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Black Shadow
Mar 21, 2014

by XyloJW

Turtlicious posted:

“I can’t come during vaginal sex” (male)
Stop masturbating and watching porn. If you have been jerking off regularly for a while, you may have desensitized your penis. Your hand can give a lot more pressure/force/speed than anything else. The good news is that if you cut out masturbation and porn for a couple of weeks, your penis will regain its sensitivity. If you’ve already tried that, try it for longer. Seriously.

I've read elsewhere that such masturbation frequency can permanently desensitize your shaft, not for just a couple of weeks. Could someone elaborate?

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Black Shadow
Mar 21, 2014

by XyloJW

Mathematics posted:

I am actually trying regular cowgirl. I'm not sure why he says he doesn't like bending it that way, but every time I try to put it in a way that I think is sensible, he says it's uncomfortable.

I get a bit stressed out/don't want him to lose his boner and just prompt him to switch to doggy or something.

I guess that speaks to a communication problem, but yeah, it is hard to troubleshoot in the middle of things, I guess.

Reverse cowgirl kind of scares me with the whole "could damage his cock" part. I dunno.

My girlfriend and I had this issue when we first started having sex. Try to focus more on going up and down as opposed to forward and backwards. Don't bend over. Sit up with good posture and just bounce and see how he likes that.

Also, you wont damage his shaft.

Black Shadow
Mar 21, 2014

by XyloJW

Laserface posted:

regularly smoking has had the opposite effect for me. I last ages while high, and that is now bleeding into not-high stamina.

Probably because stoned sex > not stoned sex.

I've had several friends exclaim to me that sex is intensified strongly by molly, and sex without it gets extremely boring because they've experienced a much better feeling. Same rule may apply with weed, and that's why I don't want to have sex regularly while stoned.

Black Shadow
Mar 21, 2014

by XyloJW

Kimmalah posted:

True, but sometimes that's hard to pull off when everyone's moving around so much (in my experience anyway).

It's much easier when she's in cowgirl and you're doing the thrusting.

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