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Geoj posted:My wife is a prolific squirter (has been known to soak through a comforter, blanket, both sheets and into the mattress pad) and we keep a collection of old bath towels in the bedroom specifically for this reason. Pro Tip: Do it on her side of the bed.  (Unfortunately, yep... rubber mattress protector and 2/3 layers of super large towels, and a lotta laundry detail).http://www.amazon.com/Utopia-Premium-30-Inch-60-Inch-4-Pack/dp/B008BOC2JY/ref=sr_1_3?s=bedbath&ie=UTF8&qid=1396480641&sr=1-3 Please let me know if you can find larger towels. For everyone else reading, never let a squirter sit on your face unless you like waterboarding, full nostrils, and temporary blindness. But hey, I personally love the extra fireworks, when she can pull herself off me and let me know how much she is enjoying things... Beats a girl that is too dry from taking the pill, even at the lightest prescription.  And always say 'HI' right after you make your partner come.
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Gladstone posted:My girlfriend has vaginismus, so we're going to see a sex therapist next week and figure out how to eventually solve the problem. I'm pretty certain the cause of it is due to childhood trauma, but I was thinking of getting her a vaginismus kit as well. Patience and yep the doctor. There is always slow anal if you are both receptive to that angle. It takes a little more 'skill' to achieve the desired result, as long as you subscribe to the idea that 'it's all interconnected down there' and find the positions that work. I have run into this a couple times over my life, and nothing but patience and relaxation and lots of love can get the flower to open. If it helps, things could be far far worse off. I met my wife who was suffering from acute Vulvar Vestibulitis. Acute as in she was bedridden for 18 months, (considering suicide a LOT) left her house to see her specialist in NYC every three months, and thought she could never have normal sex again. She had choice of about a handful of high end doctors that could even treat her case in the US. After about 1 year, falling in madly love, and a ton of cunnilingus, we made love normally for the first time. Her doctor, mother and father, were amazed and delighted, and agreed that something about falling in love and... paying close attention to her vagina, played a part in the recession of all her -extremely- painful syndrome. To this day, they use a teen's size speculum to use during her examinations. This 80 year old Princeton doctor drives to NYC to take care of the hopeless cases like my wives. He is a saint. She still 'feels razor blades inside her' and flare ups from time to time, but we make the best of it. Been together 3-4 years now, and while there are ups and downs, one session may leave her without the ability to have vaginal sex for another week. She is a amazing at anal, orgasims just as fast as vaginal so there is no real impact to our regular sex life. This one was a miracle according to the main Dr at Presbyterian hospital in Manhattan. More like a miracle given to a pair madly in love.. Married happily ever after, working through the day to day issues we have to face. She is worth every worry, and high end doctor visit in Manhattan. I am a lucky man.
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Elastic style cock rings? Avoid rubber banding it though.
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Vogler posted:No, I mean I have trouble even when using my hand. Hit the doctor. Do you have high blood pressure?
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Kimmalah posted:Maybe it just varies, but that can be a really bad way to do anal and it's better to err on the side of caution there rather than just "use a little lube and slap it on in." I've been with people who do that and it can really be the worst. Yah was really surprised to see that. It's my anecdote but the best approach usually seemed to be to play with her butt when eating and then slowly slowly work from there. An ex was literally 30 years old and divorced and was absolutely stunned when she found that 'hey things are kinda connected down there'. She had never ever considered anal but after a few dozen toe curling orgasims it was her that asked for anal. But even then, it was very very slow progress to be careful not to ruin it with hurting her. This one in particular was the most uptight woman I have ever been with and even she would be like 'hey... neighbor??' as the code word for she wanted to sit on it her way. As always, YMMV.
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Wraith of J.O.I. posted:Anyone have any experience with opening up relationships/becoming "monogamish"? My girlfriend and I have been together for close to a year and a half, are currently living together and having issues with different libidos. Hers is a lot lower than mine, and while right now it's not a huge issue, it is starting to cause some conflict. When we talked about it, she asked how I'd feel about opening the relationship up, specifically me potentially finding a gently caress buddy or what have you. I said I wasn't sure how I feel about it, and she said she isn't totally sure how she would, but I'm thinking more that it might be a good idea if done right. Anybody have any tips, experience, advice, etc in this area? This will pretty much become most relationships (In my opinion). I don't understand it but as someone in their early 40's (yes im yucky and old) this has been my experience and I have been in a lot of them. I am married to a woman that makes jessica rabbit look prepubescent and yet we just aren't making love like we used to, just like every drat relationship I have been in. Thats why a lot of married folks are having sex with each other on the side. We stay married but still gently caress each other whenever we can. Sure you can get a new woman/man, but there you will be again. My experience may be different from others, but basically everyone is loving everyone else once in a long term relationship or marriage when you have a strong libido and need the spark and butterflies of something new. Call me a horrible person, but I have no clue how folks keep the same partners exclusively for 20-40 years.
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