Register a SA Forums Account here!
JOINING THE SA FORUMS WILL REMOVE THIS BIG AD, THE ANNOYING UNDERLINED ADS, AND STUPID INTERSTITIAL ADS!!!

You can: log in, read the tech support FAQ, or request your lost password. This dumb message (and those ads) will appear on every screen until you register! Get rid of this crap by registering your own SA Forums Account and joining roughly 150,000 Goons, for the one-time price of $9.95! We charge money because it costs us money per month for bills, and since we don't believe in showing ads to our users, we try to make the money back through forum registrations.
 
  • Post
  • Reply
mrbass21
Feb 1, 2009

Yangrendan posted:

So I want to ask my final question: is it possible for a man at 38 to find a partner who will accept that I have little sexual experience and might need to work through dysfunctions? I don't know if and when I will have another relationship, but I do want to solve these issues. And, if I do solve them, I would really like to be with a partner who will communicate from the beginning and with whom I don't have intense emotional baggage. But I'm frightened that no one outside of my current partner will really be able to accept that.

This is leaning a bit more toward the breakup thread territory, but as someone who went through divorce in my late 30s and had the exact same concern, you’ll be fine.

My self esteem was shot, and I was convinced no one would want me. Not only did I date _more than one person_, I’m engaged to a wonderful person who fulfills me in ways I never thought.

I will say, you should take time to work on yourself though. I thought I was ready after 6 months and was awful to a girl dating me because I actually was not ready to date. Really take time to work things out for yourself. Also get yourself over to the breakup mega thread. Very nice and helpful people there helped me through the most painful event of my life.

Now, to get back on topic: “Have you tried butt stuff”?

Adbot
ADBOT LOVES YOU

  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • Post
  • Reply