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mahershalalhashbaz
Jul 22, 2021

if i'm writing a book and my therapist doesn't like it, does that mean i should stop writing it

(it's not porn)

by "doesn't like it", i mean they say "you need to channel your feelings into creative work" and i say "well i've almost finished the book" and they go "no, no, that's not what i meant, i meant visual art". they read the first two chapters and refuse to discuss it, when i bring it up they look uncomfortable and then change the subject. which obviously is not great feedback, i'm just trying to figure out if it means "you suck at writing" (in which case i will continue) or "in my professional opinion, writing this book is psychologically unhealthy for you" (in which case i should stop)

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mahershalalhashbaz
Jul 22, 2021

Tulip posted:

If your therapist thinks this is actually bad coping they will tell you. Unless they're a really bad therapist. But therapists are not really in the business of tip-toeing around telling somebody they have bad coping mechanisms, it's pretty important to their whole practice that they just tell you.

My suspicion is that your therapist has helped people with visual art before and is comfortable talking with clients about visual art but isn't as used to dealing with books and is probably thinking "ah crap now I've gotta do more research on this."
thank you, this really helped. i don't mind them not reading my writing or even if they think it's crap, just they can be kind of... subtle about letting me know when they think i should or shouldn't do things (old school psychoanalyst) so i've been overthinking whether they're subtly trying to tell me that writing fiction is making me crazier

mahershalalhashbaz
Jul 22, 2021

thank you, friends. i will keep writing the book, and not expect the therapist to read it.

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