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I really need help because I've hosed up pretty badly here and don't really know what to do, or where to begin resolving anything! I'm white, and I came to China about a year ago to work as an English teacher for a limited period of time before heading back home to the US (Midwest) - I decided on it on a whim after completing my BSc in Econ and realizing this might be my last chance to travel and experience another part of the world before settling down into the daily grind of a career. I pursued Chinese language classes alongside degree just out of something to do extracurricular-wise (I like economics but studying something so formally always takes the fun out of it) and passed my HSK3 last year. Anyway. I'm in Shenzhen to be exact. And I met a guy about 6 months ago, Chinese, who works for a web-services company here and who also went to college in America. There are barely any single western guys here so I thought I'd give it a shot, plus he's cute and seemed to have his poo poo together. And besides, I actually quite like the school here since it's a private school devoted to English language teaching. Everything was cool for the first month or so, lots of gifts, complimenting me on my blonde hair and I won't lie, I liked the attention. So he convinced me to cancel the rolling lease I have on my place (at his expense!) and move on with him. From there on things started getting worse. He'd demand to know who I was chatting to on my phone, he'd ask me to block male friends from WeChat, he monitors my social media activity and emails, he'd do this under the guise of ensuring we were both loyal - and initially offered to give me his phone whenever I wanted it (but only his non-work phone). He has become increasingly paranoid, prone to outbursts of rage, a lot of his insults are racialized and he claims you can't trust white women as we're all whores, I realize "abusive" is sometimes overused but over the past month he has started to kick me if I don't do things like washing for him quickly enough. It's not enough to cause serious injury but apparently stuff like this predicts future violence in a relationship. So I'm using a VPN to access Reddit right now. Bf is asleep and I just want some advice on what to do next. Can I go to the consulate and ask for their help, or will they turn me away? I'm prepared to leave the country outright at this point because I'm honestly done here. I told a female (Chinese) colleague and she just laughed it off saying that's what men are like. I don't want to involve my parents as they'd be unhappy with both my relationship choice and how it's turned out, and I don't want a "told you so" story when I'm suffering like this, and I don't want to rely on them financially.
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Jul 19, 2017 18:23
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She's going to the consulate.
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Jul 19, 2017 20:26
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The real gold is in the comments
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Jul 19, 2017 21:23
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In the Warcraft movie the main guy kills an orc with a Chinese sword. It was a bad movie.
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Jul 24, 2017 11:22
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How dare you. S: too late
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Jul 24, 2017 23:40
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Those bumfight videos always make me a little bit sad
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Jul 28, 2017 11:28
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angel opportunity posted:
I am moving to china to teach english!
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Jul 31, 2017 23:13
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Aug 1, 2017 01:11
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1. shirt 2. vest 3. jacket 4. pants 5. tie
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Aug 3, 2017 06:05
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it looks like poo
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Aug 3, 2017 11:24
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who would win the china - india boarder war?
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Aug 4, 2017 10:10
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Ups_rail posted:I remember reading some article about black people not liking interracial adoption because they believed white people wouldnt be able to teach the children how to handle dealing with racism. Like the story about the dude in canada. Omg
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Aug 12, 2017 05:12
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he is perfectly fine? what the heck you guys are so rude.
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Aug 15, 2017 19:26
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Which country has the best rear end? I'm looking to teach English overseas and this is my only concern.
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Aug 22, 2017 08:18
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noo
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Aug 23, 2017 11:28
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i have seen more people die in this thread then i have in my 5 consecutive tours in Afghanistan
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Aug 23, 2017 11:29
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Aug 29, 2017 10:22
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Air goes into lungs, maybe.
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Aug 31, 2017 21:04
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TTerrible posted:You don't understand, westerners are different.
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Sep 1, 2017 04:28
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god drat it
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Sep 1, 2017 05:21
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citizenship is bullshit anyway
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Sep 3, 2017 20:23
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Maybe people are the same, no matter where you are.
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Sep 14, 2017 20:12
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gotta get em fresh
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Sep 14, 2017 21:39
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I love death
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Sep 18, 2017 01:45
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Rip haire. How are the dead remembered in China? Or India I guess
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Sep 21, 2017 13:57
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Ceciltron posted:*makes sucking sound by drawing air between teeth*.
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Oct 2, 2017 02:37
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A computer is a box with eyes inside.
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Oct 13, 2017 19:24
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corea
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Oct 14, 2017 19:23
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gently caress Diwali is on Thursday fuckkk
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Oct 18, 2017 17:25
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Grand Fromage posted:Natives have actually lived in the Americas for a while longer than that--there's human settlements in Chile dated to about 16,000 years and the current thinking is people started crossing between 20 and 30,000 years ago. The american pyramids are millions of years old and were built by aliens.
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