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Rad-daddio posted:Why is "no Asians or blacks" so common? Asking as a straight married dude btw. Gay people are just like everyone else: racist and stupid
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Dating as an adult sounds exhausting in general, glad I got that poo poo all finished when I was still in college
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purple death ray posted:Gay people are just like everyone else: racist and stupid Just the ones from earth.
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Jack-Off Lantern posted:Try being gay and Asian, but not exactly a hairless adonis twink. So... soft mode?
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Someone had something to say on this topic:quote:ok so as a gay asian male in university in a western country i notice that the 90% of people messaging me on grindr are gross old white men who openly state they have a fetish for asian boys. i dont really get replies from anyone relatively normal looking on grindr. Honestly I'm not really sure what distinguishes this fesh from any of the normal posts we've seen ITT but sure I can post it for you And also I've never gotten a gently caress on Grindr at all on account of (a) I'm straight and (b) the smartphone era had literally just barely started when I met my wife, I was going on hearsay there 
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That came up in the Tinder.jpg thread a couple times. E: and here apparently?
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LanceHunter posted:It's like the incel movement (it's society's fault that I'm so lonely!) and the anti-vax movement (all medical science is lying because it makes me feel bad!) melded together into one super-movement. Lesbian TERFs can be similar sometimes. Lots of talking about how trans masculine people are just really butch lesbians being transed. So they get mad that trans men they find attractive pre-transition are now not attractive to them. And they think trans women are trying to corrupt lesbians into being straight or something. And bisexual women are traitors if they date men. Basically, a lot of them are mad because they think their dating pool is being hosed with by trans people and bisexual people.
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Araenna posted:Lesbian TERFs can be similar sometimes. Lots of talking about how trans masculine people are just really butch lesbians being transed. So they get mad that trans men they find attractive pre-transition are now not attractive to them. And they think trans women are trying to corrupt lesbians into being straight or something. And bisexual women are traitors if they date men. Basically, a lot of them are mad because they think their dating pool is being hosed with by trans people and bisexual people. It never ceases to amaze me how, as a bi male, I've never really gotten any poo poo from gay dudes (barring the occasional 'oh he's gay he just can't quite admit it to himself' knowing smirk, which is obnoxious but not exactly hateful) but most bi women I know have at least one story about being harangued by a lesbian.
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Harangued by a Lesbian is the unfinished Jack Chick tract we will never see.
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El_Elegante posted:Harangued by a Lesbian is the unfinished Jack Chick tract we will never see. Did someone say harangued by a lesbian? 
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El_Elegante posted:Harangued by a Lesbian is the unfinished Jack Chick tract we will never see. it's also my next username
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quote:I still live with my parents, and everyone I know already knows that I'm dying to be able to afford to move out, for a number of perfectly ordinary reasons. But what nobody knows is that my real number one reason for wanting to have my own place is because I like to eat raw meat sometimes, and I'm tired of feeling like I have to hide it as if it were a drug habit. Because my parents, and likely many of you, would be judgmental as gently caress and grossed out. And yes I know I risk getting sick from it, I don't care. Pork is the only kind I won't eat raw. I mean, you ever look at a cut of raw beef and go "yeah I'd eat that, it looks fuckin good" because I've def thought that. It's just, y'know, better cooked, because cooking things makes them taste better, it's a whole thing Glad you don't eat raw pork but raw chicken is super gross in addition to dangerous so don't eat that either please quote:Hi goons. yeah if you're pushing whiskey-dick into a "really trashy girl" you should probably spring for a condom bud, or else, well, this might happen
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loquacius posted:I mean, you ever look at a cut of raw beef and go "yeah I'd eat that, it looks fuckin good" because I've def thought that. It's just, y'know, better cooked, because cooking things makes them taste better, it's a whole thing at least chlamydia is easily treatable nowadays. maybe not pleasant to have treated, but easy
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Lmao when you find out u got it make sure you blame ur ex for it and guilt her about it forever
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Meat goon, just be safe in preparation and do some sides and it's exotic, not weird. https://www.chefsteps.com/activities/classic-steak-tartare I mean if you're just shoveling raw hamburger into your maw hand over fist that's still gross.
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Nooner posted:Lmao when you find out u got it make sure you blame ur ex for it and guilt her about it forever just lol if you haven't had pretty much every non-serious STD
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Maybe it’s just the music and art scenes I hung out in but college and post-graduate aged millennial women are super-duper blase’ about HPV and basically blanketly assuming that they have it and you’re 100% gonna get it if you ever wanna have sex using non-condom protection. I never got anything as far as I’m aware because I get checked very regularly like every 3-6 months unless I’m in a thing. It’s the responsible thing to do!
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Bust Rodd posted:Maybe it’s just the music and art scenes I hung out in but college and post-graduate aged millennial women are super-duper blase’ about HPV and basically blanketly assuming that they have it and you’re 100% gonna get it if you ever wanna have sex using non-condom protection. 95% of people clear HPV from their body within a year, and then most of the remainder by the second year. Having actual symptoms is pretty drat rare. If you've had unprotected sex with a number of people you've probably had HPV at one point.
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Bust Rodd posted:Maybe it’s just the music and art scenes I hung out in but college and post-graduate aged millennial women are super-duper blase’ about HPV and basically blanketly assuming that they have it and you’re 100% gonna get it if you ever wanna have sex using non-condom protection. quote:I never got anything as far as I’m aware because I get checked very regularly like every 3-6 months unless I’m in a thing. It’s the responsible thing to do! kazr posted:95% of people clear HPV from their body within a year, and then most of the remainder by the second year. Having actual symptoms is pretty drat rare. If you've had unprotected sex with a number of people you've probably had HPV at one point. Everyone please just get vaccinated, jeez. It doesn't protect against all strains, but it does protect against the most common ones. Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 18:37 on Jun 26, 2019 |
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Bust Rodd posted:Maybe it’s just the music and art scenes I hung out in but college and post-graduate aged millennial women are super-duper blase’ about HPV and basically blanketly assuming that they have it and you’re 100% gonna get it if you ever wanna have sex using non-condom protection. Unless you’re getting anal cytology done, you have zero clue what your hpv status is.
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Anne Whateley posted:
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LoL I just asked my mom if I got the HPV vaccine when they released it (I was in 5th grade) and she went “ummmmmmmmm, maaaaybe? I dunno I signed anything you brought home.”
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You didn't, it wasn't on-label for men/boys for years after its initial release. If you were in fifth grade in 2006, you would've gotten it in high school, and that's only if you were f5ing waiting for it to be approved for boys. If you don't remember it, most likely you didn't get it. It was a series of 3 shots months apart.
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I feel like sharing. Since this is the Anonymous Confessions thread and none of you people know me, I also want to say that, though a lot of people don't have noticeable symptoms and it doesn't seem like a big deal anymore, HPV super duper CAN be a big deal. When I was 17 and almost two years into what I thought was a monogamous relationship, I very suddenly came down with a case of like 8 warts. In the last place you'd want them. It was 1993, so as soon as the exam started the doctor takes one look and goes "well, I see you have a boyfriend" in a disapproving tone. And then later, as I sat on the table crying after hearing my diagnosis, my doctor comforted me with "well, maybe next time you'll pick a cleaner partner" to which I managed to reply pathetically "but I have it and I'm not a dirty person!" He at least had the decency to look a little ashamed of himself. Anyhow, so that sucked, but the worst part was trying to get rid of that poo poo. Oh my God. They came back twice and I had to get them lasered off. Then years of abnormal paps and cancer scares, then a couple different biopsies - one so painful, they had to stop at one point because I just started laughing hysterically at the utter insanity of putting someone through this with no anesthetic. Like, "what the gently caress are we even doing right now this is fuckin crazy HAHAHAHAHA," while wiping away tears of both pain and laughter. I haven't had any warts since like 1995 and my paps have been normal since the year the vaccine came out. Ironically. I'm a little bitter that vaccine came out too late for me, but thank god it did eventually for everyone else. That is all. I mainly just wanted to tell you all an old-fashioned VD horror story to scare you into acting right.
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"no, Mr. Bond, I expect you to be more careful."
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HoAssHo posted:I feel like sharing. Since this is the Anonymous Confessions thread and none of you people know me, I also want to say that, though a lot of people don't have noticeable symptoms and it doesn't seem like a big deal anymore, HPV super duper CAN be a big deal. This User Name/Post Combo is 
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Every single person I know who's had an STD has been far more hosed up by the sense of shame than the actual health consequences
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Not a Children posted:Every single person I know who's had an STD has been far more hosed up by the sense of shame than the actual health consequences I had a coworker that almost die because herpes spread to her brain. When she came back after a month she had clearly lost a a lot of IQ points, evidence by the clear lack of shame in telling everyone her herpes almost killed her.
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My friend got Herpes from a Tindr date and then spread it to a separate women before symptoms showed up. He was in bed sweating with fever and weeping sores for 3 days, and when he finally came too and turned his phone back on he had approximately 1,000 missed calls from the woman he gave it to, who told him she’d been puking for 3 days. This is also a rare dude who LITERALLY always wears condoms, the even in committed relationships, because he’d gotten the Clap like 7 years ago and we never stopped making fun of him for it, so he felt extra stupid because he really thought he was being safe and responsible. Until then I had no idea STDs could affect you in so many different ways. Tangentially: the Mutter museum in Philly has a glass case filled with human skulls that are deformed by syphilis. People’s entire faces caved in from the weight of these massive bone spikes growing out of their heads. Good Lord!
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quote:Formerly married cheater goon here. this story is great because everyone was expecting a huge drama bomb and it was a wet drama fart quote:I have done nothing at work for months. Months ago, they gave me a bunch of files (thousands) to upload to the office's system. The first week, I found out that I couldn't upload the files and spent that week trying to troubleshoot this. My social anxiety is crippling so I didn't ask for help, and now it's too late, because in the time since, I spent every single one of my shifts doing nothing. If someone walks past me, I open one of the files and pretend like I'm in the middle of uploading it, but for the rest of the time I'm browsing the forums. I have been pretending and getting paid for it for months now. There's no way for them to check if the files are uploaded unless they specifically went looking for them and they wouldn't do that unless they thought I wasn't working so as long as I keep up the illusion I'll be fine. I don't feel guilty, just nervous about being caught, but at the same time I can just feign ignorance if they do catch me and be like "I thought the files were uploading, I guess something went wrong!" Feels good to get this off my chest, I am a literal fraud and have been being paid to browse the SA forums. This is my first real job. huh I've had jobs where I got paid to do nothing, but not jobs where my bosses thought I was doing stuff but I wasn't Well, in either case, even without that angle, having a job like this will slowly kill your self-esteem and drive you insane, so if I were you I'd spend your daytime hours finding a new one so you can get the gently caress out before this blows up
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I love those "I'm paid to do nothing" stories. If my boss even catches me sitting down, I get a telling off.
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Two things 1) If you want to maybe sort this out, contact tech support and pretend you just suddenly lost access. 2) Why is this a job instead of a small batch script
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Splicer posted:2) Why is this a job instead of a small batch script Because IT is almost always a bafflingly inefficient shitshow. 10 to 1 no one in his department even knows how to write that script.
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The Bible posted:Because IT is almost always a bafflingly inefficient shitshow. 10 to 1 no one in his department even knows how to write that script. Being able to script out routine tasks is one hell of a useful skill. Especially when you're given some huge menial job that they expect will take you a month, so you spend a few hours automating it, and then sit back and watch as the whole job does itself in two minutes. Then you get to choose whether to spend the next month getting paid to slack off and do nothing, or watch everyone's jaw hit the floor when you stroll in and say it's done.
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Splicer posted:Two things The Wire season where they sit around watching a UI for days for some data they could have gotten in seconds with a query bugged me.
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Powered Descent posted:Being able to script out routine tasks is one hell of a useful skill. Especially when you're given some huge menial job that they expect will take you a month, so you spend a few hours automating it, and then sit back and watch as the whole job does itself in two minutes. Then you get to choose whether to spend the next month getting paid to slack off and do nothing, or watch everyone's jaw hit the floor when you stroll in and say it's done.
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Powered Descent posted:Being able to script out routine tasks is one hell of a useful skill. Especially when you're given some huge menial job that they expect will take you a month, so you spend a few hours automating it, and then sit back and watch as the whole job does itself in two minutes. Then you get to choose whether to spend the next month getting paid to slack off and do nothing, or watch everyone's jaw hit the floor when you stroll in and say it's done. The only reward for a job well done is another job, so I usually sit on it for a bit.
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