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In gay dating a lot of people are pretty open about their prejudices because the whole thing is basically a meat market and people don't think twice about stating who they do and don't want to gently caress. Like even if you don't find certain groups of people attractive I'm not sure how it helps anyone to put "No fats no fems no Asians" on your profile.
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criscodisco posted:That's the part that confuses me. I know that "no fats no fems no Asians" tops a lot of guys profiles, but I also know a lot more guys who are into Asian guys than ones who are into black guys. I guess if you're just looking to gently caress it would be all about dick size. I've seen both. There are plenty of white guys who are only into nonwhite guys (not even a particular race, they just want smooth guys with non-white skin), and obviously plenty more who are only into white. Actually most of the profiles I see that specifically say "not into white guys" are from black guys. And as much as Asians get the short end of the stick from people's racial preferences, I've been in enough gay spaces as a white dude to see that many, many Asian men will make a beeline for a white guy when he walks in, but would never give a black man the time of day. Everyone knows it's bad to be racist but people's attractions also aren't under their direct control (else there wouldn't be gay people), so it's this weird space where everyone has preferences but is judgy about other people's preferences if they're excluded by them. So it seems like the best strategy if you don't want to be a dick is to not make people feel lovely by publicly airing all the stuff you don't like?
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Apr 21, 2016 21:30
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New GBS makes it hard to tell what posts are worth responding to I guess the answer is "none of them"
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Apr 21, 2016 21:47
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