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"son i know you probably have a developmental disability such as autism or an anxiety disorder but id really like you to know how much i want to beat you for crying" *gets a million upvotes*
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buy him a gbs account and we will shame him into cleaning up
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Jan 28, 2015 18:00
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WetNightmare posted:i dont know why he's so unresponsive. i've tried everything -- repressing my emotions, not communicating with him on a meaningful level. everything! i especially repressed my desire to punch my own son for not being manly how can i fix my son guys
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Jan 28, 2015 18:13
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a bone to pick posted:are we turning back into tumblr-eque GBS? is believing that its hosed up that your reaction to seeing your child cry is to want to punch them the realm of tumblr because if it is i am sorry
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Jan 28, 2015 18:17
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City of Tampa posted:yeah but's it's not a reaction to seeing a child cry, it's a reaction to a fat 13 year old boy that doesn't hesitate to cry at the drop of a hat. Imagine living with someone like that. yeah punching people is an effective substitute for genuine emotional connection especially after inflicting a divorce on your son it has been proven to produce such well adjusted individuals as the guy featured in the op, who typed a passive aggressive rant on an internet forum about how he wishes his son would get arrested more
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Jan 28, 2015 19:21
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when my son cries i assume the little poo poo is trying to manipulate me ask me about being a well adjusted father
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Jan 28, 2015 20:28
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ArbitraryC posted:Kid is 13 and already becoming fatass with no friends, he's on track to grow up on wizardchan. Seriously, the longer you wait to develop healthy eating/excercise habits and a healthy social life the harder it gets. This kid is about to spend 4 years in highschool being a virgin who's only other friends are also asocial nerds and then be a bitter weirdo throughout college who's resentful of normal people if something isn't done pretty much right now. take an interest in his life and interests and try to connect with him while also investigating possible treatment for the underlying developmental disorder he pretty obviously has or punch him in the face and call him a human being both work
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Jan 28, 2015 20:41
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my teenage son only tells me about bad experiences he has had what a pussy rear end bitch why the gently caress is he telling me this poo poo
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Jan 28, 2015 20:45
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Dyna Soar posted:yeah i agree and reddit dad does too at least based on that thing he posted. the son has no interest in books, music, movies, the mechanical (whatever that means), his grades suck, he never goes out unless forced, he apparently doesn't enjoy going to amusement parks, nowhere his dad can think of that would be fun. he only likes playing minecraft with his creepy friend. it doesnt say he doesnt enjoy going to amusement parks, it says that he is scared of heights and the fast rides it also says that he doesnt complain and does what he is told when his dad does it even if he doesnt particularly enjoy things that are intended to be fun he apparently cries frequently at things that his father finds baffling he also regularly seeks comfort in passive activities and junk food and seems to regularly have bad experiences when put into a social situation like at camp he enjoys the company of his mother more than his father, who we know has a chip on his shoulder pertaining to "manliness" and poo poo the dude in the op's son has an anxiety disorder or autism or some other kind of developmental handicap that his dad is too stupid to recognize and its going untreated because instead of talking with teachers or social workers or other professionals the kids father is posting passive aggressive rants on reddit about how much he wants to beat his son for being confusing
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Jan 28, 2015 20:59
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Dyna Soar posted:idk what crystal ball you got most of that poo poo from its all in the op
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Jan 28, 2015 21:02
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Dyna Soar posted:it's not though, you're making pretty far out assumptions based on the op i suppose it could all be lies but nobody would lie on the internet least of all reddit
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Jan 28, 2015 21:03
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a bone to pick posted:dad doesn't want his son to turn into a sensitive, antisocial goon and surprise surprise goons are up in arms about it lol so sayeth forums poster a bone to pick, alpha goon
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Jan 28, 2015 21:06
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Dyna Soar posted:he doesn't hate his personality, he's worried about him. he says the kid is getting into taek wan do and feels bad about not making him do sports earlier, so according to op he's actively trying to make his son move more he thought about punching his son and didnt instantly feel ashamed of himself for even letting the thought cross his mind
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Jan 28, 2015 21:26
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Dyna Soar posted:he does though, he thinks his son crying over poo poo he thinks is trivial is a sign of weakness but at the same time admits that those thoughts are his own weakness. carefully read the op again or maybe stop posting no it says he thinks himself weak for NOT punching his loving son
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Jan 28, 2015 21:30
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afeelgoodpoop posted:sensitivity and negative feelings towards being sensory overloaded is a core component of being a sensitive ie withdrawn/shy person.the child in the op is unable to overlook anxiety/fear to enjoy carnie rides which is a very good tell of it. its important to remember that this is a core aspect of 1 out of 5 people born in this world with only psycho substances like lsd or ssris and high social rank can change. imagine if nearly every new high sensory experience is overwhelmed by the negative feelings of anxiety, and overcolor whatever it is your experiencing? it should be easy, especially for goons. this also shows why parental direction towards adult life is very important, since anxiety colors nearly every experience negatively, how could you possibly know what you want to dedicate your times for? well, aside from your ritual (videogames) that is. this is what ive been saying he has an anxiety disorder or some poo poo and it all adds up if his dad is actually telling the truth he would probably know it too if he did stuff like talked to the kids teachers or something but that would require actually taking an interest in his kids life beyond obligatory custody visits
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Jan 28, 2015 21:38
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Hesh Ballantine posted:that kid will be the next adam lanza if that bad dad doesnt seriously beat the baby out of him soon remember those news stories that occasionally pop up about a double shooting at the local suburb where a guy shoots his parents and then kills himself usually that started with someone trying to beat the baby out of them
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Jan 28, 2015 21:46
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kids are like tamagochis sometimes you just get bad rng you see
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Jan 28, 2015 21:51
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kid should hold up a liquor store to get money to buy anime figurines just to make his dads brain crash
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Jan 28, 2015 21:56
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ArbitraryC posted:Yeah we've had a bunch of people point out this as if they they don't realize there'd be people complaining about him being an overbearing parent trying to live vicariously through their kid rather than letting them do what they want if he actually did force him to turn off the minecraft. if he forced him to turn off minecraft his son would eventually find some other form of escapism (after trying and failing to get over the fact that his dad forced him to cut off contact with what is probably his only friend) because minecraft is a symptom and not a cause
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