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CaptainSarcastic posted:Hail Satan
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Vertical stats GBS verified 6/30/2023 185.4cm
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CaptainSarcastic posted:Hail Satan Ave Dominus Infernus
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I was lucky enough to be friends with a man who helped move his church from a policy of "tolerant" to "open and affirming" in the 90s after coming out himself. I feel like it's pretty obvious which side of this Jesus would be on, and fortunately his denomination and others are still around and welcoming people who want to be a part of it. It's good to see that people can stick to their principles, even when it made their road more difficult. There are good people of faith around still and I'm glad for it, even if I'm not one of them any more. Finding a community where you can be yourself is vital. Tricky Ed fucked around with this message at 20:31 on Apr 29, 2024 |
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Tricky Ed posted:...it's pretty obvious which side of this Jesus would be on... Yeah no kidding, he was always taking little gaycations with the boys and washing their "feet" I guess your average religious person just thinks they were all good roommates.
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If I ever do anything noteworthy, historians are so going to have the wrong idea about me. I'm gay, and live with two gay roommates in a very stable living situation; we've been cohabitating for more than a decade now. None of us are in a relationship or loving one another, but there's absolutely no way anyone will ever believe that.
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aniviron posted:If I ever do anything noteworthy, historians are so going to have the wrong idea about me. I'm gay, and live with two gay roommates in a very stable living situation; we've been cohabitating for more than a decade now. None of us are in a relationship or loving one another, but there's absolutely no way anyone will ever believe that. I think historians are very likely to describe gay people living together as good friends tbh
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"Confirmed bachelors with many good roommates"
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aniviron posted:If I ever do anything noteworthy, historians are so going to have the wrong idea about me. I'm gay, and live with two gay roommates in a very stable living situation; we've been cohabitating for more than a decade now. None of us are in a relationship or loving one another, but there's absolutely no way anyone will ever believe that. hell i don't believe it
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I live with another bi trans femme and we really are just good friends lmao
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Prokhor Zakharov posted:hell i don't believe it We've been really stable as a group and I attribute a lot of that to the fact that we don't gently caress around! It's nice.
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When I say she’s my roommate I actually mean she’s my roommate. We broke up a couple years ago.
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For anyone here in the Chicago area: http://imgur.com/a/u0I9bQm I don’t have PMs, but you can hit me up at my username at gmail and I’ll get you in touch E: apparently Imgur is making GBS threads the bed right now. Click the link, it’s a therapist I know offering doctor’s notes for gender affirming care for free Bibliotechno Music fucked around with this message at 01:10 on Apr 25, 2024 |
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aniviron posted:We've been really stable as a group and I attribute a lot of that to the fact that we don't gently caress around! It's nice. I'm a firm believer that you don't gently caress housemates. Like Id even gently caress around at work when i was single and it was fine but tbh unless you are willing to escalate it to a relationship immediately it's always problematic to sleep with your housemates
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You can absolutely gently caress other people's housemates tho, that's a lil "loophole" for ya. Housemates in general are a dice roll, don't need to add all that poo poo in with it. Protip: never trust that anyone will actually be "totally no strings attached, no emotions" or anything. Doesn't matter how sure you both are about it, don't risk it. Humans be a lot more fickle and complex than we are usually even aware.
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syntaxfunction posted:I live with another bi trans femme and we really are just good friends lmao inconceivable lol
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Saint Isaias Boner posted:inconceivable lol I don't see what conceiving has to do with this. Wait. But my point remains.
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it's Lesbian visibility week this week, i forgot about it because I'm not really on the socials and honestly me posting to insta or whatever about it is just Asking For It. But I'll mention it here anyway, because maybe it's nice to know people out there are seeing lesbians maybe.
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I'd love to see some lesbians this week.
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There's a selfie thread, be your own heroes! Fake edit: not me I'm self conscious
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syntaxfunction posted:There's a selfie thread, be your own heroes! i kill the thread whenever i post in it so i will forbear
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Grey Cat posted:I'd love to see some lesbians this week. i haven't seen the nice lady next door for quite a while because she's in alaska doing some kind of university professor traveling discreet math tour or something. i don't run in academic circles so i'm not really qualified to make any kind of judgement about that.
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dee eight posted:i haven't seen the nice lady next door for quite a while because she's in alaska doing some kind of university professor traveling discreet math tour or something. Around the girls in 80 days.
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Grey Cat posted:I'd love to see some lesbians this week.
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All the good parts of New Atheism got adopted into intersectional feminism, so I guess that's the closest I'll ever get to religion.
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Saint Isaias Boner posted:it's Lesbian visibility week this week, i forgot about it because I'm not really on the socials and honestly me posting to insta or whatever about it is just Asking For It. But I'll mention it here anyway, because maybe it's nice to know people out there are seeing lesbians maybe. i browbeat one of my girlfriends into doing a Gundam kit while watching g-witch because she somehow had no idea Gundam lesbians were a thing
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Rockman Reserve posted:i browbeat one of my girlfriends into doing a Gundam kit while watching g-witch because she somehow had no idea Gundam lesbians were a thing I gotta get round to watching that, it's on the list
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it’s real good. we should all aspire to be as pure of heart and strong of robot as Suletta Mercury
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Rockman Reserve posted:i browbeat one of my girlfriends into doing a Gundam kit while watching g-witch because she somehow had no idea Gundam lesbians were a thing Was it a lesbian Gundam? My gf and I have been working on a version of Suletta's Gundam. I'm out of town for work, so I can't pull up the name/kit number. Also a dumb aside, they thought the "HG" on the box was a reference to Witch from Mercury. Which, fair. EDIT: as for religion chat, my mom's church has been trying to show itself as "open and affirming*" But everytime they get a young person (from a local college) they nope out seeing the 12 or so families amd 0 queer people. Should I talk with her to see how she change her worship and visibilty to seem more welcoming even without queer parishioners? Like, I never though about theying God, but it's not out of nowhere to see it used. *language she used. I assume it's the verbiage that the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) use to signify welcoming congregations. BirdOfPlay fucked around with this message at 07:51 on Apr 29, 2024 |
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BirdOfPlay posted:EDIT: as for religion chat, my mom's church has been trying to show itself as "open and affirming*" But everytime they get a young person (from a local college) they nope out seeing the 12 or so families amd 0 queer people. Should I talk with her to see how she change her worship and visibilty to seem more welcoming even without queer parishioners? Like, I never though about theying God, but it's not out of nowhere to see it used. I don't know enough to comment on pronouns. I suspect overcoming preconceived notions with outreach is probably going to be the better method. It's got to go beyond putting up a flyer in queer spaces. My friend delivered meals on wheels and volunteered at AIDS hospice weekly for decades. If there are people from the church actually helping the community, that can go a long way towards building trust. Like, if you're marginalized and go to a place that's full of strangers, you're going to assume those strangers act like the people you've interacted with before, and that's not a great thing in this case. If you show up for a service and recognize people who have been giving their time to causes that don't benefit them directly, that's powerful.
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My wife and I attend an Episcopal church (lesbian pastor; gay deacon, etc) and met our best friends who are another lesbian couple--when we moved and were shopping for churches we decided on this parish before even knowing about the pastor being one of us because they have, since BLM started, done a weekly vigil every Sunday out in front of the church with a big BLM flag and tons of parishioners every week, and we would see them out there and thought, "ok well that seems good" So visible advocacy is a good place to start, I think
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Speaking of visible advocacy, my husband just got booted from a transmasc subreddit for suggesting trans men shouldn't be stealth or more specifically tell people they're cis. I can definitely see situations where one wouldn't want to out themselves and obviously it's nobody's business but it's hard for me to imagine, short of physical danger, not being out and proud especially when trans women could really use some solidarity right now.
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I'm learning how to sew because I've found a nice enby affirming skirt that I feel comfy in They are like 30 bucks each and simple enough that I reckon I can clone it Figure I'll learn a new skill to repair my clothes and get a couple affirming garments out of it This is the cut  And my first attempt at a clone  But Its inappropriate fabric, Im just using this as a learning exercise to get it all worked out before I get the fabric I wanna get it proper I even sewed a pocket! 
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pockets fuckin rule
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Yeah they do, I love when my unisex clothes have a pocket in them big enough to hold an entire other person.
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Jestery posted:I'm learning how to sew because I've found a nice enby affirming skirt that I feel comfy in Didn't realise we had two nb wife guys in ausgbs but let's go
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I'm a wife guy?
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In my goons.xls you are do you want me to update it
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I just don't know what a wife guy is or does in the context of being a poo poo posters
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Am I in a queer spreadsheet yet?
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