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pootiebigwang posted:So I smoke a lot of weed. Anytime I am high I have amazing sex, I am more in tune with my body, my stamina increases, and I am just overall more "in" to everything about it, making it a pretty great time for me and whomever I am with. I have been finding it out the hard way that if I don't get stoned before sex, I become quickshot mcsplot. This is terrible as for someone who has been sexually active for some years now, I am not really used to premature ejaculation and it has just been loving with my head. Does anyone have any tips for this? Foreplay and everything is great but the second there is penetration, it's over. It's crazy embarrassing and makes me all neurotic and poo poo. Is my body just so used to having sex while stoned that having sex sober has become some sort of anomaly for it? I really wasn't expecting it to be this bad. You should start to train a lot. Try to get sober in general for some time and try it by yourself. In my experience it is helpful to masturbate a lot and try to hold it in as long as possible. Test what you have to do to stop it from being so nervous. I don't think getting stoned every time you want to have sex is a real solution for the future so you'll have to train, tell your partner actually (assuming it is only one partner at least) and maybe smoke a bit less for some time to get a new feeling of the things.
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Techno Remix posted:I'm kind of embarrassed to be asking this but even though the last thread went down in flames, there were a lot of goons giving good advice. Here goes. That's complicated. It took me and my boyfriend forever to find someone to play with. We found later on - but of course in our real life. I wouldn't search in the internet as you will likely find something scary. You may have to be patient if you are absolutely sure that no one of your current friends will work. You want someone you trust, you want someone you know, you want someone who fits in that whole constellation and situation. So in general you will have to search for new people directly, you will have to act discreet and careful as it's ~kinda~ intimate to think about it. If you don't know anyone who may fit in that intention it will be a tough search, as long as you don't want to pay someone.
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Pinball posted:In the gay porn sphere, why the obsession with 'turning' straight guys gay? In general it's more like convincing or (if it's something less-vanilla) forcing someone to try to enjoy it instead of 'turning' him gay. Especially in the BDSM porn scene it's likely to see someone 'straight' forcing to do homosexual sexual activities as it's interesting for the viewer who are interested in someone who gets suppressed. To be honest, I didn't see something like that very often in softcore porn, except something like 'Come on, try it, you know you want it' where the character just accept that he always was homosexual. Pinball posted:A dude mowing his lawn with a riding mower and dragging this woman in bondage behind the tractor and through the grass clippings. That's like the weirdest thing I've ever heard. But where's the porn part about it? I mean, I see the bondage part and that grass is flying into her face and stuff, but what the gently caress.
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Crankit posted:Does anal sex damage the anus? It doesn't as long as you are careful and calm when trying it. OP mentioned a good method to prepare everything to avoid injuries. You need to get some training done first and you'll have to be patient - but it works pretty well and it's worth the try. You should just ask her. Just be like "Want to try something new?" and watch how she reacts. I heard that esp women have sometimes problems or even fear to try anal sex. In that case you can try to convince her and ensure that nothing bad will happen if everyone is able to spend the time and able to trust their partner. If she is highly against it and will instantly react like "Oh my god never ask me again, I want to go now" etc. then accept it and try to avoid it. Maybe she will think and read about it and maybe you can try it later but if she's not able to give it a try, accept her opinion and move on.
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Crankit posted:What do you mean training, I'm not gonna ask my GF to chase sticks in the park? Is it like working up in size of things in the butt? Turtlicious posted:I want to try anal sex! What should I know? Pretty much this. I can confirm that this will work and again - patience and caution.
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Violet_Sky posted:I can't seem to relax when I masturbate. I try to do when I'm lying down, but then my brain says "Okay, we've got to climax so that we can feel normal to other people. Our vagina isn't broke-ah,crap arousals gone again." I'm female, by the way. Did you try some toys? What's your technique in general? What are you thinking about? Did you ever manage to do it? You could try to change the location entirely; heard some women like the shower or water in general, maybe watching or doing some ~special~ stuff to force your arousal to be nice to you. Also, I know some women who simply aren't able to masturbate in general. They describe it a similar way you do and they didn't found a workaround and/or didn't want to, as regular sex was better.
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