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Lube doesn't have anything to do with it. Lube is blood plasma that seeps through the walls of the vagina (sexy). You've got lots of blood so that's not an issue (although it's still not a cup every 30 seconds).
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Violet_Sky posted:Yeah, I should really seek therapy for my E/N issues involving sex and attraction, but I really don't know if its worth it. It basically is a lifetime of issues that I just learned existed a year ago and I feel that most people wouldn't understand. You might also want to read up on the star, Linda Lovelace/Boreman, and how the movie was actually made.
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Dec 16, 2014 02:25
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Njoy Fun Wand and a partner who's not too afraid of hurting you.
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anaaki posted:This sounds horrifying and painful. Some guys are scared and not sure what they're doing, so they err on the side of being super delicate because they're afraid they'll break something. If you like a delicate butterfly touch, that's cool, but your G-spot is kind of embedded up in there so it won't feel anything that way. I don't mean you need someone who's like "hell yeah, I'm going to break you in half," just somebody who's not afraid to apply pressure. It's like a massage, where they need a little bit of force to reach and relax your muscles. But if you don't like massages, that's cool, you don't have to.
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Think about the pressure of a firm back massage. That's about the level, if it's something you want to do. But this part -- anaaki posted:We've been together 7 years, but all we've established is "the routine". I get oral sex (since that's the only thing that works for me, so far) and then missionary. Exciting. We both just got frustrated over time because I felt "broken" and he felt less like a man because he couldn't get me off. My vagina literally feels nothing. No pleasure, no pain. Your junk is working totally as intended. It's normal and fine not to get off just from penetrative sex. Coming from oral is actually way more normal. You aren't broken whatsoever. If you want to try new things, you could try touching yourself, using a vibrator, etc., while he's loving you (maybe in new positions). But seriously, what's happening now is super super normal and good. It's not broken at all. What will have a bad effect is you getting all worried about you being broken and him being unhappy. His "less like a man because he couldn't get you off" hangup is actually seriously broken and weird. First of all, whether or not you can come has nothing to do with how much of a man he is; different people need different stimulation, that's not a reflection on their partner. And second, he IS getting you off! All the time, apparently! His dick just isn't magical. Big surprise, dicks are not magical, and just sticking them in is not enough for the majority of women. If he won't be satisfied until that happens, he's going to be waiting a long loving time, so he shouldn't get hung up on that goal. It's good that you're in therapy, but can/have you talked about this with your therapist? Is your husband open to talking to your therapist or doctor and finding out how normal this is? Seriously, nobody has been hung up on vaginal orgasms since Freud. Finally, I don't want to naysay you, but I also don't want to give you false hope. Even if you can find and enjoy your G-spot with toys or fingers, that doesn't mean it will be stimulated during penetrative sex at all. Even if everything goes perfectly with the toy, you getting off with it is still going to be you getting off basically the way you do now. Which is great, and it's fun to learn new tricks and everything, but if he's not satisfied when he makes you come from oral, how is that different from him making you come with a toy?
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Not true
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Sorry, you're right that was for HSV-2, I hit the wrong thing on my phone. But those super high numbers you're talking about are for lifetime prevalence. Goons aren't 80 and hopefully aren't having sex with 80-year-olds. In your 20s-30s, the prevalence is much lower. If we're aware/careful about HSV-1/2, hopefully we can keep the rate low as we age, as opposed to just going "lol whatever we all have it already" and then catching it.
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No because you don't get cheek herpes  GoodBee posted:Please correct me if I'm wrong. I got my information from earlier in this thread mostly. quote:They typically are not tested for on regular STD screenings. They are usually only tested for if you have a sore. You and/or your partner could have the virus and be asymptomatic. If you're asymptomatic, you are unlikely to transmit it. quote:The biggest risk is the sores may make it more likely for HIV to be transmitted. Aside from that, they are just uncomfortable and unattractive. A lot of people have it, it doesn't make them dirty or bad or whatever, but there are plenty of good reasons not to want it. You might be a lucky carrier who doesn't have symptoms (but does infect others), or it could really screw up your life.
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Jan 16, 2015 18:08
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Condoms don't prevent herpes or syphilis. They do still protect against it. The chance of transmission is cut in half.
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Jan 17, 2015 12:59
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Nail polish remover isn't that scary.
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Jan 22, 2015 07:23
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The only thing I can think of that magically washes off everything is maybe watercolors or face paint. Or just don't do whatever you're gonna do in a bed?
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Jan 23, 2015 00:50
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That's like 90% of your posts itt. There's nothing anyone here can say that will reassure you -- this is a bigger issue than the internet can solve for you. Please get therapy.
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Jan 26, 2015 07:46
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Could possibly sound gayer but I'm not sure how!
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Jan 30, 2015 14:42
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OK now I can ask, you know that's an actual fetish thing, right?
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Feb 12, 2015 05:05
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By the end, he agrees that her grooming thing hosed him up and that's what caused him to be kinky, which Ana cures with the power of pure love. Because that's the kind of book 50 Shades is. I'm so sorry I know this.
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Feb 25, 2015 21:09
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Homo sapiens has been having hairy sex for hundreds of thousands of years, and waxing universally for only like 15 years. Her hair is not breaking your dick.
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Mar 9, 2015 16:46
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Baby wipes, but you should really see a doctor, or another doctor. BV isn't linked to carbs (that's yeast, questionably) or peeing after sex (that's UTIs).
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Mar 28, 2015 05:46
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KillHour posted:The problem is that she's extremely... submissive in bed. I'm "running the show," as it were. Skyn comes in large.
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Mar 31, 2015 14:41
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If you think Skyn is too thick I have no idea what would work for you. Are you putting a tiny bit of lube on the inside?
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Mar 31, 2015 16:17
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Guys, today is April Fool's Day, not Groundhog Day.
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Apr 1, 2015 16:07
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C-Euro posted:I feel like if I don't ejaculate at least once a day, my sexual stamina tanks and I can't take part in more than a few minutes of steady, up-tempo sex before I'm ready to come
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Apr 7, 2015 07:15
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If you're sometimes having sex just fine, then it doesn't sound like vaginismus. On the other hand, you know she's totally inexperienced, she's tense and embarrassed, and she's too shy to even talk about it . . . you don't have to look for any other reasons. Don't give her homework, don't pressure her into things she doesn't want to do. Just focus on having fun together and making sex (which doesn't have to include penetration) a relaxing, comfortable experience for her.
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Apr 15, 2015 07:29
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If everyone consents in advance, it's not rape, duh. If it was years ago like in your example, your partner could just as easily make up way worse total lies. With zero proof, nobody would care. My best advice would be not to rape anyone and also not to date crazy, vengeful strawmen.
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Apr 29, 2015 02:59
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Jedit posted:I'd love to know where you heard this. Every person I've heard express an opinion about femidoms is that they're like shagging a freezer bag.
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May 25, 2015 00:50
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The original name was Implanon. They made a tiny tweak to the material (just so it shows up on X-rays) and now the new version is Nexplanon. They are baller, I got my first one like 8 years ago? and haven't shut up in the birth control thread since and have made some converts! I don't know why nobody knows about it. It's the most effective birth control there is, lasts 3 years, installation/removal is fast and easy, fertility returns quickly, no estrogen so fewer risks and side effects. But even doctors often aren't aware of it -- even if I go in for a sore throat, after they ask what meds I'm on, everyone in the office wants to feel my implant. I actually saw an ad for the first time ever a couple weeks ago, so fingers crossed more people will hear of it. The main negative side effect is irregular bleeding. About 30% of people end up with no period at all, including me which I love. But other people can spot at random and obviously that's not fun. Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 16:42 on Jun 4, 2015 |
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Jun 4, 2015 16:40
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Stubble on the dick itself is the absolute worst, because the areas you presumably want on it are super sensitive. Shave right beforehand. Waxing or plucking would buy you more time. Laser would be permanent/semipermanent.
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Jun 28, 2015 00:34
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Any waxer has seen thousands of buttholes. Shaving is also completely doable, though. With both, the trick will be timing it to avoid stubble.
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Jul 18, 2015 18:43
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Here's the vasectomy megathread if you want to ask other guys how much it was or how old they were.
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It's still way more invasive. Think about where Fallopian tubes are vs. the vas. You're going into the body a lot farther. It also isn't as effective (isn't even as effective as some kinds of birth control). The Essure procedure is putting in rods, which irritate your tubes enough that they become filled with scar tissue and basically seal themselves shut, so you can see why there can be side effects. (In contrast, vasectomies usually just cauterize or suture the ends.) Essure is also made with nickel, which is a pretty common allergy. It definitely works for some people, some people love it, but there's no question it's a bigger deal than a vasectomy. e: beaten real bad
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Aug 6, 2015 19:03
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b) fingering duh c) condoms
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Aug 7, 2015 22:48
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There is no safe way to choke someone until they pass out. You are depriving the brain of oxygen, which literally causes brain damage. Get rough in some other way less likely to injure or murder your partner.
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Nobody has physical test results in their nightstand. You don't even get printouts, they just call you and say "all good" or whatever. If you don't want to go down on someone who hasn't been tested, don't bother with dental dams imo, just use hands or a toy. If you look it up, prevalence in goon demographics especially is a lot lower than 80%. It's worth being aware of and it's reasonable not to want it. Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 08:17 on Aug 22, 2015 |
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Aug 22, 2015 08:07
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hoobajoo posted:HSV-1 is not an STD. Repeat, HSV-1 is not an STD. And gargling once a day with an antiseptic like Listerine will almost entirely eliminate the symptoms of this incredibly common non-STD, so no one cares. Repeat, no one cares about HSV-1.
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Aug 22, 2015 21:30
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Right, what I mean is if you have oral herpes (either type) and go down on your partner, they can get it on their junk.
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Aug 22, 2015 21:35
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Aug 25, 2015 22:46
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You guys are way behind the times if you don't know your fresh produce
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Aug 25, 2015 23:40
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Correct, you're automatically enrolled in our new pilot program for Kids Today. v that's an rear end in a top hat my friend Anne Whateley fucked around with this message at 01:59 on Aug 26, 2015 |
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Aug 26, 2015 01:25
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Gardasil protects against the most common cancer strains and the most common wart strains. Those strains cause ballpark 70% of genital cancers and 90% of genital warts. The new version, Gardasil-9, includes 5 more strains that cause an additional 20% of cervical cancers. (But you can't get the new one if you already got the original Gardasil, so I'm jealous)
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Aug 26, 2015 15:47
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How is it hard to talk about fun dirty things without throwing in insults?
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Apparently there's one guy who's asked 3 times about his "penile crenellations" on other sites. It's you, isn't it. As embarrassed as you are about your dick, you should be that ashamed of asking on yahoo answers. And if English doesn't have a word for it, and an entire plastic surgery industry dedicated to making it pretty, obviously you're fine. e: not to discourage mspaints though
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