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basic hitler posted:"asking to jack off on grindr is rather forward" - a sexually liberated man "out of the blue" I said I apparently uninstalled Grindr at some point but here are some old messages from Scruff (which I use to gently caress strangers, since there seems to be some confusion, here) hey, look, evidence, of that thing I said– even for guys who I'm pretty much explicitly there only to gently caress "hey can I jack off in front of you" is something you loving build to it isn't about whether he asked for consent, the question itself was a jarring, explicit sexual advance on somebody in a professional context that he had no prior romantic or sexual involvement with
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 11:04 |
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Am I the only one that thinks the fact his comedy is about the sick things he actually did makes it even worse? People here seem to be saying 'well it's not as bad because that's his act anyway'. Something being funny because it's weird and disgusting and ridiculous suddenly becomes completely unfunny to me when the comic turns out to be, in fact, weird and disgusting. Then again if that's his comedy act I doubt I'd find it funny anyway. Thing is I feel the same way about Kevin Spacey. I thought House of Cards was great, but now that it's clear he really is a power abusing sexual predator it gives a really ugly vibe to his work.
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basic hitler posted:I thought the incidents in question were in the early aughts? That would place them not when he was a super famous comic, but just a long time comedy writer and a working comic who sorta-directed pootie tang and something else nobody saw. Not a guy who could make or break your career if you said the wrong thing him. here's the source for that stuff. clipped the relevant bits: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/09/arts/television/louis-ck-sexual-misconduct.html quote:Afterward, they ran into Charna Halpern, the owner of influential improv theaters in Los Angeles and Chicago, where Ms. Goodman and Ms. Wolov performed, and relayed what had happened. “I didn’t know what to do, I didn’t know what to tell them to do,” said Ms. Halpern. Ms. Goodman and Ms. Wolov decided against going to the police, unsure whether what happened was criminal, but felt they had to respond in some way “because something crazy happened to us,” Ms. Goodman said. you're right though it was earlier than i remembered, so he wasn't the globally famous multimillionaire yet, and that's my bad for misremembering. but clearly he was still pretty influential in his bubble, since his agent was a big wheel who could do this kind of thing when his talent was threatened.
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Lando131 posted:Am I the only one that thinks the fact his comedy is about the sick things he actually did makes it even worse? Remember when they dug up old Cosby jokes about Spanish fly and used those to say he joked about raping women so it was nbd? No?
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 12:39 |
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Lando131 posted:Am I the only one that thinks the fact his comedy is about the sick things he actually did makes it even worse? Kinda creepy.
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 12:43 |
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He'll come back with a full head of hair, having lost several stone, reinventing himself as simply "Louis Székely". He'll no longer be funny, and it'll be a shame.
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 12:45 |
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Pharma bro Louis Székely rose to prominence after buying the rights to a cheap date rape drug and raising the price over 1000%
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 12:50 |
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I walked past a red box the other day and saw that that Lena Dunham can still get work after asualting her sister with a rock. Louis J.O. should be fine.
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what gets me is that it wasn't just CK, it was the industry around him, their instant instinct (like it always seems to be in almost EVERY organisation in these cases) was "close ranks around the man who got accused". like he was a grown adult and should have known that just being like "hey, mind if i jack off in front of you?" in front of professional colleagues with no preamble and then doing it even if they didn't consent was hosed up and wrong, but also the comedy circuit around him should have heard about that and gone, gently caress, ugh, who wants to hang out with this guy. instead they swept it under the rug because Protect The Man is just this beaten in dogma in nearly every industry all over the world.
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dpush posted:I walked past a red box the other day and saw that that Lena Dunham can still get work after asualting her sister with a rock. God is dead.
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Lando131 posted:
Working Girl is one of my favorite movies and Kevin Spacey was apparently playing a version of himself in his bit part. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTHoIehOkK0
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Android Blues posted:what gets me is that it wasn't just CK, it was the industry around him, their instant instinct (like it always seems to be in almost EVERY organisation in these cases) was "close ranks around the man who got accused". i'm pretty sure they all "consented" in the instances where he actually jerked off. albeit they may have felt pressured due to the professional power dynamic and that part's definitely slimey. really though i just think it's insulting to victims of actual violent rape or sexual assault to make the louie thing out to be traumatic sexual violence or something.
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this was probably inevitable. comedians have had too much cultural capital for too long for a while now. most successful ones seem to have obvious and almost compulsive mental problems. which is the fuel for their speaking 'awkward truths.' which is the whole shtick of comedy these days. i watched amy schumer after all the talk about her transformative feminism, etc., for instance, and it felt immediately obvious that her feminism was a means of acting out her own enormous personal insecurities. it's a matter of luck as to whether your compulsions turn progressive or regressive.
Zane fucked around with this message at 16:14 on Dec 7, 2017 |
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it must suck for his kids cause now theyre just gonna have to live with a) knowing their dads a public jerker and b) everyyyyone knows
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Yeah at it's core the pathetic man saying "can I jerk off?" and being all excited that finally someone wasn't viciously refusing him jerking off that he exuberantly does it while she awkwardly waited for it to stop. That's mostly funny. I can't say I can imagine there was any trauma there. His agent definitely did some seedy poo poo but do you really think they were scared about retaliation from the fat man preparing to cum on himself? I imagine "bemused but also grossed out" is probably the limit of how strongly one would feel in such a situation.
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 16:27 |
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Did he try to stop anyone leaving the room?
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:10 |
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Lot of people who didn't read the article ittbasic hitler posted:This is not remotely like a boss asking to jerk off in front of an employee. quote:she was working as a performer and producer on a television pilot — a big step in her career — when Louis C.K., a guest star, approached her basic hitler posted:it's kind of weird that explicit consent between adults isn't enough anymore. Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I imagine "bemused but also grossed out" is probably the limit of how strongly one would feel in such a situation. Anyway yeah he'll be back in 2019 latest.
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Did he try to stop anyone leaving the room? quote:When he phoned her, he said he was sorry for shoving her in a bathroom. I think people aren't even realizing there were multiple incidents with different people? anyway I recommend reading the article
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:18 |
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Him make me laugh him jack off good funny
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Secular Humanist posted:i'm pretty sure they all "consented" in the instances where he actually jerked off. albeit they may have felt pressured due to the professional power dynamic and that part's definitely slimey. no they didn't, the article i linked has the account of the two women he j/oed in front of in the early 2000s. according to them he asked, they awkwardly laughed because they assumed it was a joke, and then he started doing it seconds later. he said "well, i never did it in front of anyone who said no!" in his statement on the matter but he definitely DID do it in front of several people who just froze up in awkward fear and didn't say "yes" either.
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:20 |
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you know here are plenty of non-skeevy, socially acceptable, non-career destroying ways to ask out your coworkers
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naem posted:you know here are plenty of non-skeevy, socially acceptable, non-career destroying ways to ask out your coworkers There's no room for relationships there's just room to JERK IT
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Yeah at it's core the pathetic man saying "can I jerk off?" and being all excited that finally someone wasn't viciously refusing him jerking off that he exuberantly does it while she awkwardly waited for it to stop. That's mostly funny. I can't say I can imagine there was any trauma there. His agent definitely did some seedy poo poo but do you really think they were scared about retaliation from the fat man preparing to cum on himself? I imagine "bemused but also grossed out" is probably the limit of how strongly one would feel in such a situation. i think this underestimates just how hosed up it can feel to be sexually harassed in a work environment honestly, and this is a REALLY extreme form of sexual harassment. with respect i don't think most men have an emotional frame of reference for this kind of thing, but it does feel dehumanising and upsetting to be exposed to someone else's rank-rear end nasty sexuality without your consent. it becomes really clear that they don't see you as a person, and in a professional environment that's extra jarring because you can't just shrug it off with no consequences, you have to sit there and deal with the disrespect or seriously consider damaging your career or losing your job.
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:28 |
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Nah it's nothing I mean women are always seeing cocks every day as attested by multiple posters itt
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:33 |
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like imagine if your boss started giving you a backrub from behind and leaned down and whispered into your ear "god i love to poo poo and piss. i love making GBS threads and pissing in the bathroom at work. hrrh", only no one else in the office thinks this is weird and if you talk about it they'll roll their eyes like "come on, Ted's a good guy, he's just showing you that he likes you." this is how it feels to be exposed to a man's Genital Foibles as a woman
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:38 |
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I had a dream i looked like the german librarian from college and also had a yellow eye
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Android Blues posted:like imagine if your boss started giving you a backrub from behind and leaned down and whispered into your ear "god i love to poo poo and piss. i love making GBS threads and pissing in the bathroom at work. hrrh", only no one else in the office thinks this is weird and if you talk about it they'll roll their eyes like "come on, Ted's a good guy, he's just showing you that he likes you." Seems like i would probably put up with depending on the pay. Like, for a million dollars im p sure i would let a supervisor belch out a 5 second long queef in my face during quarterly review
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:46 |
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Lol at the dude posting hookup app convos where dudes call him handsome. An unexpected humblebrag in this, the jerkoff ha-ha man thread
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 17:52 |
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Masturbating clown dads got no place in a polite society. I wouldnt blame him for trying but goddamned he is a misereable pathetic peice of poo poo but this time hes not joking so its not really funny at all.
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 18:53 |
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Hustlin Floh posted:Lol at the dude posting hookup app convos where dudes call him handsome. An unexpected humblebrag in this, the jerkoff ha-ha man thread Kinda makes u wonder how long he's been holding it in. Like, did he just give up after 5 months of ITT threads and go "whelp, i think the thread about louis ck jacking off in front of women is the closest i am gonna get to brag about trolling for mangina on grindr, better post here"
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 21:46 |
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Hustlin Floh posted:Lol at the dude posting hookup app convos where dudes call him handsome. An unexpected humblebrag in this, the jerkoff ha-ha man thread Thank you, I was wondering if we were just gonna let him get away with this
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 22:01 |
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SCROTO TURBOSPERG posted:Kinda makes u wonder how long he's been holding it in. Like, did he just give up after 5 months of ITT threads and go "whelp, i think the thread about louis ck jacking off in front of women is the closest i am gonna get to brag about trolling for mangina on grindr, better post here"
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 22:01 |
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SCROTO TURBOSPERG posted:Kinda makes u wonder how long he's been holding it in. Like, did he just give up after 5 months of ITT threads and go "whelp, i think the thread about louis ck jacking off in front of women is the closest i am gonna get to brag about trolling for mangina on grindr, better post here" The best part is Blade Runner is the guy who humblebragged about sleeping with >100 women so all in all this is the humble bragoff 2017
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Ham Sandwiches posted:The best part is Blade Runner is the guy who humblebragged about sleeping with >100 women so all in all this is the humble bragoff 2017 Memory implants. He’s never actually hosed
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e: not worth it
walgreenslatino fucked around with this message at 22:18 on Dec 7, 2017 |
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My bragging is not humble it is just outright Also if I looked like Ryan Gosling the need for memory implants of my loving would be needless, the loving would merely come to me automatically
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 22:09 |
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kinda sad how many people think this isn't that bad for whatever weak rear end excuse they can come up with because they can't accept a funny man is an abusive douche not surprised a mod is defending it though based on sa mod history lol
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# ? Dec 7, 2017 22:10 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Memory implants. He’s never actually hosed If they had memory implants of loving famous people or hot ladies I would absolutely consider it total recall really failed to think through the potential of the technology Let's see this weekend the Paris Hilton disinterested gently caress staring at the camera or the Pamela Anderson sex boat cruise
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Hustlin Floh posted:Lol at the dude posting hookup app convos where dudes call him handsome. An unexpected humblebrag in this, the jerkoff ha-ha man thread SCROTO TURBOSPERG posted:Kinda makes u wonder how long he's been holding it in. Like, did he just give up after 5 months of ITT threads and go "whelp, i think the thread about louis ck jacking off in front of women is the closest i am gonna get to brag about trolling for mangina on grindr, better post here" walgreenslatino posted:Thank you, I was wondering if we were just gonna let him get away with this
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:^) e: y'all need to love yourselves, I can't help you with that Cubone fucked around with this message at 23:19 on Dec 7, 2017 |
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