DLAO posted:

My husband is an alcoholic, drug addict, and has been in trouble with the law quite a few times. He has a good job, but mine is better. We bought a house last year. When we met, he had a crappy job, no license, too many court fees, and no car. Since then, we've paid off all the fees, gotten his license back, a car, etc.

He doesn't want to divorce me. He wants me to be fine with him disappearing in drunken, drugged out binges for days at a time, not answering any calls/texts and then just returning. No apologies, no explanations.

Well, I am not. I am not a drug addict. I don't drink. I've never been in trouble with the law. Everything is under MY name, though, both cars, the house, etc because I have good credit and his is poo poo.

He said that if I try to divorce him, he's going to take everything I have. Is that possible? We've been married for almost 3 years now. I understand they say that marriage is hardest in the first 5-6 years.

So, divorcees out there. Have you divorced someone? What was the process? Has anyone divorced a POS that doesn't WANT to stop being a POS but also doesn't want to be divorced so they can continue to suck the life and money out of you?