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AITA for saying “that’s a mother-daughter moment, not a father-son”?quote:So, my (42F) bf (44M) has two sons (26M and 21M) most of kids’ lives it’s been just the three of them ever since their mother left, I came into the picture 3 years ago, of course they don’t see me as a mother but we get along. IT'S A FACT
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May 8, 2023 20:46
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It's true, if you use a song that hasn't been certified for your gender composition the marriage is legally void
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May 8, 2023 20:48
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MK-Ultramarathon posted:Yeah, I've always hated going grocery shopping with another person because I felt like I was just in the way, sometimes literally with all those narrow aisles. And as far as bonding activities go, I don't think it's great because most people find it tedious at best. It's fine if you and your partner kind of eat your own different food for the most part but do share some meals. You can both dip in, grab whatever staples you need, then spend a bit of time looking at the more indulgent sections you rarely look at to buy sushi or dessert or something along those lines to split later
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May 8, 2023 20:49
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snergle posted:walmart safeway and the ethnic grocery / boedga dont tend to be in the same shopping center. I live in rural bumfuck nc. If i want to go to the hispanic bodega walmart and food lion its taking me a minimum of 2hrs. thats assuming i dont have to wait in line longer then 5 mins at each place. i probably dont at the bodega if i didnt special order something they gotta get out of the back for me but i regularly wait in line for like 30mins in walmart and 10 mins in food lion. The shopping isn't the issue - pressuring someone into changing a counseling/therapy appointment is. "Oh no, we don't have a second car or a third set of hands for all our bullshit" isn't an excuse.
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May 8, 2023 21:08
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Runcible Cat posted:AITA for not telling my family they wouldn't get anything of my grandpa's inheritance and doing as I see fit with it? As someone who’s also dealing with a grandfather with terminal cancer (but thankfully with a not-poo poo family), this one made me see red. That family - sans the cool grandkids - can get loving bent, especially the wannabe doctor Aunt.
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May 8, 2023 21:23
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Runcible Cat posted:AITA for sending out a group text to my family about not giving my son money? Runcible Cat posted:And she wanted him to do sexy secret agent and he kept doing Inspector Clouseau instead... I forgot that part! ridiculous fake French accent and every now and then he's suddenly beat up the curtains. What a foolish woman not to appreciate this gem of a boyfriend.
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May 8, 2023 21:53
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Captain Hygiene posted:That could very well be true since it is a reddit story, but parents can definitely be weird about adult children sleeping in. When my mid-20s sister was living at home, my dad still acted weird if she was up after 9ish on Saturdays, even if he never tried to institute mandatory wakeup times. Like, she's working full time, it's okay for someone to have one day a week they don't have to get up way too early, even if you feel compelled to do so yourself! Plus people who are worried about waking up early waste all the prime awake hours between 12-4am.
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May 8, 2023 22:03
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Runcible Cat posted:AITA for not telling my family they wouldn't get anything of my grandpa's inheritance and doing as I see fit with it? quote:This is not a question about legality but mortality. yes I agree OP kill yuor famil
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May 8, 2023 22:13
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DeeplyConcerned posted:The only difference between caffeine dependence and cannabis dependence is that cannabis use is socially stigmatized and caffeine use is not. this is not at all true. somebody smoking a joint (or two) is a lot closer to downing a bottle of wine (or two) whenever they "had a rough day" than it is to coffee. like, he's not hurting anybody if he wants to get stoned as hell as his way of dealing with the world, but she's pretty reasonable to worry about it. it's just that she should've thought of it before there was a child involved, not after. it's 2023, aint nobody getting the equivalent of a single beer off a joint
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May 8, 2023 22:20
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Achmed Jones posted:this is not at all true. somebody smoking a joint (or two) is a lot closer to downing a bottle of wine (or two) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n5E7feJHw0
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May 8, 2023 22:26
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Achmed Jones posted:this is not at all true. somebody smoking a joint (or two) is a lot closer to downing a bottle of wine (or two) nah
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May 8, 2023 22:30
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1 Like = 1 Prayer 1 Joint = 1 Bottle of Wine That's just how the math works out.
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May 8, 2023 22:32
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Definitely makes me feel better about winding down the day with one tab of acid.
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May 8, 2023 22:36
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i hear one bag of fent is a good way to take the edge off
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May 8, 2023 22:37
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Cacator posted:Definitely makes me feel better about winding down the day with one tab of acid. One rip of PCP just to take the edge off.
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May 8, 2023 22:37
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A little bit of crystal to sharpen the ol' reflexes...
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May 8, 2023 22:38
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Nothing makes you better at getting up in the middle of the night to care for an infant than being high as gently caress at 9PM every day.
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May 8, 2023 22:41
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Maybe he works the night shift and is simply enjoying a joint before operating heavy machinery
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May 8, 2023 22:42
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Achmed Jones posted:this is not at all true. somebody smoking a joint (or two) is a lot closer to downing a bottle of wine (or two) whenever they "had a rough day" than it is to coffee. like, he's not hurting anybody if he wants to get stoned as hell as his way of dealing with the world, but she's pretty reasonable to worry about it. it's just that she should've thought of it before there was a child involved, not after. it's 2023, aint nobody getting the equivalent of a single beer off a joint fuckin lol
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May 8, 2023 22:43
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addendum: if hes smokin dadgrass im on his side (assuming the wife isn't forced to be around the smoke). i ordered some a while ago and that stuff sucks. dilaudid is a good pickmeup, as a treat
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May 8, 2023 22:43
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just get him some adderall to even things out
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May 8, 2023 22:49
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Achmed Jones posted:addendum: if hes smokin dadgrass im on his side (assuming the wife isn't forced to be around the smoke). i ordered some a while ago and that stuff sucks. By "dadgrass" do you mean the stuff you had to pick the stems and seeds out of?
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May 8, 2023 23:08
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we just called it schwag
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May 8, 2023 23:10
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Khanstant posted:Plus people who are worried about waking up early waste all the prime awake hours between 12-4am. The best time of day is roughly 11pm to 3am-4am. Nice and calm. Perfect for relaxing or getting stuff done interruption free. Eventually you'll even discover other night people you can chat with.
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May 8, 2023 23:11
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Achmed Jones posted:this is not at all true. somebody smoking a joint (or two) is a lot closer to downing a bottle of wine (or two) whenever they "had a rough day" than it is to coffee. are you this guy? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIBY7zJbJ9o
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May 8, 2023 23:14
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I smoke a cross joint after church on Sunday
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May 8, 2023 23:15
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Desert Bus posted:The best time of day is roughly 11pm to 3am-4am. Nice and calm. Perfect for relaxing or getting stuff done interruption free. Eventually you'll even discover other night people you can chat with. I am not an early riser by nature but when I do manage to get up and stay up mornings are awesome. I get so much done, and a sunrise looks amazing when it's viewed from the proper side instead of a sigh you should've gone to bed by now.
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May 8, 2023 23:21
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Arsenic Lupin posted:By "dadgrass" do you mean the stuff you had to pick the stems and seeds out of? naw it's an actual product that's supposed to recreate the schwag of our youth. it's just regular ol non-psychoactive hemp, but they market it as if it's comparable to schwag. but it is not. it's comparable to rope. maybe it's useful for people who don't live in a legal state and also don't know anybody, but tbh im not sure that there are very many people who fit that description
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May 8, 2023 23:26
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Achmed Jones posted:naw it's an actual product that's supposed to recreate the schwag of our youth. it's just regular ol non-psychoactive hemp, but they market it as if it's comparable to schwag. but it is not. it's comparable to rope. maybe it's useful for people who don't live in a legal state and also don't know anybody, but tbh im not sure that there are very many people who fit that description a friend of mine was actually nostalgic for schwag a while back. i don't think you can even get it any more. anyway, it took him about one hit of storebought to change his mind  in peace brickweed, you were awful
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May 8, 2023 23:51
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lol that friend might have been me. but then i tried dadgrass and was like "holy poo poo this sucks, what we have today is way better"
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May 9, 2023 00:05
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Rent-A-Cop posted:Nothing makes you better at getting up in the middle of the night to care for an infant than being high as gently caress at 9PM every day. It’s this. I love the stuff but pot makes you slow and stupid, and that’s not going to fly when you have a tiny human relying on you (and an adult-sized human expecting you to be reliable). OP should take a break for a few months imo until sleep and schedules settle down. If he can’t, well,
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May 9, 2023 00:15
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Reefer junkies are out again. A hit dog will holler.
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May 9, 2023 00:18
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Living in Colorado my whole life I was spoiled on weed, I didn’t even see actual honest-to-god brickweed until I was like 24 (two years after we legalized it here) when a friend and his friend dropped by on their way through town driving from TX to AK. My friend’s friend pulled out a bag of brown bullshit and was like “I brought this straight from the border” and it took a while to convince me it was actually weed, let alone weed that was safe to consume
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May 9, 2023 00:24
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Weed guy should cut back or quit for the baby, but his weed use is likely a lot closer to a glass or two of wine a night than a bottle or two. Weed tolerance builds up very quickly and a joint is probably nothing to him if he's been smoking that much for that long. He's also spending probably $10-20 a day depending where he gets it, which adds up when you are going to have another mouth to feed for at least 18 years.
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May 9, 2023 00:29
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run on sentience posted:Weed guy should cut back or quit for the baby, but his weed use is likely a lot closer to a glass or two of wine a night than a bottle or two. Weed tolerance builds up very quickly and a joint is probably nothing to him if he's been smoking that much for that long. He's also spending probably $10-20 a day depending where he gets it, which adds up when you are going to have another mouth to feed for at least 18 years. In a legal state a 1 gram joint runs between $1-3. Just saying.
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May 9, 2023 00:31
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Literally A Person posted:In a legal state a 1 gram joint runs between $1-3. Just saying. drat, that's nuts. You're lucky to get a legal gram of weak rear end weed for $8 in most of Canada, closer to $15 for the strong stuff. Cheaper in BC but that's usually grey market.
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May 9, 2023 00:36
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Woah, what legal state is that? Down here in NM a gram runs anywhere from 6-10$ for raw flower, and I've been seeing dispensaries selling pre-rolls at 5$ a pop (plus whatever in tax)
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May 9, 2023 00:41
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Sounds roughly right for OR (based on flower prices -- I don't buy prerolls)
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dervival posted:Woah, what legal state is that? Down here in NM a gram runs anywhere from 6-10$ for raw flower, and I've been seeing dispensaries selling pre-rolls at 5$ a pop (plus whatever in tax) Oregon and Washington State
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