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I stood up to a bully once, I was 10. He wasn't a good one or even a professional one, he was just popular at school. I looked like a dick, shying away from a lame punch to the face and tried to grab his hand. As soon as that happened a teacher descended and grabbed us both. The questioning was bizarre, I was asked "How do you think that makes him feel?" "Maybe bad?" "YOU BET IT DID" The popular little fuckwit from the rich family felt nothing. Shrugged it off, with big bro in the same school looking out for him and is probably a C-suite retiree. Be a bully kids, one day you'll be President. You won't be happy, you may poo poo yourself daily, but you'll be President. Like Tumpr.
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Jan 13, 2023 10:12
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i wouldn't say i was bullied but i was a bit of an outcast in school i suppose. because i was alternative, or a "goff" as people used to call us in the early 00's in scotland. which is funny cos i'd wear like jnco jeans and a blink 182 t-shirt or something on non uniform days and still be classed as a "goff" because the only alternative music that really had any mainstream success here at the time was marilyn manson and slipknot and poo poo like that. my guidance teacher once said to my mum she thought the music i listened to was "warping my mind" and my mum was like, "lol shut up you idiot" i only had a couple of friends in my high school but loads that went to the other high school about 2 miles away. all my skater bros and stuff and also my best friend who lived in the same street as me that i'd known since we were kids. i also had a long term girlfriend and could say "i have a gf but you wouldn't know her she goes to another school" and not be lying which is kind of funny. anyway i dropped out of school and went to college at 16 to study sound engineering and all my friends being in a different school from me was probably a big part of that.
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Jan 13, 2023 10:45
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I served in the army national guard for six years to pay for college several guys from my high school joined at the same time and in an old timey movie where everyone is a stereotype these guys would have been portrayed as mean jocks because maybe they were on the football team once ended up being some of the nicest most down to earth people you’ve ever met and absorbed me into the cohort immediately
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Jan 13, 2023 15:39
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I got bullied for getting my clothes from walmart. Girls are cruel
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Jan 13, 2023 15:52
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bullied in grade 9 since my family was imploding and i receded into a life of WoW, and then in grade 10 to 12 i did an about face and became extremely angry at the everything and was mercilessly cruel to anyone i thought i could get away with bullying. and even many that i didn't get away with and it led to fights. which i usually lost because of my size but i kept going because of my tenacity and hatred for the world lol. i am deeply ashamed of my behaviour at that time.
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Jan 13, 2023 16:03
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Yolomon Wayne posted:I still cant grasp the concept, in my school we had neither - and we went hardcore on warhams nd DnD, played it openly inbetween lessons and never got bullied cause we didnt have bullies. When I was bullied, some of the tough kids who were also kind of nerds invited me over to play warhammer and then my biggest bully came out of a cupboard and they beat the poo poo out of me with my own citadel carry case but then we wondered the streets just hanging out and it was kind of chill and nice.
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Jan 13, 2023 16:29
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I had pretty severe untreated anxiety and depression as a kid from trauma so as a result i never really "fit in." I was bullied in elementary and middle school, invisible in high school, and only really started making real friends in college. Fortunately I ended up a pretty well-adjusted adult. I'd like to think my life is better now but I'm still posting here on SA so really who's to say
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Jan 13, 2023 17:10
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syntaxfunction posted:The lines kind of blur when you go to really lovely schools. My school was kind of a free for all, and I don't think any of us were victims or perpetrators, we were all pretty guilty of being pieces of poo poo. Yeah, I went to a small school so there weren't really distinct cliques or anything, it was just a circular firing squad of kids being lovely to each other. Eventually people kind of got used to everyone and things settled down by the end of high school but middle school was hell.
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Jan 13, 2023 17:10
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syntaxfunction posted:The lines kind of blur when you go to really lovely schools. My school was kind of a free for all, and I don't think any of us were victims or perpetrators, we were all pretty guilty of being pieces of poo poo. I remember getting bullied for being poor by kids that were just as poor as me, getting bullied for having bad fashion when everyone in elementary school is dressed like a joke.
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Jan 13, 2023 19:29
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I was a bully and every one of those nerds deserved it.
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Jan 13, 2023 19:54
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i was bullied and i mostly would just immediately take it out on someone else so i was both op
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Jan 13, 2023 20:10
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i was bullied a lot in middle and high school but by the end of high school we were bullying the people who had previously bullied us via petty vandalism. i eventually grew into a real human being and now I get along with everyone and only bully conservatives who deserve it
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Jan 13, 2023 20:21
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I stopped getting bullied in 6th grade or so when I became taller than everyone else pretty quickly. Before then I caught a lot of poo poo for being a boy that didn't like sports. Jokes on them, now I'm fat.
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Jan 13, 2023 20:22
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I got beat up a lot until everyone found out about my huge dillz and I was the one doing the beatings after that.  But no, I was harassed relentlessly.
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Jan 13, 2023 20:23
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sigher posted:I got beat up a lot until everyone found out about my huge dillz and I was the one doing the beatings after that. i didn't know i had a big dick until i was like 25. having known that in high school definitely would have led to my total destruction
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Jan 13, 2023 20:26
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This is more my brother's story, but he became an enemy of some of his former friends once they realised he could actually skate and they got weird and jealous. The used to phone my very Scottish house in Scotland and make threats like "hey ese, we gonna cut you homes, don't you know I'm loco?!?" and we'd have to say things like "gently caress off, Michael, you live in ***** and my mum gave you a lift home from Boys Brigade"
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Jan 13, 2023 20:40
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I post on an internet forum with an account that's almost old enough to vote so take a guess
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Jan 13, 2023 20:45
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In posting from the inside of a trash can
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Jan 13, 2023 20:51
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Dixville posted:I got bullied for getting my clothes from walmart. Same and then when I finally got a Champion sweatshirt it was the wrong color 
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Jan 13, 2023 20:54
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WAR CRIME GIGOLO posted:In posting from the inside of a trash can lol
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Jan 13, 2023 21:07
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I got bullied by my teacher for some reason, always called me "fat piece of poo poo". As I was, like 8-9 years old, I think that was a little harsh.
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Jan 13, 2023 21:18
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Haramstufe Rot posted:I got bullied by my teacher for some reason, always called me "fat piece of poo poo". As I was, like 8-9 years old, I think that was a little harsh. I got this in first grade from a crazy person who screamed at children, who insisted I get an IQ test and my parents called her bluff and turns out I was over 140
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Jan 13, 2023 21:22
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naem posted:I got this in first grade from a crazy person who screamed at children, who insisted I get an IQ test and my parents called her bluff and turns out I was over 140 owned
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Jan 13, 2023 21:24
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that teacher got into a fight with some cool dude who was a refugee from Kosovo, who was in our class but was also probably like 16 years old. After teacher goes off on this kid, next hour like fifty people are in the yard, the whole family and friends, armed. 90's school in Europe was wild wish I'd remember more of it but I fell on my head and broke my neck at some point
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Jan 13, 2023 21:26
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Middle school and high school. Actually elementary too because I was harassed and jumped by a guy a grade down but held back in fifth grade who clearly had mental issues. Nothing happened because I’d be in trouble if I told (and frankly as a masc person AFAB it was more just typical young boys rolling around and shoving). It was mainly verbal after that because I was inherently strange to people - even as far back as age 5. Undiagnosed and untreated autism and ADHD does that, as well as weird dress sense and a total rejection of gender roles. Definitely heard slurs. Hung out with the worst losers in high school: World of Darkness LARPers, lol One day in junior or senior year a classmate who rode the same bus (I constantly had paper tossed at me) was being stalked by a teen from a different school. Said teen showed up to the buses, easily had 50 lbs and six inches on most of us. The cowardly bus driver told me, the resident teacher’s toady, to ask for help on the next bus because ours didn’t have a radio to call other buses/dispatch (this was pre-cell phones). Teen starts talking at me and slaps the back of my head. I don’t really have fight or flight it turns out, I just reject reality, so I kept on to the next bus as I’d been told. No one messed with me after that. It didn’t click at the time, but I think people saw me not flinch and realized “oh poo poo, they’re loving CRAZY.” The bully who was there for someone else even backed off that day. I don’t recommend living through all that, I wish I could have had peers who respected me. Instead I cultivated a really awful attitude and just tried to be unpleasant as possible to be around, something I’ve only managed to undo in the past decade. I do have friends and peers now, all weirdos like me. 
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Jan 13, 2023 21:28
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Bullied pretty much from grades 4-12. Bullied at home by abusive parents. But, I did learn how not to draw attention to myself, do things that made me a target for ridicule, and generally grew to be okay socially by the time I became a young adult. There were some issues but I like to think I have a firm grasp of them now. I also ridiculed people when I could, so I am not a victim either.
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Jan 13, 2023 21:28
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I took some poo poo here and there, but nothing too extreme. I generally didn't spread it around. I was a decent athlete so that helped in middle and high school. My attitude then was similar to what it is now: there's enough poo poo people have to deal with without me adding to it
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Jan 13, 2023 22:05
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Dixville posted:I got bullied for getting my clothes from walmart. Girls are cruel They are It's atrocious how mean adolescent girls are, I was bullied some but mostly just ostracized except I always had one incredibly close friend who meant everything to me. What blows my mind is once I picked on a girl who was lower on the ?social scale than me, maybe this was 7th grade, dunno. To this day it's an absolute mystery to me and I writhe in shame in my mind. It wasn't for long thank God and at the end she very eloquently called me out on it; the shame started then. To this day I don't know where it came from, I'm not that person, I can see her face. I think her name was Kim
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Jan 13, 2023 22:15
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I said mean things to her after being friendly to her at 1st that was the extent of it but it was cruel
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Jan 13, 2023 22:16
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did anyone go to some kinda bizzaro highschool like where the chess club guys were all getting laid all the time and like when they saw guys on the football team in the hall would knock the football out of their hands and call them two-eyes or something? lol can you imagine that?
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Jan 13, 2023 22:18
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that would be pretty funny lol "what's up muscles? gonna go play some fuckin' football you big athlete?" *jock starts crying, everyone laughs, rolls to high five*
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Jan 13, 2023 22:22
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I was the slut
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Jan 13, 2023 22:36
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our high school slut was called elaine and there was a rumour she would take it up the bum
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Jan 13, 2023 22:37
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I had this book in high school and I was astounded at the specificity of “short guy with small head who drives big car” because we had a kid who fit that description exactly, and resembled that drawing. He didn’t talk to anyone, I never knew his name, he wasn’t even in the yearbook but he drove like a huge Impala or similar late model land boat. I was a quiet dork but I towered over other kids which probably helped me not be a target. Ralph Hurley fucked around with this message at 22:42 on Jan 13, 2023 |
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Jan 13, 2023 22:37
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I don't remember being bullied too bad, just the usual teasing because I was fat, wore glasses, and had weird tics because of Tourette's
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Jan 13, 2023 22:45
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Nooner posted:did anyone go to some kinda bizzaro highschool like where the chess club guys were all getting laid all the time and like when they saw guys on the football team in the hall would knock the football out of their hands and call them two-eyes or something? lol can you imagine that? My high school didn’t have a football team because the founder’s son died in a football accident in like 1901 or something
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Jan 13, 2023 22:57
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We made the hardcore Christian fundie girl cry multiple times by deliberately and aggressively challenging her views in RE lessons. She was well known at school for refusing to stay in any science lesson about a subject that couldn't be reconciled with young-Earth creationism. Her dad was known locally for being a crazy man standing on the streetcorner wearing robes & barefoot preaching loudly at passers-by. Proper calls for forced conversion of heathens and heralding outright apocalyptic stuff in circa 2000 suburban England. It was ~20 years ago now, but I can still remember our favourite incident when we described abortion as "a quick and voluntary medical procedure to remove a potentially dangerous parasite" and she just completely lost her poo poo.
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Jan 13, 2023 23:05
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I was extremely tall and very thin with no athletic ability so I was a natural target Then I met my current group of friends who were all juvenile delinquents and that changed pretty quick Kinda hard to bully someone when the whole crew rolls up!
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Jan 13, 2023 23:10
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Nooner posted:did anyone go to some kinda bizzaro highschool like where the chess club guys were all getting laid all the time and like when they saw guys on the football team in the hall would knock the football out of their hands and call them two-eyes or something? lol can you imagine that? All of our best football players (like head and shoulders above the others) were in the band, so when the team was losing we would threaten to send the band in.
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I went to an inner city school that was incredibly rough in wilmington deleware in elementary and middle school. I had to fight a lot. It was just a bunch of desperately poor people just mashing because there were not a lot of resources and bad home lives so we took it out on each other. in seventh grade I moved to upstate new york to a wealthy school I ended up playing sports and they tried bullying me at first but I was real quick to fight anyone and most of them were not ready for someone that actually knew how to fight. People ended up leaving me alone. I was pretty popular because I would go back to deleware and bring back drugs from the city and sell them in school. I was invited to all the parties. I also worked in restaurants so I had access to alcohol and money. I had a tough homelife and I had untreated mental health issues that led me to abuse opiates. In eleventh grade I got kicked out. Little did they know the whole time I was playing video games, watching cartoons, playing MTG, and being a huge nerd undercover. I also beat up people that bullied my friends. I ended up my senior year at a school more my speed. There was a fight between two girsl that everyone in the senior class got together and went to a trailer park to go watch. It was epic. We all drank beers and watched these two girls beat eachother.
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