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Miranda posted:I'm still really confused. Basically the OPs wife has been with another man for some time but the OP is delusional and refuses to acknowledge it despite the fact his wife has told him she's loving other dudes and doesn't want anything to do with him. The wife then fled to Portland where her family is located, for support. The OP then followed her out there and ambushed her at her parents house. Somewhere along the way he also threatened her with a box cutter.
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What does he need a lawyer for exactly? His life is already ruined. Just go back to Ohio with your tail between your legs and beg for your old job back while you try and pick up the pieces.
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Jun 10, 2015 16:14
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Volume posted:I dont' see why OP needs a lawyer seeing how he's gonna work it out with her and everything is going to be alright Upon rereading the thread I'd actually agree. This just seems like a "phase" and once she starts therapy she will see how wrong she has treated this man. Just hang in there OP, she will come around!
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Jun 10, 2015 16:29
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You can tell us what really happened. It's safe here. I get pretty rough with my wife when I'm drunk and she gets on my nerves too. I bet you just lost your temper right? What was she hospitalized for exactly? Did you break any bones??
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Jun 10, 2015 18:15
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GunChicka posted:So then your next response was....? Uhh heh, well I'd uh, really like to see my kids again... That'd be great if ... Uh you could manage it, ya know, if you got the time or whatever . I totally understand though if you want to get me arrested instead.
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Jun 10, 2015 20:36
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The op mustve done something really horrible to be so vague and obtuse with details. There is zero chance that the mother of his children would just SUDDENLY go insane and steal his kids. It's also telling that the family hates him.
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Jun 10, 2015 20:54
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r00tn00b posted:
Wow awesome, glad you're loving what Portland has to offer. I guess you're gonna meet some white vegan chick with dreads and forget about your kids and your crazy wife now. Good for you imo.
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Jun 10, 2015 23:06
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r00tn00b posted:I will be holding out hope that this works out because I do want my family together. She isn't who she normally is right now. Maybe this is the new her maybe it's not. Yeah man. Like I said, its probably just a phase. You should contact the guy she has been cheating on you with in Texas via facebook. Tell him shes crazy and tried to cut your dick off 
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Jun 13, 2015 13:07
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Mega64 posted:
Why should he? The game is over. She has a family of free lawyers at her disposable , has the kids, has the money and has painted him as a psycho wielding box cutter maniac. Time to pack it up and go the gently caress back home OP.
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Jun 13, 2015 16:32
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Getting a lawyer will just lighten his pockets more than they already have been by his succubus wife, while she moves to Texas to be with her new boyfriend. Dont bother with the lawyer OP, just keep visiting every other weekend until she gets tired of her kids and moves to texas, abandoning them with you.
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Jun 13, 2015 16:53
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platedlizard posted:a creepy colon's gimmick is to give the worst advice possible and see who he reels in. gently caress you.
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Jun 13, 2015 18:38
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Who is the boyfriend in Texas?
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Jun 13, 2015 19:30
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Like, who is this joker anyway?
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Jun 13, 2015 19:30
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r00tn00b posted:He is me. Literally in every way he is me. He has the same job. Interests hobbies. He is a clone of me. He even has the same name of my twin brother. He is a cheap knockoff of me. She literally replaced me for me. He just happened to be there for her when u couldn't. Ok, now we are getting somewhere. If this dude is your doppleganger then he CAN be defeated. Think, what would a Texas version of you be thinking next? What is his next move? And what did he do exactly to seduce your wife?!
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Jun 13, 2015 20:59
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Im not being insincere, if we can help you win back your family thatd be pretty cool. Anyway, the past is in the past so they say. except when the past comes back and steals your wife. you gotta stop this dude in his tracks somehow. And the only way is by getting into his head. Give us more background info on the initial affair since you have confirmed that this is basically a continuation of that (did she ever STOP talking to him i wonder??)
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Jun 13, 2015 21:08
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Blitter posted:I am blown away by the level of self deception, and complete lack of insight you have - so much so its becoming easier and easier to see why she wanted you loving out of her life. Yikes
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Jun 13, 2015 21:28
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It's weird how all the 'nice' and 'sincere' posters from earlier are now turning against you simply because you choose to try and stay together for the kids. You guys realize insulting him over and over again because he isnt doing exactly what you want is stupid right?
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Jun 13, 2015 22:06
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Update please OP?
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Jul 2, 2015 00:21
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It's not.
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Jul 2, 2015 14:05
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r00tn00b posted:You know that and I know that but I want to know why he dosn't know that. Never married, had kids or had any significant relationship of any kind most likely.
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Jul 2, 2015 14:19
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The OP's situation is sad and pitiful and the people who are calling him a moron are really mean imho. Like those people are probably sociopaths
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Jul 4, 2015 18:45
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That one dude called him a loser? Totally uncalled for
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drat imagine if the OP had listened to any of the advice in this thread, he would be so much worse off.
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