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Droo
Jun 25, 2003

signalnoise posted:

I mean, ok my wife doesn't want to split the cost of a reciprocating saw because she says she'll never use it, but I don't watch TV yet I split the cost of Netflix.

Splitting finances leads to resentment? nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.......

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Droo
Jun 25, 2003

signalnoise posted:

This is why I'm trying to head this off at the pass and get a solid understanding. Frustration and resentment are NOT something I want. What's a good set of rules here?

Well, in your situation I would buy the cheapest desk I could find on Craigslist because you are about to be in a lot of financial pain and there are better ways to spend time than building a desk. I imagine you could get something for $20.

As far as finances in general, I always advocate combining finances and giving each person an equal spending allowance. I would consider Netflix a joint expense, and in your case I wouldn't buy a saw right now.

As a married guy with a couple houses and lots of tools, I would probably attribute at least 70% of the times I've used my reciprocating saw to poo poo that my wife wanted, so I also don't really think it's fair to call it "your" saw.

Droo
Jun 25, 2003

Well I think we can definitely answer the question at this point. No, you are not an adult now.

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