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AITA for paying for my own food in front of my husband’s brother?quote:I know this sounds absolutely ridiculous to wonder if your an rear end in a top hat about, but please listen on because I am genuinely curious if people think I was in the wrong. "a bloo bloo bloo my wife paid for her own dinner" -- a strong, manly, macho man
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wizardofloneliness posted:
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 16:34 |
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WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house?quote:My sister-in-law “Katy”(23f) lived with my husband and I for about a year. She was living with their grandma “Diane” but they had a falling out so we offered her the upstairs, rent free. It’s just a single bedroom up there so she had the upstairs all to herself, we only used it for storage. She paid nothing, only bought her own food but was also welcome to use our food too. This was suppose to last a few months while she saved money for an apartment. look, are you going to hold that "shitbags" thing against your sister-in-law forever? it's time to grow up
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 16:58 |
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That's the side no one ever talks about with hider in the house situations...what do they do with all that poop? Well, now you know.
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 17:04 |
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Metis of the Hallway posted:Yeah it's an honest mistake, I think 90% of my reports ever are asking for changes to the raised by wolves thread title in TV IV lol so I'd probably do the same here by accident. Except for the part where she doesn't really like you.
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 17:06 |
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you know it hurts more to hold a grudge about bags of feces than it does to let go of your experience with bags of feces
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 17:07 |
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for exposing my coworker's bathroom habits? no op squating isnt wierd dont listen to reddit. public bathrooms are disgusting squating is a safety skill.
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AITA for no longer responding to my friend‘s medical emergencies?quote:I (30F) have been friends with my friend Mary (27F) for roughly 5 years. We’re completely different people who met at work and somehow became pretty close friends.
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Foo Diddley posted:WIBTA for skipping my husband’s grandma’s Christmas to avoid his sister… because she left human feces and urine in my house? You should be dunking on your sister in law every chance you get because that’s the only recompense you’ll see. Loudly and proudly let the whole family know how disgusting she was.
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DoubleNegative posted:AITA for no longer responding to my friend‘s medical emergencies? Seems like the problem resolved itself?
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 17:38 |
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My husband started acting strangely upon my sister's pregnancy announcement.quote:I feel like I'm going crazy here thinking about it. My husband and I were at my parents house for dinner. All was going well. We were talking, laughing and eating. But as soon as my sister got from her seat and announced her pregnancy. I noticed at first that my husband got quiet, didn't get up to congratulate her since the rest of us did, and just kept staring at or towards her I'm not entirely sure. I repeatedly asked if he was okay and he mumbled about feeling a bit sick. That was strange because he was perfectly fine that day. Literally, moments later he started throwing up. Like I had no idea what was happening with him. He sat on the bathroom floor near the toilet just looking down and refusing to let me help him up to wash his face. I kept asking him if he was okay but no response. My family were worried about him and I had to take him home. I checked his temp and blood pressure but all were normal. Still complete silence on his part. He went to sleep shortly after and in the early morning at 5:30. I woke up to the sound of him crying in the shower. I rushed in asking if he was okay but still no response other than tell me he needed a minute with himself. Just give him a minute lady, some men have strong reactions to finding out they're going to be a father!
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Hughlander posted:My husband started acting strangely upon my sister's pregnancy announcement. I refuse to believe this is real because how could anyone be so obtuse
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DoubleNegative posted:AITA for no longer responding to my friend‘s medical emergencies? i want to get through this on my own, which is why you need to come over at 4 am every day
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Ayndin posted:Also not to draw out the self-published textbook thing longer, Semi related, but the textbook chat made me google my old genetics professor, see if he'd finally published his lifes work. Gonna doxx myself a bit. https://www.amazon.co.uk/Human-Diversity-Bernard-Charles-Lamb-ebook/dp/B016LSZI74 He spent years researching it, and taking various measurements from his undergrads (He was notorious for plying Asian students with vodka so he could photograph their red flushes). As he was a terrible lecturer, I'm perversely pleased to find out his lifes work is so completely poo poo. Its awfully written, and he literally has headings about racial quotas and "Political correctness gone wrong", and freely uses Negroid and mongoloid. Annoyingly, he's also got lots of written accounts from undergrads, who would have no idea what kind of book they were going into. At the time he seemed a nice old man past his prime at a top ten uni.
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sephiRoth IRA posted:I refuse to believe this is real because how could anyone be so obtuse It's a pretty common defense mechanism when the obvious answer involves being betrayed by someone you trust in a way that will upend your entire life. It takes a minute to comprehend, and she is literally posting as a sanity check, probably expecting a harsh dose of reality, but hoping against hope that there exists a less horrible explanation.
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 18:08 |
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA for paying for my own food in front of my husband’s brother? Not only that but he is responsible for this outcome since he was complaining that he pays for everything. Another case of "You need to start paying for things yourself. Why did you pay for things yourself and embarass me?" toxic masculinity trap.
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DoubleNegative posted:AITA for no longer responding to my friend‘s medical emergencies? The only thing OP did wrong was fail to say "I thought you wanted to get through it in your own." I mean, I have anxiety and it's been bad sometimes but my response was to up my meds. Jesus.
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snergle posted:no op squating isnt wierd dont listen to reddit. public bathrooms are disgusting squating is a safety skill. the weird posture it requires to hover over a western style toilet can literally lead to actual physical problems with the pelvic floor muscles. if you're gonna insist on squatting then fine but you better do your kegels or you'll start pissing yourself. it's also gross because it's more likely to get piss on the seat so thanks for leaving that for other people to clean up. you could just wipe the goddamn toilet seat off and sit like a human, alternately - you aren't going to catch anything from sitting on it, you can literally just wipe it clean with some toilet paper before you sit down and it will be fine
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limp_cheese posted:Not only that but he is responsible for this outcome since he was complaining that he pays for everything. Another case of "You need to start paying for things yourself. Why did you pay for things yourself and embarass me?" toxic masculinity trap. No no, what he actually said/meant was "You need to let me keep paying for all your things so that I remain in a position of power and can use that leverage to control you."
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InediblePenguin posted:the weird posture it requires to hover over a western style toilet can literally lead to actual physical problems with the pelvic floor muscles. if you're gonna insist on squatting then fine but you better do your kegels or you'll start pissing yourself. it's also gross because it's more likely to get piss on the seat so thanks for leaving that for other people to clean up. you could just wipe the goddamn toilet seat off and sit like a human, alternately - you aren't going to catch anything from sitting on it, you can literally just wipe it clean with some toilet paper before you sit down and it will be fine You just gotta stand on the seat itself then squat, duh.
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Why would I bother strengthening my leg muscles when I can just carry my own toilet seat with me wherever I go
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OP needs to master the Toilet Paper Seat Condom
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InediblePenguin posted:the weird posture it requires to hover over a western style toilet can literally lead to actual physical problems with the pelvic floor muscles. if you're gonna insist on squatting then fine but you better do your kegels or you'll start pissing yourself. it's also gross because it's more likely to get piss on the seat so thanks for leaving that for other people to clean up. you could just wipe the goddamn toilet seat off and sit like a human, alternately - you aren't going to catch anything from sitting on it, you can literally just wipe it clean with some toilet paper before you sit down and it will be fine Yeah, there's a reason why public toilets are the one area where the women's facilities are often far more disgusting than the men's. It's not just for a piss that women squat.. poo poo from arsehole to breakfast time. Also, you don't want to touch the bin flap to open it for your menstruation products, nope just throw that bad boy right there on the ground beside the bin is perfectly acceptable. Think that is unsightly? just fling it over the wall. Wel done, you have left the stall you were in free from the evidence of having a period without opening the bin. I haven't done much public toilet cleaning, but it has been character building.
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Batterypowered7 posted:You just gotta stand on the seat itself then squat, duh.
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A sweet update to a maddening post. Original post AITA for yelling at my mom that I hate Harry Potter and to LET ME LIVE MY OWN LIFE quote:As my title suggests, my mom is a huge Harry Potter nut. She and my dad actually met in a harry potter “IRC” (like Disord but for old people) in the early 00s got married had kids and from day one decided to embarrass us for life by naming us after some Harry Potter and Star Wars characters. UPDATE: AITA for yelling at my mom that I hate Harry Potter and to LET ME LIVE MY OWN LIFE quote:Hi so I ended up moving in with Missy’s family for a few months because it was all too much. It was really nice, but I ended up moving back out because I did miss my family if you can believe it.
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Troublemaker posted:What the gently caress was up Prudence's rear end on this one? *if that doesn’t tell you how consistently bafflingly ignorant you should expect New Prude to be, I envy your disconnection from US Politics
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The squatter is facing the wrong way.
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Electric Wrigglies posted:Yeah, there's a reason why public toilets are the one area where the women's facilities are often far more disgusting than the men's. It's not just for a piss that women squat.. poo poo from arsehole to breakfast time. Also, you don't want to touch the bin flap to open it for your menstruation products, nope just throw that bad boy right there on the ground beside the bin is perfectly acceptable. Think that is unsightly? just fling it over the wall. Wel done, you have left the stall you were in free from the evidence of having a period without opening the bin. Back at the design studio, the office was a big open area with our desks in it, surrounded by meeting spaces. From my desk I could see the bathrooms. One day, our recruiter, came stalking out of the wemen's, and was obviously headed my way. She comes up, looking both pissed-off and completely disappointed, and tells me she needs a mailing list for the women in the office and she needs it now. I did not ask a thing, I didn't want to know.
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AITA? Forced my parents to change their holiday plans to accommodate our xmas present to themquote:My mum and step-dad got married earlier this year. It was a big affair and was in a place very special to them.
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Funktastic posted:AITA? Forced my parents to change their holiday plans to accommodate our xmas present to them How do you get through booking an entire surprise anniversary trip for someone but not have another 50 ukbux in case things go south? Was their bridal suite a cardboard box?
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Hughlander posted:My husband started acting strangely upon my sister's pregnancy announcement. Not real, never mentioned their own family situation.
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Funktastic posted:AITA? Forced my parents to change their holiday plans to accommodate our xmas present to them They obviously should have checked with people before deciding on dates says person who bought a trip for someone yet never once asked if they were free on the date.
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quote:r/relationships: I ate so much pizza my face smelled like cheese and I felt a little better. That's probably too long, isn't it.
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limp_cheese posted:They obviously should have checked with people before deciding on dates says person who bought a trip for someone yet never once asked if they were free on the date. Right, "their wedding was a whole big thing, I'm sure they won't plan anything for the first anniversary, better make nonrefundable plans for them". Just terrible thinking all around.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:A sweet update to a maddening post. Ok, listen here
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CitizenKain posted:Ok, listen here
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AITA for not wanting my friend’s little sister to crash our D&D campaign?quote:I (M22) have a tight friendship group with R, L & V (all M22). We met at our local D&D club and have been hanging out for years. Lol at this guy for thinking his plans should be in any way a priority here.
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# ? Dec 16, 2022 21:18 |
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:E: don't forget to do the "together for 3 years, lived together for 2" math if you missed it There's also this line: "Today she found out I had “liked” a Facebook post of her ex-husband about his new relationship with his new girlfriend. (In no way have I hidden I was still his friend on FB, etc.) Once again, she came after me, demanding I unfriend him. “It’s him or me” were her exact words. I unfriended him. But at this point, I am exhausted from her demands, or really, just the disrespectful way she gives them to me. I do not talk to her ex or have any relationship with him. I have no idea why they divorced or any specific issues, as that was part of her first set of demands she laid down. Is it really so awful to remain FB friends with an ex of one of your children? She has told me, angrily, I should know that and am intentionally disrespecting her. I contend they were eager for us to develop a bond with this person when they first introduced us. We did as we came get to know them. They had time to realize the relationship was going to end. We did not. And were never privy to any reasons why." So . . . -OP did "not talk to her ex or have any relationship with him" but was also Facebook friends with him -OP thought that her daughter wanted them to "develop a bond with this person when they first introduced," therefore she had no right to tell them to end the relationship when the marriage ended -OP thought it was unfair that they were expected to drop their relationship with the ex when they hadn't had any foreknowledge of the divorce and couldn't prepare emotionally, and they're still friends with the ex a year later I wonder if there are kids involved and the ex gives OP more access than her daughter does.
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AITA for using religion to get an “accommodation” at workquote:I 28F) moved to the US last year. About 2 months ago I started at a new company. It is relevant that I am a practicing Muslim, and that I wear Hijab (so visibly Muslim). Most commenters are on OP’s side, but there are a couple of gems: OP posted:I mean, I didn’t like that I was in an inclosed space with him, I just didn’t know how to bring it up. I didn’t want people to start saying my religiousness is weird (which happened in my last job, because I used to have to pray in the break room). quote:That would make me so uncomfortable. I go to the break room to chill, not to watch someone else pray. Even if it is for 10 mins, why do you get special treatment for this? Can’t you pray in a non-public space like a car? quote:
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It still just sounds like way too much weight on facebook friends. I have hundreds of them, not sure I know all of them, I check it about twice a year, sometime miss a year. The person that I remember who had a tight group of manicured friends on Facebook was my mate's dad. He decided on five friends. If he seen a friend request that he liked the look of, he unfriended the oldest friend on his list. His own daughter got unfriended this way.
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