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Thank you for posting this thread, queserasera! And thanks to everyone who has participated so far. I'm trying a new thing in BFC where the megathreads will largely remain unstickied but I'll sticky interesting smaller threads to give them a signal boost. I'm unstickying now but I hope this keeps rolling along. Good work BFC
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This is normally the kind of thing I would send via PM, but because I'm still relatively new I think there's value in posting my thinking publicly so people can see where I stand on this sort of thing.Leon Trotsky 2012 posted:You should try camgirling for a year or two to build up capital and research the market. You say made this joke towards BFC superstar Slow Motion. Without seeing the exact context, that was probably fine! Why is it not fine in this case? Here are a couple thoughts: 1) Slow Motion was a multi-month fuckup who kept ignoring good advice over and over. In contrast, this thread is on its second page. I'm guessing you took a little longer to drop that joke on SloMo than you did here. 2) Upon reading your post, queserasera would have no way of knowing that you've made this joke towards a male poster before. I'm guessing it would feel pretty misogynistic and pointed, even if your intent is to make this joke towards people of all genders. cis autodrag posted:So then your defense is that you think sex work is funny? Hi, welcome to BFC! I can appreciate you parachuting in because you saw something problematic. Thank you for saying that it's not humorous to tell a woman seeking financial advice to become a prostitute and for reporting the post. That would have been a good place to leave things, though. This is not the venue to have a long drawn-out fight about it. Respond once, report if need be, and move on. pig slut lisa fucked around with this message at 01:41 on Mar 14, 2017 |
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