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My brain is broke b/c I don’t understand why people want to have bio kids. I love kids, I volunteer to help kids, and i want to help them become successful people. But I just want to foster and adopt. The idea have having bio kids just doesn’t land
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I mean, obviously there's some sort of pheromone that gives people maternal/paternal instinct, or else humanity would have died out long ago. However, whatever it is, I didn't get it. Also, everything I learn about pregnancy, childbirth, and childrearing seems disgusting, painful, and not worth it. Cracked nipples, perineal tears, morning sickness, post-partum depression, cravings, aversions...
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Jan 12, 2023 19:54
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if the world collapses you can eat them. Other than that they are kinda cool to have around. PS. keep your kids freerange...they are less stringy.
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Jan 12, 2023 19:55
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Sounds like you aren't contributing to creating the consumer of tomorrow!
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Jan 12, 2023 19:56
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We need someone to pay for our retirement plans, obviously.
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Jan 12, 2023 19:57
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That’s what other peoples kids are for
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Jan 12, 2023 19:58
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been tryin to have kids since I was 17 and have failed every single time 
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Jan 12, 2023 19:59
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None of the religions explain it, OP, but you can only respawn as a direct descendant.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:00
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Voluntary human extinction rules
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Jan 12, 2023 20:00
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already posted about how much having kids is ftw recently op. not doing it again, you can comb thru my post hisrtoy if you wish
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Jan 12, 2023 20:01
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I'm an only child, my dad was an only child and I have existentially felt a pressure to continue my genetic line since I was a little kid OP. It's biological imperative.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:01
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YeahTubaMike posted:'Cracked nipples, perineal tears, morning sickness, post-partum depression, cravings, aversions...' Yeah but wait till you get to the bad stuff!
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Jan 12, 2023 20:01
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1) Its a selfish human need 2) Those same humans have run out of reasons to live for 3) Its a real base human need, but that need is very retro and farm hand having 4) Having a child in the the last 20 years is insane, climate denial at worst, not understanding the current or future workforce at worst. also You hade a good easy time, bitch? Your creating a life from day one to do this poo poo you did? gently caress YOU
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Jan 12, 2023 20:02
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You can teach your kid how to be a bruiser and then send him after your posting enemies
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Jan 12, 2023 20:04
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i will say this tho: most people who have kids don't get it either. this is because htey're garbage parents (and maybe people??/), and will in all likelihood raise garbage children. and thusly teh cycle continues
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Jan 12, 2023 20:06
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Hard to pick anything more selfish and foul that having a child.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:06
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My parents obviously had no idea what they were doing and really only cared about themselves anyway. They set me up to barely be able to take care of myself, let alone anyone else, so if they expect kids from me they can go gently caress themselves.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:06
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hot cocoa on the couch posted:i will say this tho: most people who have kids don't get it either. this is because htey're garbage parents (and maybe people??/), and will in all likelihood raise garbage children. and thusly teh cycle continues actually this. Every time I get my son I am so freaking happy.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:06
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YeahTubaMike posted:I mean, obviously there's some sort of pheromone that gives people maternal/paternal instinct, or else humanity would have died out long ago. However, whatever it is, I didn't get it. I feel maternal defense for any creature that trusts me, but I'm only willing to take a bullet for them. Not slowly destroy my body over 9 months to leave damage for the rest of my life. I could die of radiation faster than that.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:07
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loved when my exwife was pregnmant with our first and all the bitter old dudes would joyfully chide like "ohoho now your life is really over! prepared for 18 years of misery??? haha but seriously i love my kids" like bruh 
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Jan 12, 2023 20:07
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ManBoyChef posted:actually this. Every time I get my son I am so freaking happy. yup.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:09
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hot cocoa on the couch posted:already posted about how much having kids is ftw recently op. not doing it again, you can comb thru my post hisrtoy if you wish I don't have post history access, you could get probed whilst explaining why?
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Jan 12, 2023 20:09
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Did you birth a child just so they could see sun rises and enjoy what an elephant is? Maybe go to Japan? Because thats maybe 10% of life and you know that
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Jan 12, 2023 20:11
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why not?
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Jan 12, 2023 20:12
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Because my wife can't play Mario Party for poo poo.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:13
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hot cocoa on the couch posted:pregnmant
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Jan 12, 2023 20:14
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Or were you mortgaged in, a mortgage one of the big steps. You did it, no more holidays I'm loving bored..what next... Lets create life.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:14
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nice loving find bro
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Jan 12, 2023 20:14
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I have nothing against kids, but I doubt I'll willingly have any as I know if they come out with down syndrome or some other bad impairment I will resent them.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:14
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I get accidental pregnancy and a value system of keeping that child, but to PLAN to have a kid? Lunacy, you can literally go get kids without all the miss and fuss of tearing your vag
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Jan 12, 2023 20:15
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Its so loving sick
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Jan 12, 2023 20:15
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I just can't stop bustin
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Jan 12, 2023 20:16
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The sleep deprivation is no fun, ngl, but then they do really cool stuff and you instantly forget the less-cool times. Like, my daughter said her first word the other day: “boom.” So overall it’s been pretty great 
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Jan 12, 2023 20:16
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I also fear that if I had kids that I fell in love with they would just end up getting leukemia or some other cruel disease and their deaths would destroy me.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:18
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If you don't have bio kids, then good luck finding a compatible host for your consciousness as your old shriveled body lays dying
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Jan 12, 2023 20:20
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fSC0XOc5v5M&t=110s
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Jan 12, 2023 20:20
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Colonel Cancer posted:Sounds like you aren't contributing to creating the consumer of tomorrow! Yeah, but not creating a consumer of tomorrow let's me be a better consumer for today.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:21
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I thinking of having a child. Man, all the jobs it could have! No, I didin't think how it could express itself and maybe use that as some form of future living. I cant afford that poo poo. Music lessons!? Definitely cant afford Univerisity. Guess it will just do some poo poo like I did. ' How good is creating life.
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Jan 12, 2023 20:32
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Vakal posted:I also fear that if I had kids that I fell in love with they would just end up getting leukemia or some other cruel disease and their deaths would destroy me. I mostly worry about hypothetical gun stuff and automobile accidents.
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*extremely piss creep-ishly* crotch spawn
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