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I realize we've moved on but I wanted to adress this:falcon2424 posted:I think you're right that it's about involvement. Feminism is an ideology. But it's also an activist movement. I do activist stuff as well but I still refer to myself as an ally rather than a feminist, because men who feel like they are part of a movement have the tendency to coopt it and take over. This happens even in feminist meetings, well-meaning guys will talk over everyone and, in their (again, well-meaning) attempt to "make things right" will take charge and try to lead the group.
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# ¿ Dec 27, 2016 23:57 |
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# ¿ May 14, 2024 14:22 |
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2017 exmarx posted:Why would I say she was Slashie unless I knew she was? oh my god who gives a shiiiiit how is old-rear end forums drama even relevant to these threads here and now, where TB is one of the few people actively contributing good content
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2016 10:13 |
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blowfish posted:Most non-activists (i.e. most people) cannot and will never read a meaningful amount of activism related literature no matter whether the issue is important because time is finite. Why would they read a thread then. Why would their valuable time need to be spent posting in a feminism thread.
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2016 17:39 |
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Mister Adequate posted:To take people in good faith who probably shouldn't be for a moment, I think at least some of the tension comes from the general expectations of a forum like this. Does a thread about [x] mean for any and all aspects of [x]? Or is it about a specific part? Is it for people who are advanced and familiar with the topic or anyone? By way of a bad comparison, a goon who just got Witcher 3 for Christmas and wanders into the Witcher megathread in games to ask "Hey how do I witch?" might get a couple of people jeering at them for not reading the OP but they're also going to get pointers and probably links to more thorough stuff. I'm not saying this in an effort to defend shitposters or people making bad-faith arguments, but I can see where at least some people assume the thread will be open to all and proceed thence to ask something that topic regulars have already answered 153,000 times. Feminism is not a video game.
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2016 23:49 |
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blowfish posted:This. Unless the OP begins with something like "NOOBS GET THE gently caress OUT" I assume every SA thread is for people of all levels of expertise regarding the topic and will get repeats of the basic questions every three pages. And unless a thread for noobs is linked immediately after I'd think the OP is an rear end. Nobody cares what you think.
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2016 23:53 |
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blowfish posted:Ok. Nobody cares what you think either. This is clearly a very productive form of discussion. Let me rephrase: nobody cares what you think about the OP of the feminism thread. You have never shown any earnest interest in the topic, your posts ITT are garbage, you clearly haven't read the OP anyway. Your opinions on this issue (not on other issues) are worthless and nobody here is interested in them. I hope this clears up what I meant.
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# ¿ Dec 29, 2016 00:00 |
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Good Canadian Boy posted:This thread is interesting but the amount of sexism TB throws around in her posting is really hypocritical. lmao ~*~reverse sexism~*~
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# ¿ Dec 29, 2016 12:45 |
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Tiny Brontosaurus posted:I think you'd be a great candidate for employing amplification, which became well-known as the strategy Obama's female staffers used to make their voices heard in meetings. Obama's another good guy who would never be overtly sexist, but who let subconscious sexism permeate the way he ran meetings, so it seemed natural that men should talk over women and steal their ideas. The women in the room started combatting this by repeating a point their female coworker just made and most importantly, naming and thanking her. "I think Karen makes a great point there..." "Just to build off of what Jennifer said..." Just to reinforce TB's point ( ), this works really well and is pretty important to change the feeling of a situation. But on top of that, if you're a guy in a meeting where women get talked over, remember that by virtue of your gender you can be way more annoying than a women without ever getting to the point of "bitchy" or, God forbid, "selfish". At worst you're that guy who's way too politically correct, which... who gives a poo poo. So if you see a male colleague cutting a woman off, just cut them off in turn and say something. "Sorry, I think Jane wasn't finished yet." Stuff like that. They'll get annoyed at you, but after the 2nd or third time they'll stop doing it for a while. Just make an observation about your male colleagues never helping with the coffee, and why that is. Ask uncomfortable questions. At the end of the day you're still a guy, you'll be fine even if you are annoying in a meeting.
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# ¿ Dec 29, 2016 17:33 |
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Deified Data posted:My red text is slightly different today than it was yesterday, meaning someone saw my red text and paid to change it again to something that amounts to the same thing. What in the world. Was the first request to kill myself lacking in some nuance that you think the current one nails? lmao if you think that's from them.
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# ¿ Dec 29, 2016 18:58 |
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stone cold posted:Now that I think about it, it's kind of crazy that Martha Stewart saw more jail time than the architects of the CDO economic collapse of 08. not empty quoting this so goddamn hard
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# ¿ Dec 29, 2016 22:41 |
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Colin Mockery posted:I live in California and use, depending on how formal I'm being/my audience, any one of: "dude", "peeps", "y'all", "guys" This is an extremely good post.
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2016 02:31 |
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you see, the dog represents the bourgeoisie, and
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2016 03:25 |
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I Killed GBS posted:https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3577891&pagenumber=1&perpage=40#post421169558 holy loving poo poo
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2016 11:22 |
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The Kingfish posted:It was ruined because posters like TB cannot tolerate the slightest bit of wrongthink. wateroverfire posted:Please don't probate...only talking about this because it was brought up... but that thread was going fine until some people came over from this one and made it a fight instead of a discussion. I don't think it's fair at all to pin the death of that thread on anyone but the people who killed it. drat those women, always ruining threads by having opinions
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2016 16:00 |
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Can you crybabies not ruin this thread after you got the other one closed? Thanks.
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2016 17:27 |
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I have a question! I know that the legalization of sex work used to be a thorny issue, with sex work advocacy groups being in favor and (at least a good number of) feminists opposed. How is the consensus these days? Is there one? It's somewhat difficult for me to gauge this sort of stuff from a different continent.
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# ¿ Dec 31, 2016 16:01 |
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Sex work is legal where I'm from (Germany), which means the debates are different. Instead of "should we legalize" it's more "which additions to the current laws are good / bad". I'm interested in the state of the US debate. Sorry if I was unclear.
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# ¿ Dec 31, 2016 16:19 |
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Crocobile posted:stuff about the olympics This is super interesting and I didn't know any of this! Thanks for posting!
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# ¿ Jan 8, 2017 12:59 |
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Jack Trades posted:I don't believe that there is such a thing as "objective evil" but even if we assume for the sake of argument that there is then the Nazi's probably thought that the Jews were "objectively evil" as well. yeah, they were wrong. that's the point. in what world would we ever live to find out that anti-racism, anti-sexism etc. is actually bad and we just made a mistake? how would that come to pass? the mere fact that some people who were in fact wrong thought they were right doesn't immediately invalidate the notion of factual reality itself.
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# ¿ Jan 15, 2017 21:33 |
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Jack Trades posted:And Nazi's thought they were fighting the corruption of the human species? In what world is making sure that all of humanity is best it can possibly be is a bad thing and a mistake? why would i be wrong in thinking that racism and sexism are bad? explain that to me.
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# ¿ Jan 15, 2017 21:42 |
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Jack Trades posted:Maybe what you think is racism and sexism are not what they actually are? your argument is literally "humans have been wrong before, you are a human, therefore you might be wrong", which is the dumbest, most philosophy 101 poo poo ever.
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# ¿ Jan 15, 2017 21:50 |
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Defenestration posted:
well that's absolutely horrifying.
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# ¿ Jan 16, 2017 01:29 |
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Lightning Knight posted:This post talks about sexual assault among doctors in some detail. Do not click the spoiler/links if you are sensitive to issues of sexual assault. what the gently caress i'm actually at a loss for words
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2017 13:02 |
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Rakosi posted:I'm not even mad at anyone. I'm really confused at the sudden and uncalled for vitriol. For the record, I was referring to your reaction to me, not to your reaction to the other guy. You flipped your poo poo big stylie at me, for saying "Go plan your next rape" was probably an inopportune choice of words, and that is odd. people here don't owe you poo poo, and you made a (couple of) dumb post(s). just bow out and come back better in a while, the thread is not about you at all.
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2017 22:43 |
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Rakosi posted:Thank you for the heads up and that explanation. For the record, I never saw any unspoiled version. that is the exact explanation that TB and stone cold gave you multiple times but you had to wait for a man to say "oh thanks i didn't know that", lmao.
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2017 22:50 |
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Rakosi posted:It was a conscious decision not to get into some silly flame war by replying in kind to the sort of vitriolic responses I got; instead I tried to ignore them best as I could and replied instead to a post which was rhetorically less of a minefield in an attempt to maybe defuse this a little. Him being an apparent man did not at any point enter into my mind, but I am not convinced you would believe that. you could have taken your exact "thanks for this explanation" post and posted it as a response to stone cold when she told you the exact same thing early on. that would have defused the situation pretty well. but your feelies were hurt so you had to wait for somebody else. meanwhile we're all completely derailing this thread. on topic: i assume this thread would be a good place to talk about women in science? i work in philosophy of science and part of what i'm interested in is the feminist perspective especially in archaeology. i could cobble together some examples if there's any interest, but it would have to wait a while.
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2017 23:18 |
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Tiny Brontosaurus posted:Yes please do! I read a ton about archaeology and one thing I read lately talked about how sexist assumptions work their way into interpretations of what objects were for or art was depicting. Female figures are always "fertility" figures, any skeleton buried with weapons was a man, etc. Do you know anything about that? that is literally what i'm interested in, those exact things also the re-evaluation of work chains, like the fact that stone tool production and invention was widely assumed to be a male field, despite this making zero sense in many cases. again, it'll take me some time to write something up but i'll get around to it!
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2017 23:22 |
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DeusExMachinima posted:I've heard of gender archaeology and Wikipedia isn't being very clear to me here. Is feminist archaeology substantially different than or related to gender archaeology? it's closely related. basically, gender archaeology tries to understand gender relations in past cultures on the basis of their material remains. this includes some pretty cool, semi-recent techniques, like food waste analysis and stuff. feminist archaeology is a broader movement that is concerned both with gendering archaeological research and problematizing current practice. the first means making women visible in ancient cultures, the second is a critique of implicit, unacknowledged male bias that leads to distorted findings -- which is bad for everyone! it sucks for women and it's also bad science. this part is what i'm most interested in.
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2017 23:28 |
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oh my god those are absolutely amazing!
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2017 23:39 |
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Grognan posted:LOL reading those articles, this is not a thing that happens in first world countries and you are still psychotically doing your clam tickle thing. Well you clearly didn't read the studies. But here, I've used my massive man-brain and employed "The Google" for your benefit: http://www.whattoexpect.com/forums/september-2015-babies/topic/husband-stitch-12.html http://www.mothering.com/forum/213-birth-beyond/264611-can-someone-explain-what-happy-husband-stitch.html http://www.compleatmother.com/arch_blessings.htm All of these contain posts from actual women who had this done to them. Most if not all presumably from the US, which despite recent events technically still qualifies as a first world nation. Now please stop posting in this thread.
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# ¿ Jan 22, 2017 13:38 |