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JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy
goodthread

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JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy
Sounds like she is prolly just PMSing OP, it'll be fine :downs:

JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy
people who get married at 18/21 are stupid people and this is what happens when stupid people do stupid things

JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy

r00tn00b posted:


It did, but you know what they say. Hind sight is 20/20. I still wanted things to work and I was and am still in love with the person, my feels arent going to change for a while and I am dealing with that.

How do you love a person who is putting your kids through this the way she is though.

JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy

MinibarMatchman posted:

how the gently caress does a person still want to be with someone who literally took a loving plane to texas to cheat on you. seriously, how the gently caress

serously

I think the crazy homeless schizo dude is righter about this situation than most of the goons backing the OP up about wanting to get back with his terrible wife. Shes loving awful, and OP must have 0 self-esteem to want anything to do with her

JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy

ThePeavstenator posted:

Ya it's crazy that OP isn't able to turn on a dime emotionally for a person he's loved for years. He may be doing everything right (doing what his lawyer tells him, not retaliating, not trying to turn his kids against their mom, etc) but seriously it's hosed up that he can't just instantly start hating her.

No one is suggesting that he should hate her. My point is he shouldn't want to reconcile with her.

JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy

ThePeavstenator posted:

He's fantasizing about a better time. He wants his wife to come to her senses so his family can go back to normal. There's nothing wrong with that as long as he listens to his lawyer (which again, he is doing).

Except the bolded part is hosed up, and the fact that he would take her back after this is pathedic, and selfish (after how she is putting the kids through this).

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JakeP
Apr 27, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lipstick Apathy
a rare E/N success story yay

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