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I know that delayed ejaculation is a side effect of SSRI medication and fixing it is not a simple solution. My previous girlfriend had a very low libido (another issue entirely) and so time between sex was infrequent and I found it easy to orgasm. With my current partner we don't often have sex in the week because of our work schedules and her libido is quite high. Last weekend we had six times which is a lot for me. I was able to orgasm once on the Friday night and she had a good time the other times but it just seems to go on forever . I find it hard to know when to end and often I stop because I am exhausted she is usually keen to keep going. This means sex often lasts for about 30 to 45 minutes and twice this weekend it lasted nearly an hour which for me is a long time. I usually will stop and do something else but for her penetration is the best and I just let her ride me for as long as she wants to. I can maintain an erection for the entire time which she loves. I have tried to say that that much sex really tires me out but she says it's something she really has to do. How can I communicate my sexual needs/wants better? Another issue we have and I know this sounds like whining but she gets really wet and it gets really messy and I have to like change the sheets 3 times in the weekend. The only thing I thought of was using a towel but anyone got any better ideas?
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Apr 1, 2014 22:00
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Thanks for the replies everyone. When I was in my 20's if someone had said you get to have sex 3 times a day I would have been hell yeah. But the reality of it is really odd. I have a mattress protector. I am going to buy some cheap towels on the weekend.
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Apr 1, 2014 22:44
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KillHour posted:I was the same way when I was on Prozac - I could go pretty much forever (until I got dehydrated and exhausted). I never found a great way around it other than concentrating on how good it feels really hard and trying to think sexy thoughts (basically the opposite of what I try to do now that I'm not on it any more). Thanks for that. I find that with most problems in life trying to see the good in a situation is not always possible but in this case I think there is an upside here. I am helping her move house this weekend and then she is going to see Angels in America hopefully that puts a damper on things haha.
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Apr 1, 2014 22:47
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