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- Captain No-mates
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im going to date gross dude if he gets stood up again
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Oct 16, 2014 20:09
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- Captain No-mates
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stop following me
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Oct 16, 2014 20:11
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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gently caress, she's in an open relationship. Dates never seem to go well, and this one hasn't even happened yet.
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Oct 20, 2014 04:51
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- thewizardofshoe
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nah that's cool if you're looking for something casual, she's pretty much just trolling for dick 80% probability of success!
if you're not gross, dude
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Oct 20, 2014 05:05
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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nah that's cool if you're looking for something casual, she's pretty much just trolling for dick 80% probability of success!
if you're not gross, dude
I actually am not all that interested in sex. I just want a girl who i love and who loves me who will go to Perkins with me.
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Oct 20, 2014 05:14
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- alnilam
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You can still have love with someone in an open relationship depending on her approach to it and yours
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Oct 20, 2014 05:24
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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You can still have love with someone in an open relationship depending on her approach to it and yours
Yeah, but, will they go to Perkins with me?
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Oct 20, 2014 05:41
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- City of Glompton
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maybe you should start at the source. find a perkins customer and ask her out yeah?
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Oct 20, 2014 05:43
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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I don't know how I feel regarding this date and open relationships,I kinda got the short end of the stick the last time someone sprung the whole open ended relationship thing on me. She and I had been seeing each other for two months and I was head over heels, she was not.She started seeing someone else, and it hurt, so I told her that I was in love with her and she told me she wasn't in love with me. So,I said that we had to end it, but then she got sad and told me I was treating her like a dead end, it really hurt and it made me feel guilty. This basically kept happening once a month for a year until I was so exhausted emotionally that I was able to walk away for good.
I guess I see open relationships as a way to have sex with your friends, but I'm not interested in that, I want someone who's really interested in just me.
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Oct 21, 2014 21:31
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- verily carefree
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go in with an open mind is the best advice i can give
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Oct 21, 2014 21:32
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- alnilam
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Sounds like that last open girl wasn't very emotionally responsible/honest (or maybe she was and you weren't receptive?), but open relationships can involve love too
read the book (or at least the first chapter of) the ethical slut, even if you have no desire to ever be in an open relationship it's a very eye opening and inspiring work on different attitudes about love and relationships and sexuality, and about being responsible and honest with feelings
I'm not trying to convince you to want to be in one or anything it's fine if that's not what you want
herf derf yadon
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Oct 21, 2014 21:57
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- Perry Mason Jar
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"Della? Take a lid"
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i have a date with Destiny for PS4
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Oct 21, 2014 22:01
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- ulvir
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I don't know how I feel regarding this date and open relationships,I kinda got the short end of the stick the last time someone sprung the whole open ended relationship thing on me. She and I had been seeing each other for two months and I was head over heels, she was not.She started seeing someone else, and it hurt, so I told her that I was in love with her and she told me she wasn't in love with me. So,I said that we had to end it, but then she got sad and told me I was treating her like a dead end, it really hurt and it made me feel guilty. This basically kept happening once a month for a year until I was so exhausted emotionally that I was able to walk away for good.
she sounds emotionally manipulative and abusive.
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Oct 21, 2014 22:11
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- alnilam
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she sounds emotionally manipulative and abusive.
this was my take too, we're only getting gross dudes side so it could be otherwise but im 90% sure she was just not a good person to relationship with, open or not
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Oct 21, 2014 22:24
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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I'm still like super in love with her, and I've thought about it a lot.She wasn't being malicious at all, and I should have been big enough to walk away, but when you're in love you do dumb things.
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Oct 21, 2014 22:49
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- LappyDore64
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by XyloJW
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the obvious solution is to bottle up all your feelings real tight and never express them to anybody until they undergo cold fusion and you completely loving snap, exploding into a ball of incandescent feelings that obliterates everything in a 10 mile radius.
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Oct 21, 2014 23:02
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- ulvir
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the obvious solution is to bottle up all your feelings real tight and never express them to anybody until they undergo cold fusion and you completely loving snap, exploding into a ball of incandescent feelings that obliterates everything in a 10 mile radius.
I can attest to this. it has worked well for a number of BYOB posters
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Oct 21, 2014 23:05
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- ulvir
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in some cases you won't even snap. you'll just keep swirling down a spiral of self-loathing and feelings of utter worthlessness.
... or so I've heard
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Oct 21, 2014 23:07
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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I'm going to say this is the best first date I've ever had. Usually I'm lukewarm after a first date if not just straight out opposed to going out again. I want to see this girl again, and she wants to see me again. Hooray 
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Oct 22, 2014 05:07
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- LappyDore64
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heart warmed, voted 5.
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Oct 22, 2014 05:54
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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We are scheduling a second date. :3
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Oct 22, 2014 18:03
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- FluffieDuckie
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voting 5 for gross dude finally successfully completing a first date. good going dude 
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Oct 22, 2014 18:05
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- alnilam
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mods please change title to "I have a second date" thread
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Oct 22, 2014 18:07
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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I think the weirdest first date I ever had was when I took these two roommates out for brunch, because they wanted a guy in their relationship. They gave me a jigglypuff necklace that they made.
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Oct 22, 2014 18:26
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- alnilam
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the weirdest first date i ever went on was when me and my live-in gf went out with this guy, we were looking to bring a guy into our relationship
we stayed up all night the night before making him a jigglypuff necklace, and he didn't really seem to like it that much??
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Oct 22, 2014 18:30
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- Gross Dude
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Gross Dude
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Wow, looks like you dodged a bullet, he seems like an rear end.
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Oct 22, 2014 18:33
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