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WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
When I'm mod I'm going to make D&D great again

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WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

WhiskeyJuvenile posted:

When I'm mod I'm going to make D&D great again

sike it's always been poo poo

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

Luigi Thirty posted:

http://elitedaily.com/life/savings-20s-something-wrong/1214445/

I don’t have any savings, but I also don’t have any wants.

I don’t know about you, but I like to enjoy my life. I like to go out to eat, buy clothes I don’t “need” and spend money with friends on memorable nights out.

This goes back to a piece of advice a very successful friend gave me: “Don’t save money. Make more money,” he nonchalantly stated, pushing me into a taxi.

Unlike most things people tell me, this advice did not go in one ear and out the other; it stayed with me and changed the way I look at everything from my career to my savings.

Before this piece of advice, I was frantic. I was always doubting and always feeling guilty. I lived in the most exciting city in the world (also the most expensive) and had yet to experience it.

I was trying to save, which meant trying not to eat. I wasn’t going out with friends, had yet to go to a club and had never seen the inside of a taxi.

I couldn’t enjoy my life because I was too busy worrying about my bank statement. I was too busy watching my savings instead of savoring my youth.

Why did I feel so guilty about spending money on myself and my life?

When did our 20s start to feel like our 40s? When did we get weighed down with the same pressure and stresses as a woman with four kids and a second mortgage?

We don’t have kids. We’ll be renting for the foreseeable future, and we have no problem eating McDonald’s when we’re skint.

I’ve recently figured it out: This pressure, this third-party stress, is ingrained within us. It’s this looming doom our parents carved into our unconscious, only to come out anytime we make an impulse purchase or have to spend the night without Netflix.

But like most things our parents have ingrained in us, we must consciously work to push it out. Because while they may have the best intentions, they don’t always have the best insight.

They want us to save because it provides us with a safety net, but that’s exactly why we shouldn’t. Their need for us to have a safety net is just a giant metaphor for the difference between our parent’s generation and ours.

They were getting married at 20 while we’re just getting our first apartments. They were saving for kids while we still want to be kids. We’re on different schedules, different paths and totally different savings plans.

We’re taking our time growing up, refusing to be shackled by mortgages and diapers. We’re not trying to live with safety nets; we’re trying to live on the edge.

smdh

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
There a retirement crisis looming in the next 10-20 years it's gonna be lol

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

zoux posted:

will boomers suffer?

well right when millenials finally move out of their parents' house, their parents are gonna move in with them

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
erin go bragh home country's full

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

Ghost of Reagan Past posted:

I haven't lived at home in 12 years :smugdog:

It's me, I'm the unicorn millennial

im 32 (i forget what that makes me) but my mother-in-law lives with us because lol she has no savings at all whoops!

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

WhiskeyJuvenile posted:

im 32 (i forget what that makes me) but my mother-in-law lives with us because lol she has no savings at all whoops!

we've been hearing "boomers are putting off retirement because they have no savings" for almost a decade but eventually they're not gonna be able to put off retirement any more and they'll still have no savings

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

Ghost of Reagan Past posted:

my father's not even 60 yet so I don't foresee this in my near future

she's 68 and has alzheimers so maybe it won't be forever

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
i owe $6000 in taxes

thanks a lot, AMT

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

Badger of Basra posted:

shut your trap, trust fund haver

hmm no i do not have a trust fund

i work hard for the money

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
Today, in Ugandan facebook jokes:

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
Cuba could basically live for decades off the proceeds of selling their cars to rich Americans

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

Rafza posted:

here have another




why, are they particularly rare/valuable?

basically a bunch of cars from the 1950s that have survived to today because Cuba hasn't really been able to get any other cars since then

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
"meltdown" and "yikes" are my favorite election memes so far

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo


today, in ugandan facebook memes

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
travis blackle

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
friend of mine was on Jeopardy last night, then got an email mainsplaining later that night something she said

smdh

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
welp, friend of mine killed herself last weekend

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

Rollofthedice posted:

oh god that's terrible :(

i'm sorry for your loss

she posted pictures of her new garden on saturday and then welp

:shrug:

life, man

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

Rollofthedice posted:

i suppose it would be in poor taste to talk about my own garden now huh

i've got the seeds in a greenhouse indoors and will plant them once this april freeze we're experiencing is over\

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tciKSzVZro4

http://jezebel.com/ladies-and-gentlemen-weve-reached-peak-wokeness-1769715750

gently caress me daddy

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

zoux posted:

the worst shippers in the world are supernatural shippers who believe not only do the brothers in the show have a secret gay relationship, but that the actors themselves are gay lovers and both their wives are beards. they have gotten Jensen Ackles's wife ejected from conventions by making false security reports about how she's a stalker.

I just googled that and uh I think she was a stalker?

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

What story?

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

zoux posted:

that she had to swipe her metrocard four times to get on the subway because of a) that's just how it always works b) she's a heinous elitist bitch who can't understand normal people things

smdh

WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo

the_paradigm_shift posted:

can't wait for this alec bill to hit my state too :smithicide:

Does ALEC do social poo poo? I thought they were corporate-only

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WhiskeyJuvenile
Feb 15, 2002

by Nyc_Tattoo
Playing a lot of Starsector lately

It's Mount & Blade in space basically

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