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Feb 28, 2010

Now the scene's lighting is perfect!
How did and do you feel about SA's and the internet's general use of the word autistic as narrow-minded and obviously ignoring the human/emotional aspect of something?

How do you look to others when you're under stress, what do they see?

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lllllllllllllllllll
Feb 28, 2010

Now the scene's lighting is perfect!
Thanks, appreciate the elaborate response.

lllllllllllllllllll
Feb 28, 2010

Now the scene's lighting is perfect!
I heard that if you look at the space between the eyes or the tip of the nose it is not as stressful and the other guy won't notice anyway. Perhaps that helps a bit.

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Feb 28, 2010

Now the scene's lighting is perfect!
What about social conventions like saying thanks, hello and bye? I could imagine going from barely recognising those to a complete turnaround where adults with autism are relying on them a little too much, appearing a little stiff and formal. Is it difficult for someone with autism to experience this, uh, brief closeness to someone else by following the above mentioned social conventions? Would you stick with it like it was a rule and if so do you feel irritated by all the people who may or may not follow those but are quick to offend when you don't? And last question, was there a moment where you recognised following along was better than to avoid it (like with eye-contact?)? Thanks.

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