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loquacius posted:I'm considering getting a sex change so I stream on twotch and make money. You will make 10x the money by just dressing up as a girl rather than actually getting a sex change because literally every viewer will want to see your dick. Also it's pretty hard to run a gofundme raising money for your sex change if you've already had it! loquacius posted:I apologize in advance for the rambling, goons. When I was young, I was used by a cousin (he was 10 years older than I). I didn't know I was being raped, I just thought I was helping him feel better. This broke me, obviously, and I haven't talked about it with a professional despite seeing one or another for over half my life. There is a very high likelihood that the majority of your issues with dealing with emotions, struggling to trust people, pushing them away etc are there because you have pushed this issue into your subconscious and decided not to deal with it. It sucks bigtime but the only way you'll ever move past it is to speak with a professional about it and start to work through those difficult emotions in a controlled environment. Please give it a try. If you like, try seeing a different therapist so if you don't like how it's going you can just stop seeing them and still maintain your relationship with your current one. You have a right to be hurt and angry about what happened to you, but you also have the right to let yourself work through it and get past it. You have to let yourself start that journey.
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Yeah, I think the whole "some women might not want to date me if they learn I was once with a trans man" thing is actually a bonus. Good way to weed out bigots or hopelessly insecure women early in a relationship. But realistically, the issue here isn't that some hypothetical women are homophobic. It's that the OP is. It sucks to lose your relationship to something entirely out of your control. But it happens sometimes. Your partner could have been hit by a bus, would that have been better? You move on.
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