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Hey I'm just starting to transition myself, (I'm 31, I found out that I'm trans like 6 months ago. It's been so freeing so far ) and I would like to know when you felt safe going out to do day-to-day stuff wearing women's clothing. I've been going out to a few places that I know are LGBTQ-friendly without any issues, but to other places I still basically present as a man, but with some accessories and things like tight jeans, which I think are a little androgynous at a glance. Basically I would like to know how to gauge whether it would be safe or not to me to go to a certain place dressed how I want to. Thanks!
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# ¿ Oct 17, 2022 18:02 |
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# ¿ May 21, 2024 18:45 |
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Volmarias posted:Thanks, this is all pretty interesting to read! Seconded! I was meaning to ask pretty much the same questions, since it had been a while.
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# ¿ Jan 12, 2023 19:59 |
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Rooting for you op! Hope it goes well. ♥️
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# ¿ Feb 13, 2023 14:45 |
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Gnossiennes posted:oh actually i left out a key part about scrotoplasty + phalloplasty lol saline is stored in the balls...?
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# ¿ Feb 17, 2023 22:39 |
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Ciaphas posted:
I want to pluck this in specific because that matches my experience to a T but I want to add in a little something else. Before I found out, I was so detached from my body that I had always seen it as nothing more than a jar that kept my brain, and it was just a tool that my mind used to interact with the world. I also never interested in myself to go beyond being socially acceptable (even though something or another belied my depression, ie unkempt beard, just ill-fitting, ratty (at least clean) clothing, and so on). On that note, when I did try putting in effort, like nicer men's clothing, it just felt... wrong. I can't quite explain it besides that I felt I was in a costume that was always about to fall off. My eureka moment was after a sleepless night a few days I participated in a workshop that asked us to introspect our identity. In 31 years I had never earnestly did that, and I'm glad I finally did it. The moment I accepted I was trans was a huge relief to me, and it was the first time in forever that I felt truly happy and free.
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# ¿ Mar 12, 2023 03:20 |
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# ¿ May 21, 2024 18:45 |
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Hey OP, I'm wondering how you're getting on with your recovery. I hope it's going well.
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# ¿ May 1, 2023 20:30 |