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lobster shirt posted:man i do not know how people manage without a support network, the right is targeting parents for radicalization too. like it should be a no brainer for dems to help parents even more right now... but nope. so instead some percentage of them are going to get pulled into being CHUDs as they fail to get help or support.
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# ¿ Oct 13, 2021 22:14 |
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# ¿ May 11, 2024 16:50 |
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my first kid didn’t really sleep through the night until like 6. the second kids was like oh this is how it’s supposed to be.
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# ¿ Oct 17, 2021 06:38 |
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we had to rock my first son. had a big old lazy boy. we wore the springs out twice. probably 3-4 hours in two segments a night for the first year. set him down and pop eyes would open right up.
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# ¿ Oct 17, 2021 18:00 |
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there is at least one dropper supplement for iron you can add to a bottle or just give them straight from the dropper.
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# ¿ Nov 2, 2021 20:56 |
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Tzen posted:lol head on over to the cspam covid thread and you'll get thorough answers. bottom line is lifetime boosters 2 times a year to prevent serious hospitalization and/or death. you can still catch it when vaccinated due to breakthroughs, variants, and everything else, it's all a matter of how many times you roll the dice plenty of vaccines are a three dose course, I’m not saying you’re wrong. but it’s still a bit too early to know even in the Israel stuff.
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# ¿ Nov 15, 2021 02:49 |
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Loucks posted:Are you saying you think the mRNA vaccines will magically turn into sterilizing vaccines for people who get boosters? no of course not. I’m saying we don’t know what happens to effectiveness six months after a third shot booster. it might fall off in the same manner as after the second shot. it might not fall off as sharply. many current vaccines follow a shot, month second shot, six months final shot pattern. we could end up with anything in between those two outcomes. so a range from hey three worked to shot every six months until you die. we will have an idea in a few months once Israel gets 6-8 months out from third shots. I mean I don’t care either way. give my kids the jab as often as it takes.
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# ¿ Nov 15, 2021 03:21 |
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Good soup! posted:Daycare colds suck yeah it’s a crazy amount of stress right now and knocks out having childcare for a solid week. wait till the really lovely stuff like croup comes back.
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# ¿ Nov 19, 2021 17:54 |
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Benagain posted:oh hey we just got notified about a croup case in our kids toddler room at daycare that one will gently caress you up when it happens it’s like boom 104+ fever out of nowhere. and always in the middle of the night.
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# ¿ Nov 19, 2021 20:42 |
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spicy doesn’t necessarily mean spicy hot. my kids slam Creole seasoning on everything. but we still get “this is too spicy”. it mean there is too much of a particular taste, not just hot. this is too spicy = this has too many parsnips yesterday.
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# ¿ Nov 27, 2021 03:29 |
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baby gates, do access control.
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# ¿ Nov 27, 2021 03:34 |
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also hope you got all you’re baby proofing done. that’s basically the deadline.
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# ¿ Nov 27, 2021 03:44 |
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Subjunctive posted:no parent of a newborn has ever had enough blankets or frozen meals this good swaddle blankets and frozen homemade meals.
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# ¿ Dec 13, 2021 16:44 |
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yeah and you want it before you need it while cursing about the goddamn bulbs being worthless.
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# ¿ Dec 14, 2021 07:29 |
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it’s not sci fi but I had good luck with the phantom tollbooth
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# ¿ Dec 23, 2021 00:13 |
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rocking recliner like a lazy boy more milk possibly supplementing if breastfeeding that didn’t go away for us until he was eating solids. banana was a godsend. then he still got up at 4:30 until he was five.
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# ¿ Dec 23, 2021 01:07 |
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if you have a family history of learning differences, autism spectrum, or gifted, yeah lol no sleep for you for a couple years. that’s a thing too.
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# ¿ Dec 23, 2021 01:10 |
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my wife just never had quite enough production at it was really really awful. listen to Another Bill even if you think you are doing well. I didn’t know how little my wife was sleeping. and there is no shame in switching to formula. there is huge amount of pressure to breastfeed. it’s good to do but can be really just terrible on the breast feeder. also try fenugreek pills we found it always worked up milk production, if it was dropping off.
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# ¿ Dec 24, 2021 01:58 |
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brugroffil posted:The nursing staff for our second kid was a little apoplectic when we flatly said no to breast feeding depending on where you are support can be... spotty. in some regions lactation consultations are basically only able to help people with no production and a total inability to feed/latch. in other places they can help with stuff like this. it really dramatically differs depending on where you are. also the birth in general is affected by it. our first child was in the south it was a horror show at the good hospital. my second kid was in the Seattle area, if we had the second one in GA I’m pretty sure we would have ended up with Cerebral Palsy or my wife would have died. it literally changed the trajectory of our lives that the hospitals are so much better here.
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# ¿ Dec 24, 2021 02:23 |
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The Nastier Nate posted:any other parents struggled with this issue? yep so pissed about it.
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# ¿ Dec 25, 2021 00:39 |
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it’s definitely an outside toy. also I have worries (but no evidence or anything) about the dust a lot of the minerals you’d make that out often are present with asbestos, sort of like how talc powder has issues with that.
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# ¿ Dec 28, 2021 19:13 |
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lol they just abruptly closed the ferry to vashon from pt defiance covid got the crew.
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# ¿ Dec 30, 2021 23:34 |
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Fat-Lip-Sum-41.mp3 posted:, which is all you can expect eight year olds to wear. I find the kids are way better than adults
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# ¿ Dec 31, 2021 18:10 |
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Vishass posted:My kids always wanted to hear like a few staples (twinkle twinkle, etc) and then some weird poo poo like Allstar or Bumble Bee Tune because I sang them once. I sing bastardized song lyrics for just about everything my kids do. my older son never liked it. my younger one sings along now. my dad used to do it with me.
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# ¿ Jan 3, 2022 07:38 |
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sonatinas posted:hope you got all the baby proofing up! if you can I’d recommend anchoring furniture. especially cabinets and dressers. they’ll open drawers and try to climb up then. I’d recommend heavy duty anchors. Home Depot will sell screw in hard plastic wall anchors rated to 65 pounds. similar vinyl ones at like a ace ones are good for 35. the vinyl ones occasional breaking during install. we still have basically everything secured that way even curtains.
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2022 21:42 |
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yeah remote for a year outright killed kids my older child’s love of school .
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2022 23:45 |
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there are hard framed up to toddler backpacks too if hiking is one’s thing.
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2022 07:32 |
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Are you Scandinavian? don’t do that in the states if you ever visit.
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2022 08:16 |
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i am harry posted:doorknobs with locks on the bedroom doors...thats great when your 3yo figures out how to turn that after storming off to their bedroom and slamming the door first. get gud at unlocking them through the little hole.
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# ¿ Jan 9, 2022 07:24 |
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even if you do all the introducing early there’s a point where they just refuse to eat like anything anyway.
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# ¿ Jan 14, 2022 21:38 |
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in December we had a bunch of urgent cares tell us they had no staff cause they all had covid.
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# ¿ Feb 6, 2022 22:51 |
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head stuff just bleeds bleeds bleeds. I’ve done that same ER location late night for my kids before.
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# ¿ Feb 7, 2022 04:08 |
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we did baby led weaning with our first and intentionally introduced a huge variety of foods early.... they still get picky in that 5-8 range even if you do all the early introductions. they get weird too because they drop parts of things. when he was a little kid we would do sweet potatoes and avocados and salmon, like a jacket potato. now he’ll only eat the salmon packets of a particular brand with a specific amount of creole season sprinkled on and would never touch guacamole and snubs sweets potatoes. great all we did was make you weird and you didn’t need help there.
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# ¿ Feb 19, 2022 23:11 |
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BonHair posted:He does have some weird preferences. He loves pickles for some reason, but something as boring as mashed potatoes is completely out of the question. my youngest did that. so I homemade some fermented Giardiniera so I had some control over the salt content
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# ¿ Feb 20, 2022 17:06 |
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did you all see the Texas thing? they’re going to send CPS after the parents of trans kids.
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# ¿ Feb 23, 2022 21:38 |
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yeah they often need other people to make jumps.
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# ¿ Feb 23, 2022 21:55 |
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DR FRASIER KRANG posted:we are finally putting our youngest back into day care and due to covid they now have hours of 8am-5pm which loving sucks. I mean that’s way better than it could be. out here preschool is like we have tues/thur 930 to 1230 only that be 1000 dollars a month.
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# ¿ Mar 23, 2022 01:24 |
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NeatHeteroDude posted:I'd like to do a survey of middle and high school students to see when all this poo poo really sets in. At what age do kids start to be scared of the abstract concept of being shot to death by a peer? Probably younger than we think it’s a developmental thing that happens at a around specific age but I do not know what age it’s supposed to happen. I do know it can happen as early as six or seven though (but that’s extremely early for it to happen). edit: by it I mean existential fears in general.
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# ¿ Apr 3, 2022 02:29 |
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grill it with oil and salt.
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# ¿ Apr 15, 2022 22:31 |
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Son of Thunderbeast posted:I'll be sure to look in to that! She's had speech delays and we're getting her evaluated soon to see if she's on the spectrum, dunno if that'll complicate things there immensely so. gifted + learning disability is a ride. if you can afford it go the private route. most gifted programs have been co-opted to more be geared towards high achievers who want the label. read up on asymmetrical development, and emotional intensity in the gifted and talented. Kazimierz Dąbrowski and overexcitabilities and positive disintegration are also worth reading about. this is a really good paper for a few years from now. https://gifted.uconn.edu/schoolwide-enrichment-model/gifted_underachievers/ expect no one to believe you at any point. get help ASAP if you can and have a community your child will be supported by as soon as possible. here’s a gif that can give you an idea of what bad days can be like with emotional intensity https://imgur.com/3s5qCcU gunna cross post an op I wrote years ago for you in a second.
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# ¿ Apr 27, 2022 03:41 |
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# ¿ May 11, 2024 16:50 |
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Bar Ran Dun posted:Why is this in D&D? In threads over the years here it’s become apparent that there is an abnormal concentration of us here. However, I’m not going to repeat anyone I’ve seen mention it. It also may be explanative for other posters. Also bunch of you are ignorant of the repercussions of learning differences, beyond the one discussed in this thread. I also am less looking for an ask/tell and more for a discussion. Understanding some of the ways our brains are different have larger repercussions to a wide variety of conversations, and I think that is very much an on topic discussion to have. of course D&D shat up my thread on it. biggest thing I learned from the thread... nearly every public gifted program in the country is terrible. good luck. even literally knowing what you’re getting into, it’s still really really hard.
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# ¿ Apr 27, 2022 03:48 |