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real talk as a fellow trans(tm) im slowly getting very frustrated with how it seems like i am no longer interesting to cis women in any capacity. most of my hobbies tend to involve very male dominated spaces and meeting anyone online is going to involve having my gender basically be the first thing they know about me, so theres no real avoiding that unless i just closet up which kind of defeats the whole point of being out. being a cute and slightly effeminate boy felt weird sometimes but i was never really wanting for romantic/sexual attention. now it feels like the only other people interested in me are also trans and please dont get me wrong i already feel like a shitheel saying this, but there is something weird about how the only attention i get any more is from trans women, usually very early in their transitions. its making me feel like somethings wrong with me. I am Super Gay for ladies of all stripes, but i also still have weird internalized homophobia hangups about dating amab people, so i dont know if im going to have to just force myself to get past that if i dont want to die alone i mean im probably going to die alone anyways because im a serial cheater who became poly so id stop hurting people who didnt deserve having me happen to them but yknow tldr; in your experiences, what does a typical rradius of potential romantic interest in you look like? do you have any experience with dating cis people who aren't assholes about it? |
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gently caress. marry. t-rex posted:Cis lesbian women are definitely my most emotionally understanding cis partners, tbh. |
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Apr 2, 2017 08:29
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Well, no matter what, at least it's better than when I was trying to be a/date other Gaymers(tm). The Nerd Persecution Complex and the White Gay Boy "we are the most oppressed" complex? In the same person? Noooo thank you. |
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Apr 2, 2017 08:35
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I like my men the way I like my coffee: Warm, sweet, and secure in their identity. |
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Apr 2, 2017 08:44
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What the hell kind of coffee are you drinking and where can I get some? |
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