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Scathach posted:Definitely not awful at all! I left a toxic, 7.5yr marriage not long ago. I can't believe how different I look and feel. One of my friends told me, "Welcome back to the world of the living." Very apt. I just got engaged to someone that values me just as I am and treats me like a person should be treated. I can't believe how much I'd missed out on without even knowing it. Thank-you!! Congratulations on your engagement! And I think that in some ways we are lucky, because we really do know what a person looks like now, who values you and treats you well. I missed nearly all of my 20's, and it showed for a long time, but I am back baby! And as disgusting as some people think it is, most folks seem to like me a lot better now. Being around a douchebag so much sometimes turns you into a bit of one as well!!!
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Thanks! I'm excited as hell. And yeah, at least we both know what red flags to look for. The poo poo part is that about fifteen of my friends-- including one deceased friend's mother-- came forward after to tell me they saw how bad it was getting and were happy I got out. I mean, I was too dumb and in love and so worried about "fixing" things that I wouldn't have listened to them if they came to me when I had been married, but drat.
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The first several times that I met his friends, they all told me what an rear end in a top hat he was. They were being genuine, I thought they were just being smartass friends. They are now... my friends.. and not his. Infact, many people told me what a jackass he was. I feel like you aren't supposed to speak ill of the dead or something... but I think he's just dead to me, not the world ----poor world. I think that I can have one day to feel irritated about it. I pretty much never think of him anymore. And by pretty much I mean.. never, really.
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Feb 24, 2017 03:19
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I'm married and love my wife. Also my dogs. PS my grandpa is dying of cancer in his bed next to me. Drinking some beer and hoping he makes it through the night
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Feb 24, 2017 03:22
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Not to shift the tone too much but today I was supposed to buy a turkey roast but got pork instead. It's gonna be delicious anyway 
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Inzombiac posted:Not to shift the tone too much but today I was supposed to buy a turkey roast but got pork instead.
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drat, RC 
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It just sucks that he's going so fast. My uncle(his son) died of liver/pancreatic cancer in December. He found out he had metastasized bladder cancer in January and it looks like he's gonna die this weekend. Also found out my grandma's(on the other side) cancer came back and is in her gall bladder, liver, spleen, and colon. And today she found out the person filing her paperwork hosed up and she can't get her chemo this Wednesday and they're demanding she pay for her last session that wasn't pre approved because her doctor hosed up. So she's super upset. It can probably get fixed with a few phone calls but now she's questioning if it's worth it to even get it and just let the cancer take her... kinda sad atm
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Feb 24, 2017 04:10
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Sorry I'm venting here. I'm the optimist in the family and can't talk about it to anyone
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Feb 24, 2017 04:11
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Vent as much as you need, friend!
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Feb 24, 2017 04:21
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I ripped half my finger scab off accidentally this evening. That was annoying.
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That's absolutely awful. No one here will complain about you talking about what's going on.
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Feb 24, 2017 04:31
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gently caress cancer
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Feb 24, 2017 04:45
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Josh Lyman posted:Did you also get mashed potatoes? Yeah, made them in an pressure cooker and some brussel sprouts.
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RC Cola posted:gently caress cancer Agreed. gently caress cancer. My fiance has had it in the form of spinal tumors for the past two years, but he got lucky and as of two months ago it's in remission. Cancer scares the hell outta me. Vent all you want. E: vv yeah he's sweet as hell, honestly a big teddybear. I met his dog before I met him, Mr. Beefy has the same temperament. Scathach has a new favorite as of 06:15 on Feb 24, 2017 |
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Scathach posted:Also means I now have a cute puppy And a big brown dog too New dude looks like a sweetheart  E: oh wow bad news page, sorry errybody Somfin has a new favorite as of 06:03 on Feb 24, 2017 |
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LITERALLY A BIRD posted:Is this from a political rally/march? I've been going to a lot of those recently. bless you for being active in this kind of stuff RC Cola posted:It just sucks that he's going so fast. My uncle(his son) died of liver/pancreatic cancer in December. He found out he had metastasized bladder cancer in January and it looks like he's gonna die this weekend. sometimes that can be a mercy, my father passed away sometime ago and cancer took him quick and hard; he felt it was for the best since it didn't take him so fast that he couldn't make appropriate preparations but neither did he stick around for very long in that miserable state either i hope you're doing alright yourself 
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My grandfather on my mother's side had a stroke a few years back. He had trouble communicating, the wrong words coming out, and eventually couldn't speak at all as time wore on. My grandmother couldn't take care of him after a while, and he had to be put into a nursing home. He languished there for too long. I barely visited him, which I definitely feel like an rear end in a top hat for, but it was so hard to see him like that. He passed away last October, and I did feel some relief. It seemed to me like he had died awhile back, and his body just caught up. I know we don't really know what's going on inside the head of someone like that, but I imagine if there's anything like consciousness going on, it must be hell. So for him not to suffer anymore, I was relieved. But I also realized, at the funeral, how much I missed him, and that hurt. I am sure I would have been more upset if he had died suddenly without going through what he did, but through the lens of what he did go through, I feel like that might have been better for him, ultimately. The human body sucks sometimes. Sad grandpa chat is a bummer. Is that a Nails shirt? Or something with the same font?
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My maternal grandmother and maternal great-grandmother were the only grandparents still alive when I was born.  Now just my grandmother. So I only understand grandfathers as a concept.
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Hey guys, you know what's cool? Weed. Any of you smoked a weed before?
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Kitchner posted:Hey guys, you know what's cool? Weed. Any of you smoked a weed before? I know cool. And cool's teamin' up with a good balanced breakfast.
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Kitchner posted:Hey guys, you know what's cool? Weed. Any of you smoked a weed before? That actually just looks like a cigar.
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Feb 24, 2017 13:09
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Weed is cool. And good. IMHO
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Feb 24, 2017 13:21
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It snowed an inch so of course everyone is driving like an idiot.
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I lost my grandma to cancer and my grandpa to alzheimer's. Both were awful to witness amd difficult to talk about. So here's a picture of the guilty spider monkey, Mel. 
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Feb 24, 2017 15:31
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She even looks like an evil finger biting monkey.
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Feb 24, 2017 15:42
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Mel was framed. 
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Feb 24, 2017 15:43
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Detective Thompson posted:Is that a Nails shirt? Or something with the same font? It's a Reagan Youth shirt, this one specifically. http://m.ebay.com/itm/172427581555?roken=cUgayN&_mwBanner=1
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whiteyfats posted:I'm the weed tray. I'm the green boy shorts
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This is my friend Kulani. She's staying at the clinic because her owner passed and his family can't take care of her. Unfortunately I'm not in the position to give her a home but I do give her plenty of attention and scritches and I'm her favorite person there  
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It 79*F in February but climate change was totally made up by China right
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LITERALLY A BIRD posted:This is my friend Kulani. She's staying at the clinic because her owner passed and his family can't take care of her. Unfortunately I'm not in the position to give her a home but I do give her plenty of attention and scritches and I'm her favorite person there I wish I could take this birb, but I can't even have my own where I'm staying right now.
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Kitchner posted:Hey guys, you know what's cool? Weed. Any of you smoked a weed before? What is the point of this comment? Are you mad at me? What's the issue here?
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Kitchner posted:So I took a poo poo selfie while walking between stations on the London underground: Jesus dude, lose some weight already.
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LifeSunDeath posted:Jesus dude, lose some weight already. 
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Update is grandpa is alive still, but if he makes it through the weekend I'll eat my shoes
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LITERALLY A BIRD posted:This is my friend Kulani. She's staying at the clinic because her owner passed and his family can't take care of her. Unfortunately I'm not in the position to give her a home but I do give her plenty of attention and scritches and I'm her favorite person there Oh HEY! You would love my dumbass bird Charlie! He is so cute! If you ignore the broken keyboards and constant chattering, he is amazing. Serious, I love him. His favorite thing is judging me harshly while I clean his outdoor enclosure. 
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