DepoProvera posted:

I'm in a relationship of a year and a half. I have quite an anxiety about her orgasming.

My previous relationship ended quite badly, with her telling me that I was terrible at oral and that she had faked every orgasm. Now this has made me distrustful of any time my current girlfriend orgasms. I've asked her on a few occasions if she really had came(such an awkward question) and she has said yes.

I realise that this is a problem on my end but I'm at a loss at what to do. I would much rather if she is honest with me so I can improve if it isn't good.

I know if someone was scrutinising my orgasms it would probably make me uncomfortable so how do I approach this without making her self conscious?