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MonkeyBot
Mar 11, 2005

OMG ITZ MONKEYBOT

fist4jesus posted:

Yup. Tell it to this guy. Could be though that he has somehow only worked for unicorn companies where HR gives a gently caress.
If so, good for him, I've not come across one though in my working life.

After a point the employee churn is costing the company money with hiring and training new people and that's where I assume HR would step in. Then again maybe they just don't talk to accounting.

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fist4jesus
Nov 24, 2002

MonkeyBot posted:

After a point the employee churn is costing the company money with hiring and training new people and that's where I assume HR would step in. Then again maybe they just don't talk to accounting.

Again. Lol.
Why would they step in?

Processing the hirings and firings is about all hr do at most places. That and basic paperwork like change of address and bank if the company's systems don't allow self service.

Bruegels Fuckbooks
Sep 14, 2004

Now, listen - I know the two of you are very different from each other in a lot of ways, but you have to understand that as far as Grandpa's concerned, you're both pieces of shit! Yeah. I can prove it mathematically.

MonkeyBot posted:

After a point the employee churn is costing the company money with hiring and training new people and that's where I assume HR would step in. Then again maybe they just don't talk to accounting.

HR's only purpose is to deal with potential lawsuits - it enforces new hire procedures, termination procedures, etc. It doesn't care about employee performance and budgets or career growth - that is the responsibility of the departments the employees work for, not HR. If a manager wants to fire an employee, the only thing HR cares about is 'did the manager follow the appropriate procedures set forth by the company to do so.'

You should treat talking to HR like talking to the cops.

Tamarillo
Aug 6, 2009
Wow, guess I was an HR Advisor at a unicorn company then. If a new hire manager went on the warpath like this on an otherwise totally normally performing staff member we would have been on it ASAP to establish what the actual gently caress. At the very least we would have been involved in any demotion process (not to mention half of what she did was appalling process here anyway) and seen both sides of the story. People don't typically magically stop performing just because a new manager comes in, it looks fishy as gently caress if the manager starts performance processes the second they walk through the door.

E: Actually who am I kidding of course it was a unicorn company. Before I left the profession I did a quick contract at a much larger company and brought along the same principles in my approach to work (be helpful! give a poo poo! actually know anything about what the business does!) and when a manager approached my boss with astounded positive feedback saying I was genuinely useful and helpful for an HR person, I was gently taken aside and told that this approach "wasn't how we do things here" because the norm was to be unapproachable and say no.

Tamarillo fucked around with this message at 23:15 on Nov 15, 2018

Ham Equity
Apr 16, 2013

i hosted a great goon meet and all i got was this lousy avatar
Grimey Drawer

Tamarillo posted:

Wow, guess I was an HR Advisor at a unicorn company then. If a new hire manager went on the warpath like this on an otherwise totally normally performing staff member we would have been on it ASAP to establish what the actual gently caress. At the very least we would have been involved in any demotion process (not to mention half of what she did was appalling process here anyway) and seen both sides of the story. People don't typically magically stop performing just because a new manager comes in, it looks fishy as gently caress if the manager starts performance processes the second they walk through the door.

E: Actually who am I kidding of course it was a unicorn company. Before I left the profession I did a quick contract at a much larger company and brought along the same principles in my approach to work (be helpful! give a poo poo! actually know anything about what the business does!) and when a manager approached my boss with astounded positive feedback saying I was genuinely useful and helpful for an HR person, I was gently taken aside and told that this approach "wasn't how we do things here" because the norm was to be unapproachable and say no.
In my experience, while not universally true, "those who can't 'do' work in HR."

N. Senada
May 17, 2011

My kidneys are busted

Tamarillo posted:

Wow, guess I was an HR Advisor at a unicorn company then. If a new hire manager went on the warpath like this on an otherwise totally normally performing staff member we would have been on it ASAP to establish what the actual gently caress. At the very least we would have been involved in any demotion process (not to mention half of what she did was appalling process here anyway) and seen both sides of the story. People don't typically magically stop performing just because a new manager comes in, it looks fishy as gently caress if the manager starts performance processes the second they walk through the door.

E: Actually who am I kidding of course it was a unicorn company. Before I left the profession I did a quick contract at a much larger company and brought along the same principles in my approach to work (be helpful! give a poo poo! actually know anything about what the business does!) and when a manager approached my boss with astounded positive feedback saying I was genuinely useful and helpful for an HR person, I was gently taken aside and told that this approach "wasn't how we do things here" because the norm was to be unapproachable and say no.

Did your business have a union?

Tamarillo
Aug 6, 2009
At the unicorn company - no, mercifully not. I totally back the reasons for unions existing and absolutely believe they can achieve good things for employee rights and collective bargaining, but the ones I dealt with in previous roles were mostly staffed by intractable dickheads who ran down any employer in any situation and took a strongly opposing, uncompromising stance in any negotiation no matter what the employee situation actually was (even when they had a pretty good deal!)

At the larger company where usefulness and efficiency was frowned on - yes, union.

N. Senada
May 17, 2011

My kidneys are busted
That’s the opposite of my situation. My non/union jobs sucked and my current job with a union has one of the best workplace cultures I’ve ever had.

Feral Integral
Jun 6, 2006

YOSPOS

Only trust your fists, HR will never help you

PIZZA.BAT
Nov 12, 2016


:cheers:


veni veni veni posted:

I guess I haven't updated this in a while. I went in last Monday, told her I couldn't work in the hostile environment she created and that I'd be resigning effective immediately. It sucked I didn't get to say bye to more than a few people but I just wanted to get the gently caress out of there and never look back at that point. I went to HR and attempted to detail the harassment and lies, there was so much I couldn't even get to all of it. HR guy told me he'd take it seriously, but I know that isn't probably true. I told him "this probably seems like I'm just being salty, but I'm not mad I just hope this meeting gives you all some pause the next time this inevitably happens. And I think you are going to lose a good chunk of the staff because of her attitude because morale is horrible right now" I took the week off and just chilled and painted and played video games.

Started my new job on Monday. I really like it so far. Much lower stress. Slightly better pay. Really like the people I'm working with so far. Anxiety is gone and I'm feeling normal again.

I look forward to it dawning on my old boss just how much I did there and how much harder her job is going to be without me, even if I'll never get to witness it.

Anyone at the management level who's actually competent knows the old adage, 'there's no such thing as bad jobs- people quit bad bosses'

Any job can be tolerable if you're treated with respect and managed well. Likewise any perfect job can immediately flip into being complete poo poo if the wrong person is put in charge of it. If your now ex-HR department is competent they'll see this as a :redflag: and take it seriously. If they're just as garbage as your now ex-boss then... well hopefully your coworkers will be emboldened by you jumping ship.

Earwicker
Jan 6, 2003

I Demand Food posted:

HR is first and foremost there to protect the company's interests, not those of the employees.

a manager so bad that they start causing good employees to quit is, in fact, hurting a company's interests - and HR departments that recognize this and notify the relevant senior managers do exist.

they aren't particularly common, but they exist.

also the manager in this case sounds so bad they might someday do something that creates a real legal liability. HR does care about preventing hostile work environments because that is a thing people sue companies over.

Earwicker fucked around with this message at 02:07 on Dec 28, 2018

Thesaurus
Oct 3, 2004


One thing with HR is that they vary widely with regard to their power and functions. At some companies they just handle payroll, paperwork, and benefits, while in others they may be developing company strategy for attracting and retaining talent.

HR is only as powerful as the upper management lets them be. If they have advice about a bad manager, it only matters if they have control over them.

Friendly Fire
Dec 29, 2004
All my friends got me for my birthday was this stupid custom title. Fuck my friends.

I Demand Food posted:

HR is first and foremost there to protect the company's interests, not those of the employees.

If HR does something that means the company not getting fined or sued also happens to better the lives of the employees in some way, that's just the cherry on top.

Almost correct. HR are there for themselves first and foremost, then the company and never for the employee. There's a reason so much useless paperwork ends up funnelled through HR departments and it's job justification at their end.

If you get something good from HR it's because they hosed over someone who was in their firing line in the process and you got lucky.

Khorne
May 1, 2002

Tamarillo posted:

Wow, guess I was an HR Advisor at a unicorn company then. If a new hire manager went on the warpath like this on an otherwise totally normally performing staff member we would have been on it ASAP to establish what the actual gently caress. At the very least we would have been involved in any demotion process (not to mention half of what she did was appalling process here anyway) and seen both sides of the story. People don't typically magically stop performing just because a new manager comes in, it looks fishy as gently caress if the manager starts performance processes the second they walk through the door.
It depends on company culture and probably size.

HR at one place I worked were useless people who didn't even understand how the benefits packages they managed worked and would refuse to make necessary phone calls. They also failed to protect's company's interests every single time. With that said, it was only an annoying game of trying to trick someone into doing their job when I had to do anything involving benefits/payroll. They tried to charge me 3.6x what they should have for switching from single to family because they wanted to backdate starting it by 2 months and force a post-tax payment. Anyhow, they weren't malicious or against the employees. They were just real do-nothings who would have likely been fired somewhere else.

HR at other places was pretty good or a non-existent shell that amounted to "talk to almost anyone", but I've only worked at places where the employees were generally treated pretty well.

Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:35 on Jan 1, 2019

Eric the Mauve
May 8, 2012

Making you happy for a buck since 199X
HR is to a corporation almost exactly as the police is to a city or state.

They are not your friends. Ever.

But whereas many people will live their whole long lives without ever having to meaningfully interact with the police, everyone who spends their career in the corporate world inevitably, sooner or later, learns the hard way that HR is not your friend.

fist4jesus
Nov 24, 2002

Earwicker posted:

a manager so bad that they start causing good employees to quit is, in fact, hurting a company's interests - and HR departments that recognize this and notify the relevant senior managers do exist.

lol we have lost 20% of our staff in the last 6 months, toxic managers and environment.
What are HR doing? In my case actively making things worse. Case in point: We are offering team senior positions with *very* vague position descriptions.

Dude is perfect for it but dubious. If it doesn't work out in the first 1-3 months, I can just step down, yes? HR - No. Its up to your managers to work it out with you.
So dude wont apply. In fact no one applied apart from a relatively green guy who actually quit a few weeks later.

Strategic Tea
Sep 1, 2012

Holy poo poo maybe companies and their senior management can be run in wildly different ways depending on the people involved and the responsibilities they are given.

Nah just kidding a lvl 2 HR manager can create a training plan but they have to specialise as a lvl 6 dispute wizard before they can identify an incompetent hire.

Strategic Tea
Sep 1, 2012

Eric the Mauve posted:

HR is to a corporation almost exactly as the police is to a city or state.

They are not your friends. Ever.

But whereas many people will live their whole long lives without ever having to meaningfully interact with the police, everyone who spends their career in the corporate world inevitably, sooner or later, learns the hard way that HR is not your friend.

I have always found cops and HR to be fine, glad I'm not American

Kin
Nov 4, 2003

Sometimes, in a city this dirty, you need a real hero.

Dog Pipes posted:

It's a good point. I'm in the UK, and it seems like a potential case of constructive dismissal.

Hmm, i'd not heard of constructive dismissal before. That's an interesting one as i'm in a very simialr situation to the one the OP was in.

I've been at a company for about 9 years now and last summer i was promoted to the top of my department. This is 1 level below the CEO (my boss) of a mid sized company of about 100 people. At the same time i was promoted, a new manager was hired from a bigger company to come in and operate at the same level but overseeing another department.

Within this last year we and another at our level, shared company objectives, but i spotted quite quickly that this individual wouldn't include me in meetings for the 3 of us to discuss our mutual projects (the 3rd party is one of those very agreeable types). This person also didn't like when i critically challenged decisions they made that impacted my dept without consulting me. Even after confronting them about the exclusion (in front of HR), nothing changed and our mutual line manager told me i wasn't being included because i wasn't being collaborative as i worked on my own on projects and was challenging when working with this individual.

Prior to Christmas my manager raised "just an idea" to me about this person and their team taking on the management and operational responsibilities of my department while i retained all of the strategy/development/growth parts of it. I wasn't keen and made this obvious, but this 'idea' was pretty much a pre-made decison of his and my role was changed. This was to include a 3 month period of transtion, where i would be hands on picking up the work of my dept that this other team wasn't capable to do whilst i worked on the dept strategic stuff. Not only that, but this person was given 'temporary' powers equal to that of my boss and i was removed from both the group meetings and mutual objectives that everyone at my level attended. I was allowed to stay in the senior communications chain though so that i was aware of what was happening in the company.

During this time i've had to, fairly obviously, spend almost all of my time doing junior level work and picking up tasks that were taken away from my responsibility. Simultaneously, this new manager has continuted to cut me out of things that stilll fall into my remit or consideration. As a result, it's impacted my ability to do the other senior tasks i have as my job remit.

His solution? I've to just let this manager decide what my priorites are and what i've to focus on. Which has resulted in the majority of my time being put on less important tasks while i'm cut out of the loop of bigger decision making items. Someone (not my boss) has also disconnected me from the senior communication chain. I can easilly find out who, but the only person in the group who would care to is this manager.

A recent chat to a colleage revealed that my boss told him, my 'transition period' will continue for a further 3 months and that at that point I will be changing departments completely. A new task i was given, which was supposed to be just ~10% of my role, will baloon up to almost all of it, whist the the department strategies/development aspect of my former role will be removed and given to this other manager and i've to be 'on hand' to continue the type of support i've been giving during this transition period.

None of this has been discussed with me, this new task is only loosely related to my field of specialsm and will impact my future career if an entire role is 'made up' around it.

During this time, i've raised the pattern of exclusion, the cutting off of the comms and feelings of ostracism caused by this, but my boss just keeps telling me not to sweat the small stuff and that i don't need the same info i used to have in order to do this new task he's given me.

From a top level perspective does the above chain of events sound like something that fits within grounds for constructive dismissal?

MyLord
Jan 21, 2019

veni veni veni posted:

Sorry if this is kind of E/N

I've been at my job for a couple of years. It's nothing to brag about, but I've always enjoyed it and have had no intention of going anywhere until this last week. I believe I do a good job. I am very knowledgeable and work hard. I've already been through 2 bosses since I started, and never had a single issue with either one. It's a largely autonomous job and I've always been able to make my own decisions and prioritize what I see fit. I've never had a single complaint to my knowledge.

Then last week I got a new boss. She's an outside hire barely has any idea what she is doing, but you wouldn't know it by the way she acts. My first interaction with her (after my old boss set her free) was like, bad. I just made a decision I'd normally make on any given day. I even ran it by her, she agreed and then I went and did it I got scolded because "I am the final say in this. You should not have done that on your own" I was just baffled, because I did run it by her, even though frankly I wouldn't have even had to last week or with my old boss. This is within the first 10 minutes of her first day. I was hoping she was just flustered because it was her first day so I let it slide, but it hasn't gotten better. Everything I do I need to justify to her or ask if it's ok, even if it's just total common sense. She just changes things she doesn't even fully understand (or makes me change things without asking for my input is more like it) and talks to me like a child.

I also feel like it's sort of a self fulfilling prophecy, because despite working harder than I ever have. I feel like I'm loving up more because I have all of the new found stress, I'm questioning my own decisions, and my whole work flow is hosed up because I'm trying to prioritize the things she has deemed important and doing things all out of whack.

The thing is, I don't want to lose or leave my job that I've enjoyed for years over some micromanager that barely has a week under her belt. But I can't work in this environment either. I feel like I'm probably going to have to talk to her about it. But I don't even know how to approach the situation. I've had bosses like her before, but they were at entry level jobs I hated and I just quit. I really hope I can find some way to tactfully deal with it, but maybe I'm being too optimistic and it's just time to start job hunting.

Anybody out there actually successfully dealt with something like this? I really don't know what to do. I haven't been so stressed out in years.




Dam! you hosed. i don't know what to tell ya.

joebuddah
Jan 30, 2005

Kin posted:

me.

From a top level perspective does the above chain of events sound like something that fits within grounds for constructive dismissal?

Its sounds like, in my opinion that they are trying to phase you out. It happened to my boss when I was interning at a radio station. They went from xyz manager to "cluster task manager " to being fired. (No I wasn't who replaced them)

Nocheez
Sep 5, 2000

Can you spare a little cheddar?
Nap Ghost

MyLord posted:

Dam! you hosed. i don't know what to tell ya.

I know what to tell you: read the loving thread.

Kin
Nov 4, 2003

Sometimes, in a city this dirty, you need a real hero.

joebuddah posted:

Its sounds like, in my opinion that they are trying to phase you out. It happened to my boss when I was interning at a radio station. They went from xyz manager to "cluster task manager " to being fired. (No I wasn't who replaced them)

Yeah, this is pretty much happening. In a catchup today my obvious unhappiness was raised and I stated that I had no interest in my role being further changed as it would be like starting a brand new career.

He was nice about the way he said it but the message to me was that there's no place for me in the company now if I don't want that 2nd version of the new role.

He's also the sort who never goes back on a decision he's made, and just told me that being in a leadership position was off the table at this company and whatever issues I flagged didn't change that.

deported to Canada
Jun 1, 2006

Your answer lies in your contract. Request a copy from HR and ask why your role is changing. Just don't consent to any changes in future without a discussion on renumeration.

For every change to your contract I would expect a change in your rate of pay. If that means you get paid more for less responsibility then have at it.

Also if your old job doesn't exist with the company any more that's fine. Just ask for redundancy and tell that that you will apply for the new role if it takes your fancy. But you will deffo need that sweet paycheck first.

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deported to Canada
Jun 1, 2006

Also..... If you take redundancy and they then give all your old responsibilities to that new manager you could take them to tribunal and get a sweet settlement.

I knew a guy that got 200k once because of that and then got his old job back which was hilarious. They made him redundant and then hired about 4 post grads on peanuts to do his old job between them and he had them over a barrel when it went to tribunal.

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