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I can honestly say I've never had to deal with this problem. Try being less inviting.
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Tell them you don't have time for crap like that, you've got a backlog of old games like Evolve and Sunset Overdrive to finish up.
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Nov 16, 2015 18:12
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a bay posted:no thanks hey look, I found something for you to say
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Nov 16, 2015 18:13
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Tell them you have eczema on your dangus. That or just get a nice case of jock itch to show em and tell them it's some STD, then go get you some Lotrimin to clear it up.
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Nov 16, 2015 18:16
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"sorry, but im busy" every time they ask
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Nov 16, 2015 18:16
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show them a picture of a pornstar and say it was your last girlfriend
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Nov 16, 2015 18:20
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Airborne Viking posted:hey look, I found something for you to say That seems curt and dismissive to me, like something I would say if a stranger called me on the phone and asked for money. I am not uninterested in watching movies, hiking in the woods, and especially eating dinner, and stuff like that. I just dont think I would enjoy doing those things more with this other person there asking me questions and trying to get my clothes off and everything
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Nov 16, 2015 18:22
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The fact that you're afraid to have an earnest discussion with someone who obviously knows you're picking up on her (his?) signals makes you a huge bitch, forum user a bay.
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Nov 16, 2015 18:27
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Im probably not a bitch other wise I would have asked for something rude to say dont you think
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Nov 16, 2015 18:29
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Don't worry OP knowing you, you'll never have this issue.
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Nov 16, 2015 18:30
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"Hang out" with her anyway. In my experience, getting time alone with me solves this kind of problem, and at worst, you get to watch a girl eat. Hope she's a fatty.
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Nov 16, 2015 18:38
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slam dunk that ho in the friend zone booyah
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Nov 16, 2015 18:50
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 "Hi. No, no I don't really like movies, short attention span. Dinner? I've never cared for food much. No, I don't like music. Sports is like a gay trigger for me. Nah hiking and biking chaffs my rear end. Nope, don't like nature, I think it's cliched. Welp, bye"
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Nov 16, 2015 18:51
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Say you're not "feeling it"
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Nov 16, 2015 18:54
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Dinner date. Buy a little black box, and some fine champagne, lit candles and whatnot. At the right time, go down on one knee and present her the box, asking "would you make me the happiest man alive?" She answers "yes, god yes" and opens the box, revealing a little handwritten note reading "by leaving me alone"
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Nov 16, 2015 18:55
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Tijuana Bibliophile posted:Dinner date. Buy a little black box, and some fine champagne, lit candles and whatnot. At the right time, go down on one knee and present her the box, asking "would you make me the happiest man alive?" She answers "yes, god yes" and opens the box, revealing a little handwritten note reading "by leaving me alone" 5
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Nov 16, 2015 18:57
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im the person in the op
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Nov 16, 2015 19:00
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stick it in her pooper
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Nov 16, 2015 19:00
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How is this even a question? "No thanks." There you go op
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Nov 16, 2015 19:06
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a bay posted:Lets say there is someone who wants to spend some time with you one on one and it is obvious that their intentions are to date you and probably to have sex with you as well. But the problem is, you just arent "feeling it". How do you let them know you are not into it in a way that will hurt their feelings as little as possible
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Nov 16, 2015 19:25
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glad i'll never have this problem
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Nov 16, 2015 19:29
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once in school a girl had a crush on me and invited me into an empty classroom where she had written "son of rodney I love you" on the blackboard I never talked to her much before and didnt find her attractive at all, so I just shook my head and left in retrospect it was a dick way of reacting, but anyway it worked since she never really talk to me again so maybe try that op
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Nov 16, 2015 19:39
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i always just say my gentials are in the shop broke em w too much sex! i got a fucks capacitor on order, but it's shipping from germany and costs like 900 goddamn dollars. maybe in 4-6 weeks
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Nov 16, 2015 19:40
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Tijuana Bibliophile posted:Dinner date. Buy a little black box, and some fine champagne, lit candles and whatnot. At the right time, go down on one knee and present her the box, asking "would you make me the happiest man alive?" She answers "yes, god yes" and opens the box, revealing a little handwritten note reading "by leaving me alone" 
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Nov 16, 2015 19:40
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suck their dick/tit
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Nov 16, 2015 19:43
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Just be yourself, OP.
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Nov 16, 2015 19:43
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Say that you are flattered but are not interested in them in that way. By way of apology, set them up with one of your less picky friends who looks a bit like you.
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Nov 16, 2015 19:49
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Son of Rodney posted:once in school a girl had a crush on me and invited me into an empty classroom where she had written "son of rodney I love you" on the blackboard What a weird thing to write. Is that were your username comes from?
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Nov 16, 2015 19:49
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You could say something self-deprecating like "I am just not open-minded enough for that" so that it sounds like you are defining yourself as the problem but really it is still her.
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Nov 16, 2015 19:58
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a bay posted:Thank you for all of the suggestions so far but please keep in mind that I am looking for a way to say no thanks in a way that some one will not mind hearing so much, what I am not trying to do is "put out" or be super rude or lead them on It doesn't matter what you're looking for, you have an obligation to provide sex when asked for it. That's just basic feminism.
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Nov 16, 2015 20:09
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Game_Whino posted:Say that you are flattered but are not interested in them in that way. By way of apology, set them up with one of your less picky friends who looks a bit like you. I like this one the best so far because everybody is happy at the end but most of my friends are already dating and pretty much nobe of them look very much like me any way. Im not being picky either whatever that means
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Nov 16, 2015 20:11
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You aren't obligated to provide sex to anyone who isn't hot, dummy.
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Nov 16, 2015 20:15
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Maoist Pussy posted:You aren't obligated to provide sex to anyone who isn't hot, dummy. You are when you're as ugly as I assume a bay is.
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Nov 16, 2015 20:19
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send her a text saying youre not ready for a relationship. immediately follow up with a snapchat of another girl sucking your dilz
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Nov 16, 2015 20:19
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a bay posted:I like this one the best so far because everybody is happy at the end but most of my friends are already dating and pretty much nobe of them look very much like me any way. Im not being picky either whatever that means Being picky means you have standards. It's a good thing. Set them up with one of your friends who will literally gently caress anything that moves (of the appropriate gender, obviously)
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Nov 16, 2015 20:21
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Tell them you don't want to date them or just ghost them.
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Nov 16, 2015 20:22
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bobthedinosaur posted:Tell them you don't want to date them or just ghost them. How do I ghost
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Nov 16, 2015 20:25
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a bay posted:How do I ghost stop responding to texts even when he or she sends please respond
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Nov 16, 2015 20:28
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a bay posted:That seems curt and dismissive to me, like something I would say if a stranger called me on the phone and asked for money. I am not uninterested in watching movies, hiking in the woods, and especially eating dinner, and stuff like that. I just dont think I would enjoy doing those things more with this other person there asking me questions and trying to get my clothes off and everything There's no easy way to do this OP, just more or less graceful ways. I would suggest "Thanks for the invitation, but I would like to keep our relationship strictly professional. Thanks for understanding." Is this going to offend them? Yes, probably, but that is unavoidable. The main thing is to do it in a way that your bosses and/or HR department can't possibly criticise and even the other person has no rational reason to be offended by. In time this person will get over it and/or one of you will go elsewhere.
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I always just say 'sure but I've got a lot going on right now, just hit me up and we'll work it out' then just always have a reason to not kick it. She'll get the hint after a few tries. If not just hang out with her in a public place and go home separately at the end.
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