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Turrurrurrurrrrrrr posted:a/s/l? 19/f/florida u? 
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Apr 28, 2022 13:23
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Poohs Packin posted:Everyone uses dating apps, its 2022. Ive been in two LTRs off of dating apps and am happily married (didn't meet wife on an app though). I'm socially confident and have my poo poo together. Meeting people in bars is a much bigger mistake lol. Ok but technically you did end up marrying the woman you didn't meet on the app, so I'm calling this a draw.
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Apr 28, 2022 13:33
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Yeah I met her volunteering at a summer camp (she also worked there). Try getting involved with some sort of organisation that isn't church, OP, if the apps aren't your style. Join Rotary and catch Chlamydia from a 68 year old, for example.
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Apr 28, 2022 13:42
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Attractive man in his "golden years" looking for a nice woman to laugh, love and get old with. If you feel this describes you, PM me
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Apr 28, 2022 13:43
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yeah its pretty hosed, im 34 and have been in a relationship for 11 years so we've seen the entire way dating works changes and along with it all of our friends turn into husks. I know like three people that are in LTRs and none of them met on dating apps.
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Apr 28, 2022 13:52
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I'm a nerd and not very good looking, but I met my wife on OKC and we've been happily together for 7 years now. Before that I dated a few people I met online, it was just a lot easier for me than going out after work given my schedule at the time. I'm sure it's tougher now, though. Especially since I'd assume a lot of single people spent the last ~2 years either just virtually dating or not dating at all. Seems like that would lead to an influx of horny and awkward people online. Even more than normal, I mean.
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Apr 28, 2022 13:54
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Yaldabaoth posted:The thing to remember is most of the people using dating apps are people who are too awkward or broken to just meet someone at the usual social settings like a bar. Tinder and similiar apps is the norm for dating now, grandpa
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Apr 28, 2022 13:55
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yugioh mishima posted:although in my anecdotal experience there are a lot of people i know especially late 20s/early 30s types who seem to just prefer being single now maybe, but it's really easy to tell yourself that you're happy with the way things are when you don't think there's any possibility of a change.
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Apr 28, 2022 14:52
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Being single is awesome. Within these walls I live without judgment. Let presentable Das Boo live outside like the socially-acceptable animal she is.
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Apr 28, 2022 14:57
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Single means you can wear a gown with no underwear and let piss and poo fall where it may
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Apr 28, 2022 14:59
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slam whale holy grail
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Apr 28, 2022 15:15
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how about we start a goon dating thread? I mean, what's the worst that could happen?
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Apr 28, 2022 15:17
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Das Boo posted:Being single is awesome. Within these walls I live without judgment. Let presentable Das Boo live outside like the socially-acceptable animal she is. You might like this then https://twitter.com/PervisTime/status/1511881156408532995?t=TfqdqrhATAhAe-RxRY6b3g&s=19 
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Apr 28, 2022 15:38
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on the other hand https://twitter.com/PervisTime/status/1498045309104136195
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Apr 28, 2022 15:43
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Online dating apps have followed the same trajectory as social media in general. For a while it was good and fun, people were excited about this cool new medium, and times were good. Now the good will is over, everyone is caught in a toxic mixture of mutual distrust and dishonest vanity, and it's just bad. It's not impossible to get something good out of it, but it's not anything like it used to be. People who say online dating is good because they met their spouse on it ten years ago are akin to boomers who think the best way to get in a job is to walk into a business unannounced and give the manager a firm handshake.
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Apr 28, 2022 15:48
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Apr 28, 2022 15:56
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Well then what's your problem with the "dating scene"?
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Apr 28, 2022 15:58
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Collapsing Farts posted:Well then what's your problem with the "dating scene"? CHANCLA CULTURE
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Apr 28, 2022 16:00
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Sorry OP, all of your potential dates were aborted by democrats.
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Apr 28, 2022 16:16
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Collapsing Farts posted:Oh, and back in the dating days I basically didn't get any matches if I wrote my height on Tinder, as I was deemed unworthy for being short. Once I got rid of that information though I got dates left and right and most of them went well. Short people, you too can prevail~ If I remember right, some of the tinder type sites will basically throw your profile in the garbage bin if you hit certain criteria. I know it used to be having too high or low of a like/reject rate would do it, wouldnt surprise me if they algorithmically scoured the actual profile info for flags too. I met my wife on OKCupid in 2010, the online dating scene was hosed then and is turbofucked now. Getting involved in some kind of in-person social activity is almost certainly your best bet.
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Apr 28, 2022 16:21
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Meme Poker Party posted:Online dating apps have followed the same trajectory as social media in general. For a while it was good and fun, people were excited about this cool new medium, and times were good. Now the good will is over, everyone is caught in a toxic mixture of mutual distrust and dishonest vanity, and it's just bad. It's not impossible to get something good out of it, but it's not anything like it used to be. This is spot on.
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Apr 28, 2022 16:52
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roomtone posted:on the other hand Getting personally attacked like this on my way back home after an otherwise great day 
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Apr 28, 2022 16:58
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Bad Purchase posted:just move in with a good friend and enjoy having a roommate that you get along with, can watch movies or play games with, cook together, laugh together, cry together, and support each other through thick and thin. hey 
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Apr 28, 2022 16:59
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numberoneposter posted:i was so bad at dating but somehow i have a baby on the way 18 years of child support payments?
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Apr 28, 2022 17:08
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kntfkr posted:hey *avoids eye contact, awkwardly changes the subject to the latest elden ring meta builds*
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Apr 28, 2022 17:19
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We were going to game together but there's only one controller! Woops I guess we'll have to take turns giving each other brojobs while the other plays 
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Apr 28, 2022 18:58
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Here's some interesting stuff about the topic, it's true https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-pk93929764&t=54s
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Apr 28, 2022 19:10
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need the sigma grindset op
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Apr 28, 2022 19:14
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You mean sigmoid grindset
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Apr 28, 2022 19:16
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idk what "the dating scene" is i just met someone and we had sex and now were still having sex
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Apr 28, 2022 19:34
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HORSE-SLAUGHTERER posted:idk what "the dating scene" is Act 2, scene 1. Interior, a nightclub, 9pm
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Apr 28, 2022 19:49
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last night I went on a date with a cute bubbly girl that can't go 3 seconds without giggling. we went painting. after a few hours of painting moons we wandered around the neighbourhood and found a deli place that was open at 9:50 still. we went in and I bought a strawberry shortcake plate for us to share. which we ate sitting on the ground in the parking lot talking about how much we like strawberries. online dating is trash. The only two apps that are worth a poo poo at all are hinge and okcupid, both actually work free. Don't just send likes , send messages. I usually just sent this boilerplate in association to one of her text bio bits. quote:Hey I love your energy! Went from a 0% hit rate to maybe 3%. And for god's sake smile in your pictures and do them outside. Carry the conversation by asking specific questions and to arrange a coffee/dinner date within the first 15 messages with the prompt of something like "How would you like to go out for coffee and you can tell me more about <thing she's interested in>". Then at the end of the date prompt her to fill in her phone number into your phone's contacts. basically just get her off of the dating app as fast as possible.
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Apr 28, 2022 19:52
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Methanar posted:last night I went on a date with a cute bubbly girl that can't go 3 seconds without giggling. we went painting. after a few hours of painting moons we wandered around the neighbourhood and found a deli place that was open at 9:50 still. we went in and I bought a strawberry shortcake plate for us to share. which we ate sitting on the ground in the parking lot talking about how much we like strawberries. Pay money and you get dates? Sounds like a pimp.
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Apr 28, 2022 20:10
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Never went on a date, never wanted to go on one. Why date when I got video games?
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hatoful boyfriend is a video game about dating, among other things. might be a good way to see if you like the experience.
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Apr 28, 2022 20:13
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Lamebot posted:Pay money and you get dates? Sounds like a pimp. What's the point of having money if you don't spend it on other people. It's basically the closest you can come to buying happiness tbh
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Methanar posted:What's the point of having money if you don't spend it on other people. It's basically the closest you can come to buying happiness tbh very true. well, after drugs, sex, art, books, games, pets, good food, hobby stuff, etc. of course, but that goes without saying.
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Apr 28, 2022 20:32
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Tiberius Christ posted:You might like this then This comic is also about me being ace, so it's double relatable!
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Methanar posted:And for god's sake smile in your pictures and do them outside. I mean Yeah, pretty much. Wasting too much time online in a dating app is a death sentence, the other person is either wasting your time or bound to think you're wasting theirs.
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