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the insane persecution of the shy inborn temperament type never seems to end. thankfully we can share our voice comfortably on the internet against fucktard normie dads. hurr! my son is really good natured and empathetic yet overly emotional and not very thrill seeking! i say this like its possible to be both at once! im loving divorced and rush into bad decisions!
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City of Tampa posted:He's a talented, funny, intelligent guy that works his rear end off and doesn't take himself too seriously. current psych community recommendations when raising a more shy/withdrawn child is actually to provide much more direction and discipline in their life, like what you say. however the reddit dad said his kid does everything that's asked of him, even if they come out of it only seeing the negatives. everything the father complains about is resentment of his sons lack of spirit and positive attitude. how exactly do you beat that into somebody?
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City of Tampa posted:When the kid starts crying over stupid poo poo to try and manipulate you, you aggressively tell him to shut the gently caress up and stop being such a baby. He's 13, not 5. where does it say his kid cried to manipulate him? all it says is his son cried over stupid poo poo. i find it unlikely that a child that has the self discipline and parental submission to do poo poo he doesnt like is crying to be manipulative.
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Jan 28, 2015 21:05
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Dyna Soar posted:reddit dad is worried his kid is turning into this wow... its almost like the dad who said his kid does anything he ask him could easily direct him to some type of exercising. maybe even in some incredibly passive way like putting the computer on a standing desk. but naw its probably better to hate a core part of their personality.
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Jan 28, 2015 21:22
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sensitivity and negative feelings towards being sensory overloaded is a core component of being a sensitive ie withdrawn/shy person.the child in the op is unable to overlook anxiety/fear to enjoy carnie rides which is a very good tell of it. its important to remember that this is a core aspect of 1 out of 5 people born in this world with only psycho substances like lsd or ssris and high social rank can change. imagine if nearly every new high sensory experience is overwhelmed by the negative feelings of anxiety, and overcolor whatever it is your experiencing? it should be easy, especially for goons. this also shows why parental direction towards adult life is very important, since anxiety colors nearly every experience negatively, how could you possibly know what you want to dedicate your times for? well, aside from your ritual (videogames) that is.
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Jan 28, 2015 21:36
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gigawhite posted:i think i cried, went home and played everquest. uhh your not allowed to be so overcome with fear of your feelings that you run to your safe space even as a young teen. now you better not cry as i beat the human being out of you!
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Jan 28, 2015 22:13
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you bet wrong and your shits all retarded
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