Triggered posted:

I know reddit is unpopular on here but the exmormon subreddit can be a brilliant source of information. My exit from Mormonism was fairly tame but you will see the occasional wtf story on there as well as some stuff I had never heard of before. Many stories on there showing some Mormons just don't understand boundaries like doing underwear checks.

I will answer the best I can on here but there are guys who obviously know far more than me.