kloa posted:How do you fellow goons balance striving for early retirement/FI but enjoying your life as you get older? I have such a weird conflicting mindset when it comes to hoarding money for any potential issues that could come up (being pessimistic most of the time), but then I'll drop a grand on a pair of headphones like it's nothing. Check out stoicism. I read A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy and it spoke to me as a secular, analytical person. It sounds like you may have a problem conceiving of "enough", though for you it's security.
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# ¿ May 7, 2014 00:08 |
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# ¿ May 12, 2024 18:01 |
Jeffrey posted:PS I highly recommend researching charities to see how well they spend money. This is a cool site that rates charities based on how many lives they can effectively save per dollar donated. http://www.givewell.org/ I hate that they like Give Directly, but their rationale is sound so I gave money to Give Directly.
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# ¿ May 9, 2014 01:39 |
froglet posted:A question about financial independence, I've only had a full time job for a few years, should I prioritise saving to buy a flat closer to my work over buying into ETF's or mutual funds? Here in Australia there's a scheme to encourage potential first home buyers to save by giving a 17% match on the first $6000 you put into the account. I started one last year, but I'm wondering if I should continue putting money into it or if I should have my assets more liquid since you can't take the money out once it's in. Just do a bit of math and figure out the break-even point for moving and bike commuting vs staying and car commuting.
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# ¿ May 9, 2014 13:15 |
I totally agree but the math is fun to do because the break even point is pretty low. Like, a bicycle costs fractions of cents per kilometre, most cars cost around thirty cents. If you can make the bike ride feasible and condition yourself with a cheap daily dose of harden the gently caress up, you'll be in the black pretty quickly in most cases. An example (and I'm terrible at math so this may be incorrect): Say a car costs $0.30/km to run. A bike is practically $0/km. More like $200/year, but yeah. The old commute was 50km away from work but 800 in rent. This costs $30.00/day and about an hour of driving in traffic each way. (If you make $30/hour, that's hypothetically $90 in time and expenses. But that's a whole can of worms of an assumption.) Let's say $30.00/day * 25 days of work a month = $750/month to commute. This isn't a monthly cost but finds itself in insurance, car purchase price, fuel, and maintenance. Cars are expensive. If you move to a new place with twice the rent but a 10km commute you manage by bicycle and get rid of your car completely, you're saving $750/month in delayed commuting costs. In a month you will break even. It's also like a 20 minute bike ride each way, so you save time as well. In a year your decision will have a return of 1125%. Even if you keep driving and move to the same place, you'll get a 225% annual return and break even in less than six months. We can talk index investing all day but lifestyle changes seem incredibly powerful.
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# ¿ May 9, 2014 16:18 |
Nocheez posted:Just out of curiosity, do you include the extra money you'll likely spend on things like food, shoes, and possibly doctor's visits that bicycling can cause? I agree it's cheaper by a large amount, but there are definitely more costs associated than just the bike and repairs. I had a 70km round trip bicycle commute for like six months. That was pretty dramatic and required a bunch more calories, but it basically meant eating like an extra pound of peanuts a day. Maybe like $40 extra in groceries for all the nuts and olive oil I had to drench everything in. I also have a herniated disc in my neck now which may be related to the hours of cycling, but it has cost me nothing except nerve pain so I don't know how to put a cost/km to it. Cycling causes way fewer injuries than running in my experience. It's more like swimming in that. If you're cycling 20km/day none of that poo poo will apply, you're basically talking about a large 2k outlay for a beautiful bike and top of the line gear including touring trailer for large loads (all totally unnecessary but hypothetically why not?) and an extra fistful of trail mix per day in groceries.
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# ¿ May 9, 2014 16:28 |
Folly posted:Remember, the estimate for cost per mile on a car includes a ton of hidden costs: regular maintenance, expected repairs, tires, etc. Even once you convert that into the added expenses for a bike, even including expected medical expenses, it's still much cheaper than driving a car. Running is also a bit more prone to repetitive use type injuries than biking seems to be. And as for traumatic injuries, remember that bike wreck statistics include children who have no road/driving training. And a co2 pump. gently caress pumping for fifteen minutes in the rain while semi drivers coat you in discarded condoms and industrial filth.
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# ¿ May 9, 2014 17:18 |
Nocheez posted:I thought this was about finances? It's a relevant thing to discuss. A triathlon is my loving white whale. I'm jealous.
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# ¿ May 9, 2014 17:54 |
My hot tip is: don't buy new things.
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# ¿ May 13, 2014 19:53 |
baquerd posted:Anyone who doesn't contribute up to employer match is either financially retarded, or has a *illegally* bad 401k that they should really report to the DOL. Max out 401k to contribution limit, max out Roth IRA - that's the bare minimum to do if you want to be financially independent at a relatively early age. The people retiring at 30 are saving* $70-100k a year in today's environment. *Or spending 35k/year forever. Edit: and yeah, I've made beef jerky a few times. It only saves money because it's cheaper than the stuff from the store. The real money is in not eating meat, or only eating meat twice a week. tuyop fucked around with this message at 05:42 on May 30, 2014 |
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# ¿ May 30, 2014 05:38 |
GoGoGadgetChris posted:Has anybody read the Four Hour Workweek? I'm halfway through and can't tell if I want to finish it or toss it in a furnace. His approach to FI appears to be "Hire India to live for you and sell workout supplements online" Also his definition of work is hosed up. And yeah, the book was loving insufferable in many places.
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# ¿ May 30, 2014 16:02 |
It's practically useless unless you have a very specific skillset and ideals. If you're a knowledge worker who needs to help people face-to-face (think social workers, teachers, any medical professional) in order to feel worthwhile - which is most people in my experience - then outsourcing your life in order to satisfy your hedonistic desires will really not make you happy. A better strategy is YMOYL's, which is like, "love your job as much as possible, but it behooves you to efficiently satisfy your wants and bank the rest so that when or if the day comes that you no longer love your work you can leave and do stuff you do love."
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# ¿ May 30, 2014 17:08 |
Jeffrey posted:This sounds like typical mind fallacy and I don't think it's true of most careers that people choose. Well then take out "which is most people." I should probably hedge that with "which is most people who are actually conscious of exploring their ideals and the purpose of their lives" since that narrows the set a great deal. No Wave posted:In my experience, the only way past hedonism is through it - if you're tempted by material stuff you need to indulge in it to see that it's not the right end goal. This, I think, is why Ferriss recommends that people get exactly what they want immediately (such as by leasing that Mercedes) in a non-permanent way. If a thing is really important to you, it's probably cheaper to at least rent than you think, and it probably matters far less than you think. Yeah I can agree that this is a good way to learn, whatever your brand of hedonism is.
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# ¿ May 30, 2014 19:49 |
The designated hitler is the guy at the hitler party who makes sure everyone stays in character. And gets home safe.
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# ¿ Jul 20, 2014 00:45 |
Folly posted:I'm not quite on that wagon, and I'll explain why. I mean, assuming the whole website isn't a complete farce, then it's not like the guy needs the money AND his core philosophy is about ignoring the poo poo you don't need. So if it's fake, it's most likely just laziness. If so, why make it so long? Basically, none of it adds up well enough for me to distrust it, especially given the number of times we've seen this same basic argument on /r/personalfinance. If anything is fake, the most likely part would be that he got it in an email instead of finding it on some forum editing it to make it look like an email. And it seems too long even for that. I mean, if he copies too much then you can probably plug it in to google and find where it came from. He's got to know that. Wait... You replaced them. With what? PLEASE BE BUCKETS AND SAWDUST
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# ¿ Jul 21, 2014 15:39 |
Man, using TD's mutual fund switching thing with my LIRA is way worse than using an actual trading platform through QT. That's all, really.
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# ¿ Jul 24, 2014 17:57 |
Blackjack2000 posted:Yeah, that's why I'm still reading, I do think he has some good ideas, and I think he could offer some interesting perspectives. I think all of these posts/chapters or whatever are to head off the inevitable, "If everyone lived like you, it would be a disaster!" Criticism. MMM has written explicitly about the need to address that before, and I like to think of it more as a way to torpedo inevitable excuses ("But I NEED my cable because without it the economy would fail and...!") than as an actual vision or goal.
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# ¿ Nov 20, 2014 14:18 |
What you actually choose to do depends on your life philosophy. I couldn't be a monk because my whole life philosophy is about helping others. I'd be miserable dedicating my days to finding nirvana or something. There doesn't seem to be a consistent life philosophy based on Tim Feriss professional bragging (you have no power over how impressive your life is to others) or shallow hedonistic consumerism (pleasure would best be achieved through heroine or something). MMM is a bit more consistent because he focuses on doing his best to find joy in the things within his power. He could do many things that are similar to this (being the best nurse possible, for instance), but we should probably give him the benefit of the doubt that his daily life is probably filled with joy and his choices have made it more efficient for that end, not less.
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# ¿ Jan 25, 2015 05:29 |
I LIKE COOKIE posted:It's the opposite for me. I don't read any of these blogs but I love the BFC wisdom and atmosphere and at 21 have saved up some serious money by being a extremely frugal spender. I don't need "stuff". Every single person I knows just blows money left and right on the dumbest poo poo. I just don't get it. You need some higher reason guiding your actions other than just not being stupid. It's true that it's stupid to spend for the sake of spending, but it's also true that it's stupid to save for the sake of saving (this is the wisdom and source of confusion of MMM's complainypantses). Save instead because you love freedom or want to spend your life traveling instead of working, or getting high all day or raising your kids full time or whatever. The freedom thing is personally very compelling for me, and timely, because most schools are totally hosed and I'd feel really lovely as a person working for them so the only reason I would is to feed myself. Since I save enough that I don't "need" their stupid lovely job dehumanizing children all day, I can find a job on my own terms. I think many people end up using their poor savings rate and wasteful lifestyles to justify their lovely jobs. Like, "sure I spend all day tearing up nature in the tar sands and burning my children's oil, but you've gotta eat!"
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# ¿ Jan 25, 2015 07:19 |
Inverse Icarus posted:A lovely job is a lovely job, it'll gently caress up your whole life. A bad mood will follow you out of the office every day. As others have said, focus on that. Yeah, I'd echo this. But if you want something cheaper than video games to kill time before you find your ~dream job~ then hit up the library and read some
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# ¿ Feb 12, 2015 03:06 |
A new game costs like $70 now, right? Most places I've been, 70 bucks is like a couple's sushi night out with drinks. You might prefer the sushi night (I genuinely do), but the 20+ hours of stress recuperation you get from the game is probably a better use of money than the 3+ hours you get from the night out if you're striving for efficiency. My point is not that we should min/max our stress recuperation purchases, it's that this is something to be aware of, which is why we're talking about it now. You'll probably be just as happy if you choose one recreation purchase, but most people will mindlessly choose both and cheapen the benefits of each by failing to reflect on the whole thing. It's also kind of a weird argument that old games are better than new ones. I wouldn't say that Doom is a better FPS than COD Modern Warfare Vietnam 3000 Edition 4. They're insufferable for different reasons but the modern game is objectively better in a lot of ways other than graphics that generally make it more pleasant. Same with Civ 2 vs. Civ 5.
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# ¿ Feb 12, 2015 17:37 |
Radbot posted:Let's be honest, the big divide is how much you make. For a family, saving 50% on $250k a year means I still get to have a nice place and a new car every few years, saving 50% on $32k a year means drying used paper towels and stocking up on condiments at Burger King. You're missing the spending half of the equation, and that's what MMM harps on so much. A person saving 50% at 250k will reach FI at exactly the same time as a person saving 50% on 32k. The difference is in the lifestyle each person wants to live. That's also the source of derision, because in both cases lifestyle and savings rate are matters of want and prioritization rather than raw ability.
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# ¿ Feb 27, 2015 03:09 |
Well, news flash you can't just hang out and be worthless and think that you're going to have a meaningful life. MMM doesn't do that, and most people don't consider what he does "retirement." I don't think that most people derive much coherent purpose from their jobs, though. And I work with teachers.
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# ¿ Mar 1, 2015 18:24 |
That might be a strawman. The unspoken premise of Rick Rickshaw, as I understand it, is that the people who aren't in favour of FI or early retirement also hate their jobs but can't imagine a life with meaning without those jobs. Hence, they're financially and existentially enslaved to someone else's dream. This is not you or me. I mean, I worked literally 80 hours last week for absolutely no pay because I love my vocation. That love also makes me care a lot about my savings rate because I never want anyone to force me to work against my morals. Nobody is saying that working=slavery. If I read them correctly, the poster you're arguing against is saying that identifying with your job=slavery. Even if you're being paid to do something you do want to do, it behooves you to save and have a strong, independent conception of yourself in case that ever changes (and it only takes a bit of creativity to imagine something like that. Say, a change in your duties or falling in love with some new, unpaid or lower-paid hobby like MMM's carpentry). When I start to look for teaching jobs in June, I know that the "sacrifices" I've made will allow me to tell anyone who wants me to, as I see it, abuse children and call it education, to gently caress right off. Or I could decide that I just want to travel for a bit to recharge. My occupation would be much better if everyone rolled this way.
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# ¿ Mar 2, 2015 04:41 |
Mofabio posted:- and you know that traveling's easier and cheaper and usually better when you can leave on a Tuesday morning and spend a month somewhere. Full time career = week-long vacations = travel without language immersion or learning cultures deeper than a guidebook Yeah, all of my good traveling experiences have been at least three weeks long, and the ones I really want to do (like hike the AT) take 4-6 months. Hiking 8 hours a day for 160 days straight isn't an occupation but it is very time consuming. My wife and I are trying to plan a vacation now from April 3-11 and it's just dumb. Spend a week being a suck at a resort or bumbling around some country with some small, persistent amount of stress over language and time to try to get a better experience? They both suck and cost like $3000 because her work has forced us to move to a place that's far away from everywhere and where we would never choose to live.
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# ¿ Mar 2, 2015 14:23 |
It's probably true that many people derive a sense of purpose and well-being from being needed. Many other people probably don't give a gently caress and find certain activities intrinsically valuable. Think of all the dancers (or aspiring dancers), musicians, artists, actors, etc. who find their occupations intrinsically valuable regardless of the "need" they feel that others have for them. You're saying that an occupation is important because it's a means to an end (being needed). Even if that's true, I can imagine many ways to spend time that are closer to ends in themselves because people might find them more intrinsically valuable than most careers. Hell, even being a full-time volunteer meets your criteria for value and gives you the freedom to get out if you need to, so I'd say that I disagree, an "occupation" (read: job) is unnecessary for a life well lived.
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# ¿ Mar 3, 2015 04:57 |
BossRighteous posted:Some people think that fundamental human change starts (and ends) with the individual. This, MMM is pretty explicitly a Stoic. Stoics don't believe in wasting time or effort on things that you can't control (because fussing over global carbon emissions or whatever-the-gently caress will upset your tranquility for no good reason). All the protestors in the world can't directly, individually control what governments or companies do, so a Stoic is not very likely to protest unless they get off on straight-up vitriol. Now, if everyone shared that life philosophy and critically and consciously considered the things within their control and how to align them with their values and morals, the world would be very different. Of course, the only part of this over which you have any control is whether you do it yourself, and maybe whether you tell others about it. MMM has fulfilled his stoic duties with his lifestyle and blog.
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# ¿ Mar 4, 2015 03:14 |
Nail Rat posted:The assertion that most people are ill-informed on everything and the best people are still ill-informed on many things is pretty true though. I don't like the solution of "just don't vote" though because then the agenda of the rich and powerful runs completely unchecked. What about voting allows a person (or, for the sake of argument, a group of people of any size) to challenge the agenda of the rich and powerful?
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# ¿ Mar 5, 2015 20:21 |
Dwight Eisenhower posted:Tons of things, like 40 hour work weeks, minimum vacation periods, minimum maternity leave periods, requirements to document justifiable causes for firing, to name a few. Like other people have said, your examples (except for maybe maternity leave, which is relatively benign compared to, say, civil rights) have nothing to do with voting and everything to do with challenging the critical point(s) of the "agenda of the rich and powerful". Political power has never been that critical point. In the past, that mass had to do with the mechanisms of production, so strikes and unions were effective. Now, that's been taken care of with globalization and the system has a new critical point. It would make sense if that new point were something like profits or money, because so much work is done to convince people that corporations and their products are necessary. If the new point is profit, then by opting out of purchasing more than you legitimately need, you challenge the "agenda" the same way a coal worker striking challenged the system and won. I like Zinn because he explains how it can be true that (a) living conditions marginally get better for enough people over time and (b) a system increases inequality over hundreds of years. Voting (and the mythology about its efficacy) is one mechanism used to legitimize such a system, which is in nobody's best interests. Our problem is that the system grows more perfect over time so any meaningful change becomes harder to see, let alone enact. Edit: And this is the best derail ever, IMO.
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# ¿ Mar 6, 2015 04:32 |
KingFisher posted:Hey Goons, Somehow learn to spend less than 95-120k/year. The rule of thumb around these parts is to take your expenses and multiply them by 20 or 25 and assume a 4-5% safe withdrawal rate to keep up with inflation. 70k is a very high spending rate into retirement for FI folks, and a couple million is not an extraordinary estimate of required savings given inflation over a few decades and a conservative withdrawal rate. So, if you bring your spending down to 45k, you'll "only" have to save 900-1100k. Spend only 25k/year and you only need 500-625k. And so on.
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# ¿ Mar 8, 2015 05:40 |
I'm just going to rent forever. Or live in a yurt. You know.
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# ¿ Mar 8, 2015 14:26 |
Swingline posted:What's the FI consensus on renting vs buying? Could it ever make sense to rent forever (assuming of course you invest the cash flow you would save from buying/maintaining a house/apartment). Seems like it could make sense in high-property prices and high-property taxes areas like NYC metro. Buying a home just seems like a never-ending money pit to me unless you happen to be very handy (which I am not). It's an interesting debate. Someone posted this awhile back: quote:My pal James Altucher calls homeownership a part of The American Religion, so I know I’m treading dangerous ground here. But before you get out the tar and feathers, let’s do a little thought experiment together. tl;dr: Buying a house and paying it down aggressively as an investment will mean that you're extremely exposed to geographic risks with dubious returns - your home and your job will be tied to the fortunes of the area where you live and work. If you end up with a portfolio of 1mil, and a house that's 400k, then 40% of your portfolio + your earning power are tied to Bumfuck, Wherever, earning a return that's on par with a balanced portfolio. Edit: A friend of mine, whose household income is about 110k gross, bought a 350k house last year, 0% down, and remodelled the basement into a rental suite. It cost him 25k and he figures it adds about 35k to the value of the home. So he's up like 10k. But oil just bottomed out and now nobody is buying poo poo in this city, and he just got word from the army that he has to move in September! Meanwhile, my wife and I, who have a slightly higher income, have invested and saved aggressively in that time and made about 20% returns in the last 18 months, so we're up like 8k. But if we don't like the weather there are no obstacles keeping us here, not to mention a crazy remodelling project eating up our time for pursuing qualifications and enjoyment. I prefer it our way. A house is not an investment, it's just a place to live that has benefits and risks. tuyop fucked around with this message at 02:11 on Mar 9, 2015 |
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# ¿ Mar 9, 2015 02:02 |
Radbot posted:The vast, vast majority of people I know who think they have stable jobs do not, in fact, have truly stable jobs. You may in fact have a rock-stable job, but let's face it, virtually no one does in reality.
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# ¿ Mar 13, 2015 23:10 |
Putting it into action is even better. I'm being pressured to work at this school, which is a spectacularly messed up place. The politics are particularly intense and admin will regularly move a teacher three or four times in a year. So a social studies teacher could go from grade 7, to grade 9, to grade 12, then on to like grade 8 drama or some random thing. It takes a teacher a year or two to develop a quality program for one grade-subject so there's very little quality programming going on here. After a few days of other teachers telling me that they hoped I'd work here, I was talking to a teacher I'm close with and looked around and said, "You know, I don't think you could pay me to work in this place. " That's gently caress-you money, even if it's just enough to keep me in house and home while I travel or decide to work for a year as a sub or something. tuyop fucked around with this message at 02:28 on Apr 1, 2015 |
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# ¿ Apr 1, 2015 02:09 |
I think it's bizarre too but I imagine that functional and mature adults are perfectly able to communicate about these things without driving a wedge between them. The issues brought up are equally concerning for couples who combine all their finances, if less complicated logistically.
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# ¿ Apr 15, 2015 22:40 |
This is a disagreement about the definition of separate and shared finances. What the OP here mentioned sounds on its face like what my wife and I do except with separate bank accounts and some more admin. Both partners are committed to their shared life together and are willing to negotiate what that means. What you're assuming is more like some kind of roommate situation plus children, where the relationship is an accessory to the sharing and so the only way to maintain a healthy relationship is to make use of some arbitrary notion of equity, like some roommates do. The problem you're imagining wouldn't be an issue in a healthy relationship since I'm sure the FI partner is going to want to share his/her time with the non-FI partner since that's kind of the intent of most healthy relationships, and the finances would balance out around that. The same imaginary problem could come up for a traditional shared finance couple with fewer accounts. An FI person is savvy enough to know when 80% of their nest egg originated from one partner but both partners are benefitting. If the relationship or individual is dysfunctional, resentment/contempt will follow just as easily. This isn't a financial issue, it's a relationship one. The administrative details of the finances are irrelevant. I still think it's bizarre though, because that level of administration is inefficient and a drain on a lifestyle, unless you enjoy it or get some benefit out of it because of the obligatory "syncing" meetings or something.
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# ¿ Apr 16, 2015 04:16 |
What does a really nice hotel room actually get you? Like, what's the benefit? I'm pretty content grabbing a six pack from the store and drinking in the common room in a hostel and sleeping relatively well in a dorm. I can't see how the experience would be like, 10-100x better if the dorm was just a really fancy room with a nice bathroom, so I imagine that there must be some other aspect to staying at a $1000/night hotel in order to justify the difference. Is there a difference? I've worked in a Radison suite hotel and it was a good 300-400 a night in downtown Halifax and it looked like people just used it to have nice little house parties or sleep after their day of doing business poo poo, which would be exactly the same in a place costing like a quarter of the price.
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# ¿ Apr 23, 2015 23:32 |
I have a feeling most people would look at a lot of us that way as well. Like, you have 30k in your bank account, why are you watching a 40 inch tv!!??!? Well, a 40 inch tv is actually pretty awesome and a bigger one is not like 6x more enjoyable, so...?
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# ¿ May 8, 2015 14:25 |
With his worldview described as one with regular reflection, mindfulness and constant gratitude, I think he's being honest when he describes his spending as "ridiculous". From his perspective he hasn't made a sacrifice in years. Most Americans would consider biking your groceries through a snowbound park some kind of egregious hardship, but he has a very different view that shuts that kind of thinking down immediately. This is also a view that most people could benefit from as long as it doesn't distract them from issues of justice and empowerment. Though at the same time, in an anarchic sense, that perspective may be the only way to live and think justly.
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# ¿ May 8, 2015 18:58 |
Crazy Mike posted:He's too set in his ways. More likely the fall form grace will come from his son. Is it likely he will fall to the temptations and attractions of materialism, or grow resentful at not indulging in them when the means to do so is right there? Well, that's really speculative. I'm sure it's easy to find cases that go both ways. Wealthy Buddhist parents have child who continues their ways, and the opposite. Taking his child out of school probably did a lot to help prevent the latter.
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# ¿ May 8, 2015 19:58 |
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# ¿ May 12, 2024 18:01 |
I'm pretty sure the point of money is freedom. We're looking at spending like 15k traveling around SE Asia for a few moths in September, including rent on a place in which we won't be living (looking for subletters and roommates now). This is possibly the least FI thing I can imagine, but we can only do it because we've spent a couple of years not buying a bunch of bullshit. I mean, we're FI enough to take a four month break from careers and poo poo, that's sort of FI, right? Right?
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# ¿ May 10, 2015 22:54 |