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Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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Just break out a magic sponge.

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Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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psydude posted:

Here's a fun tip:

Roaches. You will get them eventually, and if you think you won't then you're either stupid or a patient with severe retrograde amnesia caused by dementia or alcoholism. One easy way to combat the problem (aside from doing your dishes as soon as you're done cooking and eating) is to put all of your bagged snack foods (chips, pretzels, etc.) in ziploc bags as soon as they're opened.
What kind of squalor had you been living in for you to think "keep food in sealed containers" is an amazing, innovative tip? No wonder you think roaches are inevitable, dude.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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TapTheForwardAssist posted:

I'm buying a variety of new household stuff, having settled into a place more since I'm traveling less for work. Tired of using interim crap, I'm trying to carefully choose decent-quality, ergonomic, stylish stuff even for basic things like a toaster, can opener, etc. For whatever reason, I'm kind of hung up on the issue of what kitchen trash-can to get.

I'm looking for something small-ish, because I'm just one person and don't like leaving trash sitting any longer than necessary, so even a small one, like 30 liter, should do me fine. Like in this pic, or even a little smaller:



Amazon and the local shops seem to be really pushing the Simplehuman line of trash cans, but the reviews on them are actually kind of mixed, and they seem to deliberately design them to not work well with bags other than the SH-brand bags, which of course cost 5-10x what generic trashbags cost at the shop.

Is there some better option for a small kitchen trash can which is of reasonable quality and takes some type of generally affordable trash bag? Is there some brand of more biodegradable trash bags that hip people are supposed to be using these days?
I save my grocery bags for trash. I live alone, and I don't want to wait to fill a trash bag before taking it out. Simplehuman has a few different models designed to use grocery bags. If you have space under the sink, look for "simplehuman cabinet-mount grocery bag can with bag holder"; good reviews on Amazon.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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cuntvalet posted:

That said, how do you guys get over the 'first little while in a new place' jitters? Are night lights immature for a 23 year old woman living on her own?
I'm 25 and I moved into my own place a couple months ago. Make sure that your place is actually secure, then it will be easier to dismiss any night noises or shadows.

When I moved in, I had a new deadbolt installed (there wasn't one before). The locksmith I chose had fantastic reviews on Yelp, lived/worked pretty far away, and seemed like a really nice guy in general. Now I'm the only one with keys to my place. I always lock the deadbolt and the doorknob lock, and the chain when I'm home -- not out of fear, just automatically (I live in New York City, for reference).

Check your windows. If they're accessible, they should be locked. If it's riskier (fire escapes) or you need the airflow, you can get guards; some are cheap, some are attractive, landlords probably won't mind.

If you want, you can get deafeningly, painfully loud alarms for doors/windows for about $10-20.

My dad gave me a maglite, which is unlikely to be that useful for intruders, but I didn't visibly roll my eyes because it's a bright color that matches my place, and it's useful for power outages and examining my tonsils and poking a pigeon out from under my window AC. You might also like it as a security blanket kind of thing.

See if there's anything (besides the spray, which stopped, right?) that sets you off. My bed isn't far from my front door, which is right next to my neighbor's door. So when I was in bed, if I heard their keys in their lock, my brain would have a momentary "are those keys in MY lock?" Obviously not, but my brain wasn't awake enough to realize in time. So I put a little bell on my front door. Keys + bell = my place. Keys alone = not my place, brain can keep sleeping.

Tl;dr: Make your place secure for real, so it's really easy to remind your brain nothing is wrong.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
:ughh: Guns, tasers, knives, and pepper spray are all really terrible ideas unless you're trained and experienced. You at least can't gently caress up as hard with a maglite/bat/baton, although you still shouldn't expect them to do much except as a security blanket (again, without training).

Keeping your cell nearby is a good idea. Securing your place -- not just remembering to lock the door, but securing windows and everything else -- is by far the best thing you can do. It will actually have a positive effect and it can't be used against you.

If you have a house or if you get into it, see if you can find the Discovery Channel show "To Catch a Thief." It's not bad to watch and it's really eye-opening about your place's security (mostly houses though).

Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 01:19 on Aug 22, 2012

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words

Eggplant Wizard posted:

What's the most efficient way to clean a bathroom?

Today I tried using a Mr. Clean eraser on everything and it definitely took off the visible scum and whatnot, but I don't really believe it "worked" because I can still feel a kind of dusty residue on the bathtub. Usually I spray everything with a bleachy cleaner and wash it and wipe it down, but that takes forever and gets water everywhere. :saddowns: What do you all do?
Yeah, the eraser sands away, so if you use a whole sponge on your tub, you'll have plenty of dust in there. I always just use it when I'm in the shower; the dust gets washed right off and I never notice it. The eraser has to be wet to work anyway, so it's perfect. For right now I'd recommend just wiping down the surfaces with a wet paper towel to get the dust off.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words

Fixed Gear Guy posted:

Jesus christ, there is an original two-seater Knoll Saarinen pedestal on Craigslist for $250 and my girlfriend won't let me buy it because the edges have some nicks in them. :wtf:


Fake edit: she said this is beat up. :ughh:
I know what it is, but it still looks beat to poo poo, and not in a way you can DIY unless you really, really want to mess with laminate. I would just hold off and find another, less beat-up, one on craigslist in a few more months. If you're patient and good, craigslist will turn up whatever you're looking for. I'm waiting to find a good-condition black Barcelona ottoman myself :swoon:

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Just as a datapoint, my credit score has to be absolutely in the toilet, and I'm in New York, which is a really competitive market. I just got a nice place -- despite the credit check -- because I showed them paystubs, letter from employer, recommendation from last landlord (just the people I was subletting from), and bank balance. This was all standard on the application; they didn't make me jump through extra hoops or anything. I didn't even have a guarantor. I did put down a double security deposit, but I offered that and I'm not sure they'd have thought of that if I hadn't. They also gave me a one-year lease instead of a two-year lease, but I can renew for as long as I want anyway.

Tl;dr: If you have a job and some savings, it's possible to get a nice place even with abysmal credit.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words

Sound_man posted:

I live in an apartment and have an issue with the lighting in the kitchen. For an apartment the kitchen is large and well laid out but the only light is above the island. The sink is across from the island so while doing the dishes your body casts a shadow into the sink making it hard to see. It is just about time to renew the lease and I will see if the management company will add a light fixture.

As a plan B I could add some track lighting and run the cord across the ceiling and down the wall long the edge of the cabinets. Does anyone have any tricks for hiding a cord?
Not trying to be a jerk but this does not sound good. If you have cabinets near the sink, install a strip of LEDs underneath for task lighting. Or if your current wiring/fixture can handle it, can you just get brighter bulbs for the main fixture? I went from 120W to 180W to fix the same issue, and the difference was amazing. If you're already at the max rating, switch to CFLs, which use less energy but put out more light. If you don't want it that bright the whole time, it's easy to install a dimmer switch, too.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
It's totally an individual thing. It's like asking whether it's better to live in a big city or the middle of nowhere -- it just depends on you and your personality.

I got a place of my own at 25 and I love it. It's pricier than having a roommate, but I did a lot of scouting, and I wound up with a place I love for only a few hundred more. Living by myself is fantastic -- I couldn't like it more. But I have friends who would go nuts if they were alone for five minutes.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Place A seems so much better that it's weird you're going with B for the sake of a few minor things. Why not take A and then spend maybe $150 and half an hour on swapping out the shower fixture and faucets? Couldn't be easier. Stick the old stuff in the back of a closet and swap back when you move out.

As for the seat-making GBS threads, you're on your own, though. I don't want to know details but I suspect that's a goon thing rather than a size thing. I grew up in a 1920s house, my family (women included) ranges from 5'9" to 6'6", and it's never been an issue. I never knew it could be an issue.

Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 19:48 on Dec 15, 2012

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
I really don't think incredibly jumpy + convenient guns is a good combo; I would suggest looking at other solutions first.

I've posted before about simple, small alarms they sell at any Home Depot (etc.). You put one side on the door/window and one side on the wall, and whenever the halves aren't in contact, they make an alarm that is literally painfully loud. It won't telephone the cops, but you and your neighbors and the burglar are all going to be extremely aware of it. Nobody's going to be able to open anything stealthily. The downside is that you can't arm it on the door you're leaving from; you could only have 100% coverage when you're inside.

Cameras might help -- you can get cheap webcams and set them up so they only go on when there's motion, then stream or upload video.

Always use all the locks you've got and think about upgrading. It sounds like when the door opened, you only had a latch on? I would get used to using the deadbolt, chain, and anything else you've got 24/7. Hopefully the locks themselves are secure -- they have bumper plates and the deadbolt goes into a metal frame.

Also feel free to exaggerate a tiny bit to the cops. If they won't do anything unless someone came inside, are you sure you didn't hear a footstep in the foyer?

Obviously the goal is to gtfo, and I really hope you can get your landlord to accept it, but these might help in the meantime.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Usually burglars are just looking for an easy target. If you have a dog or a loud alarm, they'll probably just go for something that's easier. The fact that they've been scared off a couple times but they keep coming back means they think you have something really good. Money, guns, whatever.

Definitely don't leave your most important stuff there while you're away. See if you can lock it up at work, leave it at a friend's, get a bank box, put it in secure storage, anything but leaving it alone there for a week. Once they're in your place, they can do anything to get into your room, even just taking the door off the hinges. If your safe isn't a wall safe, or something similarly built in, they can just take it out and open it at their leisure.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
If it's paperwork or even small stuff like jewelry, take it with you. If your descriptions are accurate, then there are a handful of guys working together, so they're not going to have a problem carrying the safe. And after they've broken into your apartment, they're not going to be like "oh wait, we would have to move the couch to get the guns and ammo and money, guess we'll leave without any of it." If you're most concerned about losing your birth certificate or social security card or other little stuff, then don't leave it there for them.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
A lot of formal leases also have a provision about covering a certain percentage of the floor with rugs/carpets. It isn't usually enforced, but when you're dealing with noisy upstairs neighbors, see if that's included and push on it.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
If you look in the bottoms of cabinets (especially under sinks), you'll probably see what's up without looking like a big weirdo.

And just to be obvious, you definitely don't want to jump to the strongest insecticides right from the start -- especially preventatively -- because that's exactly what creates resistance. Life is going to suck if you have a herd of roaches running around, but it's going to suck way worse if those roaches are immune to the worst poisons we have.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
"No drama" in that situation barely gives me pause. Like I would note it, but it certainly wouldn't stop me from seeing the place and chatting to the landlord to find out what he was like. I would guess he just had a bad experience in the past, a couple that fought nonstop or someone who had the cops called on them or something. If I met him and he was nuts, obviously I would bail, but I think there's a good chance he just had a lovely craigslist tenant in the past.

The monthly pest control (from someone else's post) wouldn't bother me at all either. In New York, that kind of preventative maintenance is completely standard in big buildings. They always do common areas, and they leave a sign-up sheet in the lobby if you want your apartment done too. If you're in a big building where pest control is a hassle to get, and has to be called out just for you, then that's a huge red flag.

Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 16:17 on Feb 14, 2013

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Keeping your food in cupboards is definitely not enough. A mouse will go through a box of cereal or a plastic bag of rice like it wasn't even there. Invest heavily in Tupperware. And remember to keep things dry -- they're also looking for water around/under your sinks, in your bathtub, near a dripping faucet.

In general a mouse is pretty obvious, though. There will be visible droppings, or visible chew marks, or a visible furry flash.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
I don't know anything about latex mattresses, but if your mattress is thinner than usual, you will go through a special hell with your fitted sheets.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
How could you think anyone but you was responsible? Like what would be the chain of logic there?

Make an extra copy of your key and give it to your super/landlord (if you trust them) or a nearby friend.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Really depends on what you're into, but a little hobby area would be convenient. I would put a round chair (not a papasan, the folding kind) in the corner farther from the door, with its back into the corner. It looks like it'd be great to sit there using the sunlight to knit/sew/whatever. I would do a low, open, white Expedit-type thing under the window for storing colorful supplies, maybe a basket or vase on top. It looks like a taller bookcase would fit on the long wall on the other side.

Another, more general option would be a deeper, built-in-looking shelf for storing records or coffee-table books, with the top set up as a window seat.

That's a model apartment and not yours, right? If it is yours, putting that easy chair with its back to the door isn't doing the space any favors.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Maybe I'm missing something but it just sounds like their "virtual tour" could be in flash? You could check it out from a library computer if you think it might have some kind of auto-downloading malware, but seriously, don't underestimate brokers'/landlords' ability to have horrible websites.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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Haha, WINDOWSCODECPACKTOTALLYLEGIT.EXE is amazing.

If you're running into a ton of crap, are you maybe lowballing? When I was apartment-hunting in New York, looking for a cheap place, probably 90% of listings were fake or scammy (lots of "I'm out of the country so just wire me money and my buddy will drop off the key"). At higher price points, the ratio is dramatically different.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
For curtain rods, look at stores with nicer homegoods, even department stores like Macy's (bigger selection online) or Penney's if they still do that. Yeah, if you go to Home Depot you'll find builder-grade curtain rods; that shouldn't be a surprise. Mine are from Macy's, solid metal, pretty and unique finials. I'm sure the usual suspects (West Elm, Crate & Barrel, Room & Board, Anthropologie, even Urban Outfitters) have their own nice ones too. Don't be surprised when they're pricier than Home Depot's.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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There are no Ikeas in Queens so that doesn't work. :iiam:

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
$1200 for a piece of a shared house sounds insane anywhere in CT, unless you're in the depths of Fairfield County, but if you were then all your poo poo wouldn't be so lovely. Definitely price some comparable local options, either to use in the fight with your landlord, or just to move to instead.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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I have a sweet bachelorette setup (it's a studio, though) and it sounds like we have similar goals. A full bed isn't huge, but it's more than big enough. Get a captain's bed or a high frame so you can store things under it. The dual-monitor setup works best for me too. Your space is limited enough it makes sense to wall-mount the flatscreen. Unless your place is bigger than it looks, though, 40" (42" class?) may be too much.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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Those are probably actual listings to see if anyone's dumb enough to take the bait, but no, that is not how normal people live. There are plenty of options that are bigger, cheaper, and all-around saner. I have a 400(ish) sqft studio (separate kitchen, bathroom, hallways with closets, tons of perks like hardwood floors, elevators, prewar) near midtown for $1150. I had to look for it, but it wasn't unattainable. Even when I was paying $575 for one bedroom in a 2br, it wasn't like that.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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Well, I definitely think there are more crazy-bad listings than crazy-good listings. This is because there are tons of dipshits who move somewhere pricey and then go "hmm...maybe I could monetize my closet floor???" But it doesn't mean that anyone's taking them up on it, or that the setup will work if they do. You may notice almost all of those ads are for sublets, i.e. placed by idiot renters trying to fly under the radar. Few if any are being rented by actual landlords, who are obviously constrained by things like fire codes.

The exception is for places that are legal (ceiling height, windows, etc.) just without a lot of square footage. People do take those sometimes, because in New York, it's just not the norm to spend much time in your apartment. If you're only there to sleep and change clothes, it doesn't matter if it's small; convenience might be more important to you.

I think there may be a couple other things going on, like super old-school SROs and a boarding house, but it's hard to tell since they only include a word or two of the ads. In general, though, remember that just because ads are placed doesn't mean anyone's moving in.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words

Rated PG-34 posted:

How do you find these places? I went apartment hunting earlier this month and the best that 900 could get me was a 3br share in East Harlem. Granted, I'm looking in UES (Harlem isn't UES, CL listers :mad:), but still.
Well yeah, you can't get a great place at a good price in every neighborhood. The UES is pricey up until it's sketchy. Depending on where you're commuting to, try Astoria or (non-East) Harlem.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
If you live in an older building that has something more fun than drywall (like plaster and lath, or my personal archenemy plaster and chickenwire), do a lot more research before hanging anything heavy. Or hire a handyman.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Farberware is just fine for almost everything. Here's a good set on sale for $70, you can probably find it for less (I didn't look around at all). It has your pasta pot, two smaller saucepans, and two smaller nonstick pans for eggs. If you fancy then you can get a big skillet, cast-iron or All-Clad or whatever, but for everything else this set should be fine.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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Sorry if this is obvious, but consider the outer dimensions of the microwave. They're not super standardized, and it may be important for it to fit on a specific shelf or over your stove or whatever.

Don't cheap out on a vacuum, sorry, especially if anyone with longish hair is ever at your place. I have shoulder-length hair (and mostly hardwood), and cheapo vacuums do nothing and then die horribly. Shamefully, I had to get a vacuum advertised for pet hair. If you have mostly hardwood, you'll also want a Swiffer -- I like the Wet Jet kind.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Get the long ones and hem them :eng99:

Also be aware that if you're using a tension rod, the blackout curtains won't work as described; they'll be smaller than the window, so light will come in all around them.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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cheerfullydrab posted:

I was in Brooklyn last week and I've been thinking a lot about window AC units. All the ones I saw there and have seen on previous visits seem to be tiny and underpowered. Is that just a normal NYC thing?

My real question is, what kind of things can I use to fill in the space that my window unit's awful sidepieces don't cover? There are real gaps between the unit on the bottom and the sides, big enough that I can see outside and bugs can enter.

edit: I just checked, thanks to a sneaking suspicion, and I did ask the exact same question in May last year. I can't seem to remember at all what I did last summer, or what advice was given. I'm sorry for repeating myself and not learning any lessons.
Why do you think the window ACs are "tiny and underpowered"? Have you been in the apartments and noticed they're hot, or do window units just look small from the street? Because New York apartments are pretty small, and as long as you get a window unit with the correct BTU, you can definitely be comfortable with one.

It's not normal to rely on your AC's wings (but it's also not normal for those wings to have huge gaps, I suspect poor installation). Go to Home Depot and look at all the stuff in their AC area other than AC units. There are plenty of foam snakes, squares, wings, you name it. If hot air is getting through, let alone bugs, something is wrong for sure.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
Where are you located? Different places have different rates. I'm in NYC and gas+electric for my small apartment is $90-130/month. It's bullshit (especially compared to the bill for my last place) but ConEd won't send anyone to investigate.

Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 14:28 on Jul 19, 2013

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
No, judge the previous tenant, but not the building. Their hands are tied; even if they had the manpower, they couldn't legally put her stuff on the curb, and they're not going to start eviction proceedings over 24 hours. They'll probably fine her, but you obviously won't see that.

I agree you shouldn't move in until all her stuff is out and the place is cleaned (including whatever's standard in the way of repaintint, refinishing, etc.). Luckily it sounds like you have somewhere you can stay indefinitely?

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
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Corelle is not a Walmart brand, Walmart is a store that happens to sell Corelle. You can buy Corelle all over the place, including their own outlet stores. I suggest googling before leaping to conclusions.

Corelle is seriously the best. I have no idea why people buy crappy cheap dishes. It's super light and thin (saves on space, plus it's kinda cool it's so thin you can read big text on your phone through it) and almost totally unbreakable. The tech is also really neat. They have basic designs as well as more modern looks.

Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
They probably just don't want every apartment turning over at the same time.

Jet Set Jettison posted:

Yeah I found a friend who could take it. They're only baiting the apartment, so no poison gas but I'm going to inspect the apartment for the bait location to see if she'll be in any sort of danger.
The danger isn't that your cat will eat the bait (why would it appeal to her?), it's that she'll eat a poisoned mouse. It isn't a one-day problem. Please ask in Pet Island instead -- I wish I had an easy answer, but hopefully they will.

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Anne Whateley
Feb 11, 2007
:unsmith: i like nice words
You're talking about renting an old house -- 99% of possible problems are the owner's responsibility. Just check all the things you normally check when renting: the space, utility bills, water pressure, signs of pests, outlet placement, etc. And get renters' insurance.

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