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My hot take on the wanna be molested goon fesh, it seems kinda harm less what you're doing, but keep in mind you're betraying the trust of any one who is taking you seriously and dealing with the abuse you described. Also don't be to surprised if someone makes light of the abuse, humor is a coping strategy.
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sneakyfrog posted:oh thanks guys that reminds me *opens beer* man don't rush me Got a bit of cushion in the queue now though so sure quote:Hi there! I wrote in a while back about my fear of crabs, lobsters, and flying (because I'd be eaten by crabs and lobsters if the plane crashed over the ocean). I'm a spider-hater and I think 100% of my nightmares since age 4 or thereabouts have been about spiders, and maybe it's just a failure of imagination on my part but they're not usually so laden with poetic horror symbolism so kudos on that For me it's just like a normal dream and then I'm like "oops can't go over there, there's a giant spiderweb blocking my path, gotta go this way instead, hey there's another giant spiderweb, uh oh" and then it's spiders all the way down until I wake up quote:I was sexually assaulted when I was 12, by a random guy on the street. I was sexually assaulted by the father of some kids I used to babysit, also when I was about 12. I was sexually assaulted in my sleep when I was 15 at a friend's house. I woke up with her boyfriend's hand in my panties. I was raped when I was 17, out in the middle of nowhere, after riding in a car with guys we'd just met that night. I feel obligated to say you should probably also tell a therapist
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# ? Aug 3, 2017 22:52 |
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Crabgoon you should read some of the Prador books by Neal Asher.
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# ? Aug 3, 2017 23:25 |
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Sexually assaulted goon, yeah, I think that's a big part of where those statistics come from and also why it doesn't seem to match up with anecdotal evidence on the surface. It sucks that you have to hear about it at home even if nobody is being malicious, and I also second talking to a therapist. It helps! Just being able to talk about it can help.
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# ? Aug 3, 2017 23:26 |
cdrabgoon play darkest dungeon
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# ? Aug 3, 2017 23:51 |
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Johny-on-the-Spot posted:My hot take on the wanna be molested goon fesh, it seems kinda harm less what you're doing, but keep in mind you're betraying the trust of any one who is taking you seriously and dealing with the abuse you described. Also don't be to surprised if someone makes light of the abuse, humor is a coping strategy. This is true I suppose, but 90% of the people you meet online are perverts, 99% if it's a dating site.
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Gynovore posted:This is true I suppose, but 90% of the people you meet online are perverts, 99% if it's a dating site. I have dated and married perverts since the late 90s
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I'm on track to eat my considerable goon body weight in crabs this season. Just fighting the good fight for you.
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LingcodKilla posted:I'm on track to eat my considerable goon body weight in crabs this season.
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 03:34 |
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Im not gay.
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 03:36 |
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Hope you're doing alright sexually assaulted goon. I hope there is a hell for those bastards to get chewed apart by crabs for all eternity
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LingcodKilla posted:I'm on track to eat my considerable goon body weight in crabs this season. Same but carbs instead of crabs
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 03:48 |
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Thats a ton of rapes for one person, jesus christ. Save some for the other 1 in 4's. Seriously, tell a therapist about it.
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ElGroucho posted:Yeah, we almost went extinct, not that long ago, in global terms. Really? that sounds interesting. can you post links?
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omnibobb posted:Really? that sounds interesting. can you post links? I can't find it, but I think there was a time in the Ice Age when only a few small groups of homosapiens in Africa and Russia/North America survived. Like scientists think we were down into the thousands globally. Closest thing I could find: http://www.npr.org/sections/krulwich/2012/10/22/163397584/how-human-beings-almost-vanished-from-earth-in-70-000-b-c here's the wikipedia page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toba_catastrophe_theory Solice Kirsk fucked around with this message at 04:32 on Aug 4, 2017 |
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SciFiDownBeat posted:Hope you're doing alright sexually assaulted goon. I hope there is a hell for those bastards to get chewed apart by crabs for all eternity Dum-a-chum? Dad-a-cham? Ded-a-chek?
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Solice Kirsk posted:I can't find it, but I think there was a time in the Ice Age when only a few small groups of homosapiens in Africa and Russia/North America survived. Like scientists think we were down into the thousands globally. For some reason my brain always interprets the Toba Crater catastrophe as 3k humans all living In the crater.
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Solice Kirsk posted:I can't find it, but I think there was a time in the Ice Age when only a few small groups of homosapiens in Africa and Russia/North America survived. Like scientists think we were down into the thousands globally. On the plus side, though, this is the part of the game where you get Magus bean_shadow posted:Dum-a-chum? Dad-a-cham? Ded-a-chek? I understood this reference! (the movie looks completely nonsensical but I will still see it) quote:This will probably get posted before you all are done talking about drinking, but just in case...a few years ago I was pulled over for drunk driving. I had hit a couple parked cars and was going about 25 mph in a 60 zone and failing miserably at staying in my lane. The cop that pulled me over ended up being one of my best friends I grew up going to school with, and after joking around and catching up he told me I needed to take a sobriety test. I failed miserably which he found hilarious, then made me do a breathalyzer "out of curiosity". I blew a 0.18 which was surprisingly low considering how I felt. Yeah no offense but if that guy didn't already know you you'd be in jail quote:Donald Trump is about to go on a 17 day vacation. The simple fact is, this is to cover for a medical procedure. how would nobody notice him suddenly getting a face lift when he's supposed to be playing golf for two and a half weeks are we supposed to go "wow, that vacation did him a world of good, he looks twenty years younger"
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What the gently caress is a 'face lift' do they just rip your face off and replace it with a desperate millennials or something
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 15:03 |
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I actually had someone ask me a couple days ago if he had gotten a facelift so
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Sjs00 posted:What the gently caress is a 'face lift' do they just rip your face off and replace it with a desperate millennials or something not until the Peter Thiel administration's medical reforms come into effect
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 15:04 |
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lmao if he dies in surgery, and we get a Dave scenario
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 15:05 |
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Nah, dems are already willing to cozy up with Pence
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 15:12 |
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Things this thread has taught me:
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# ? Aug 4, 2017 23:14 |
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How is this supposed to make him feel better, its imitation crab meat
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Sjs00 posted:What the gently caress is a 'face lift' do they just rip your face off and replace it with a desperate millennials or something https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bnx95KyQEAA
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DandyLion posted:How is this supposed to make him feel better, its imitation crab meat like most goons i wouldn't know what real crab meat tastes like, i've been fed ground up lake erie puree all my life
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 00:15 |
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go boil to death and eat some sea spiders with butter right now friend.
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maskenfreiheit posted:like most goons i wouldn't know what real crab meat tastes like, i've been fed ground up lake erie puree all my life It's nothing the same. I gotta cook of the bastards this evening.
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 00:18 |
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drat, no gay stuff, and I really wanted to send that choo-choo up his poo-poo.
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 00:25 |
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My confession is I love both real and imitation crab meat.
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 04:42 |
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Imitation krab kutlets are the future. Reformed protein patties that can made from anything alive.
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 04:58 |
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Slowpoke Rodriguez posted:My confession is I love both real and imitation crab meat. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQqkBOd8rWs
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 05:10 |
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I should really watch Curb Your Enthusiasm. I've only seen like 3 or 4 individual episodes.
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Solice Kirsk posted:I should really watch Curb Your Enthusiasm. I've only seen like 3 or 4 individual episodes. If you have prime it's free to stream
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quote:I think I have an illegitimate child from a one night stand years ago. My first instinct here is that she didn't tell you about the kid because she wanted to handle it herself, and that still applies If this guy is a danger to the kid, trust your ex to get him out of the picture. She has two kids with him too. I dunno, at a certain point you have to just go "she's an adult" and let her life be her life. quote:I was molested repeatedly by my former uncle. He would babysit sometimes and tell me to take a shower after being outside. He would follow me into the shower...and do things I didn't understand at that age. My aunt divorced him over his drinking problem, so I haven't seen him in 10+ years. I never told my family, but have done therapy almost continually since high school. A few years ago I finally told a close friend who was amazingly supportive, caring, and understanding. Honestly you seem to have a pretty good handle on each of these things individually; I'm just wondering why they were sent in as one confession. Is the contention that they are related somehow?
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loquacius posted:
I'm no expert, but the fact that he was raped by a guy may be giving him subconscious fears that that somehow makes him gay. I agree with loq though, it sounds like you're handling everything well. The only thing your high voice is keeping you from is becoming the lead singer of a black metal band, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. If it is a big deal to you then maybe speech therapy could be an option, but I don't think they can help pitch.
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 13:45 |
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People dont think you're gay just because of your voice, it's all the body language
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# ? Aug 5, 2017 15:27 |
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Isn't a high pitched voice sometimes an indicator of childhood sexual abuse?
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Super Waffle posted:Isn't a high pitched voice sometimes an indicator of childhood sexual abuse? In the same way as having brown hair is sometimes an indicator that you once ate eggs then, yeah, sure.
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