsewhere…
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 14:48 |
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AITA counts upvotes, not comments, when determining who the rear end in a top hat is.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 14:52 |
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Dr. Stab posted:AITA counts upvotes, not comments, when determining who the rear end in a top hat is. thank you for explaining, that sounds stupider than imaginable E: this is the top comment quote:YWBTA for not moving to your dream country for a guy who flipped out because you learned another language, and then sent his family after you I bet this cool trick hasn’t been abused before! At least our morally and literally broken rear end website doesn’t have this wack rear end system. Just other wack rear end issues teen witch fucked around with this message at 14:55 on Sep 26, 2022 |
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Biplane posted:Bottlebricking is dumb lib poo poo. Tell that to the community in Matènwa, Haiti (thank you goons!) who are using that technique to build housing/shelter. Sorry for the derail but gently caress off with this.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 14:54 |
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Barudak posted:I mean a woman I knew always ordered a mcdonalds hamburger bun with only cheese inside and like, everyone at the McDonald's in her hometown got briefed on her so I can see it sticking out enough you figure out who it is. This is actually an off menu item, the Sad McCheese.
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AITA For giving my son's dog to his ex wife.quote:To begin with I love my son with all my heart. But he blew up his marriage by cheating and has moved back home.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 15:15 |
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Why do people even post ones like that? "Am I the rear end in a top hat for giving the family dog to my daughter-in-law and young grandchildren who live on a big farm instead of my douchebag cheating son who crashes on my couch and is away from home for weeks at a time?" You're the rear end in a top hat for either "karma farming" or being stupid enough to ask this question
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 15:26 |
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Mr. Grapes! posted:She found out eventually that we all knew. We were all pretty pissed about it because we had to carry her up half a mountain to get to a road and then walk a few miles before we reached any sort of assistance. The area was rather remote. This is some weird abuse and control poo poo. She’s just a fuckin’ psycho. William Henry Hairytaint posted:This is actually an off menu item, the Sad McCheese. I’ll have the hamburger bun animal style.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 15:31 |
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AITA for calling my fiance selfish for refusing to let my dad walk me down the aisle?quote:My fiance (26m) & I (23f) have been together for over 2 years. I don't have a big family, just my dad and my older sister. My dad has always been a single parent devoting his life for me and my sister and working over 14+ jobs in the past 6 years to provide for us. I love my dad and we have the best relationship anyone could hope for. However, my fiance does not get along with him. They have different opinions on so many things. For example, my fiance one time suggested to my dad to sell the truck he has because it's been sitting there for years. My dad got offended because this is my grandfather's truck and he has no monrg to get it fixed. Another example, my fiance got mad at my dad at a party for talking about his struggle after my mom's death and accused him of collecting symapthy points but dad said that he always talks about it casually. AITA for telling my dad I’ve lost respect for him and I can’t play happy family with him and his new kids? quote:My (23M) parents (43M, 45F) divorced when I was 8, I stayed with my dad full time and went to visit my mom two weekends a month. My dad stayed single for all my childhood and adolescence. Having an affair with your kid's boss's wife should have its own name for WTFness.
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 15:32 |
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Whatever it is, Dad's got it.
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teen witch posted:thank you for explaining, that sounds stupider than imaginable Ahahaha Maybe the system is broken????
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Dr. Stab posted:AITA counts upvotes, not comments, when determining who the rear end in a top hat is. Wait, doesn't the site automatically count mentions of YTA/NTA/etc for that, is that just not true? Or do you mean it counts upvotes of each mention of those classifications? Just a straight count of each type would be the reasonable way to do it, so I guess I shouldn't be surprised if reddit doesn't do it that way. e: misunderstood the clarifications at first, that's wild Captain Hygiene fucked around with this message at 15:45 on Sep 26, 2022 |
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AITA for asking my sister to donate her dog's jogging stroller to my kids instead of an animal shelter?quote:My (26f) sister Sasha (31f) and I are very different people. We aren't BFFs but we love each other. Sasha doesn't have any kids and I have 3 (6f, 2.5m, 1.5m). sorry for your "loss", yadda yadda, anyway can i have some free poo poo
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 15:43 |
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quote:Hubster YTA
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 15:48 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for ordering the same thing at a restaurant every time? Is this guy the restaurant's only customer? Odds are the cook makes this for other people every day, so what's the problem? Unless it's some custom, off-the-menu item that's a real pain to make?
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 16:04 |
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haveblue posted:YTA Yeah, I want to know more about "struggling to find his professional calling" too. Lemme guess, streamer?
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 16:09 |
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The_Franz posted:Is this guy the restaurant's only customer? Odds are the cook makes this for other people every day, so what's the problem? you'd think that a cook at a mexican restaurant would have no problem making nachos, really
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# ? Sep 26, 2022 16:12 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for calling my fiance selfish for refusing to let my dad walk me down the aisle? quote:AITA for telling my dad I’ve lost respect for him and I can’t play happy family with him and his new kids?
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mind the walrus posted:Between this and the 27 year-old who thought he could install flooring on his girlfriend's credit and then bill her, it is reassuring to know that Gen Z dudes have just as many absolute dipshits as the older gens. What a narcissist sees, is: but what about my happiness! What about me what about me what about my happiness, you just don't want me to be happy!
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