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InediblePenguin posted:People drive in Boston ffs Boston is a madhouse buttfuckery of roads and I was only a passenger. And it's probably that way because it was one of the first cities here and it was settled by British people who thought that kind of poo poo was okay.
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# ? May 6, 2024 02:45 |
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people don't believe me when I say driving in Boston is 10 times worse than driving in Manhattan but if you know, you know
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:28 |
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I like driving vacations. We once toured New England for about 10 days, doing dumb poo poo like Ben & Jerry's tour in Vermont and Santa's Village in New Hampshire, but then good stuff like a couple days in Cape Cod, a stop at Martha's Vineyard, and a couple days in New York City. Last year we drove to Quebec and then made our way home through Montreal, Toronto, and Niagara Falls with a couple days spent in each city. We've done the same going south to Disney World, driving through the Smoky Mountains, stopping for a few days and doing a lot of hiking in Kentucky and Tennessee before hitting up the Georgia aquarium and ending up in Orlando. We're east coasters, so we flew to Las Vegas once, rented a car, and then drove to California and made our way from Los Angeles down through San Diego to Mexico. I'd like to do that trip again but go north this time through Oregon and Washington state. This year we plan to drive to Washington DC and on the way will stop at Gettysburg, PA and after a week in DC will drive to Ocean City, MD for a couple days at the beach. It's a great way to see different things, keeps the kids from getting bored in one place for a week or two, and can be done fairly cheaply if gas isn't too outrageous. When each stop along the route is only 2 hours or so away from each other it's an easy way to knock out a bunch of destinations in one trip (we're trying to visit all 50 states before all my kids graduate high school.) Anyway, here's one of my favorite AITA genres, rear end in a top hat uninvited guests who expect to be waited on: AITA for leaving my husband at our lake house with his family. quote:My husband and I own a lake house that we spend most of our free time at when it's warm. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:34 |
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Yeah In New York you have to get by a lot of pedestrians who yell at you "I'm walking here!" But in Boston the only place you can park the car is Harvard Yard and it's far away from everything and always outta spaces
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:35 |
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also I cannot loving fathom the mindset in which my partner texts me "going to hospital" or "need ambulance" or something like that and my reaction is anything other than to immediately drop what I'm doing and figure out how to get to where she is as fast as humanly possible like gently caress, people, that seems like a low bar to clear
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:37 |
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InediblePenguin posted:just like how people from New York City are convinced that bodegas are so special that nobody in the rest of the country has ever seen a convenience store and cannot conceive of 'em, people from the UK are convinced that they're the only people in the world where the roads are rural and annoying to drive on. Do you think all of america is just straight line interstate highways with no small towns or villages? my dude you are misconceiving. People drive in Boston ffs I once had a Facebook chat convo with a girl from Scotland who thought everyone in Texas rides horses to work, and asked me what that was like because it sounded so cool. I did not humor the fantasy. I told her the truth that Texans drive cars like everybody else and shattered her dreams.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:38 |
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John Wick of Dogs posted:Yeah In New York you have to get by a lot of pedestrians who yell at you "I'm walking here!" But in Boston the only place you can park the car is Harvard Yard and it's far away from everything and always outta spaces this is slightly less true nowadays but a fun thing about parking in manhattan was that unless it was a tow zone, a lot of times it was cheaper to just park wherever and get a ticket than to pay for a garage seriously though, to the uninitiated, driving in NYC is mostly just about keeping your wits about you. Don't expect people to signal lane changes, don't turn right on red, don't stress about getting honked at, and understand that if you leave even the slightest room for someone to merge in front of you, they will. That's honestly like 99% of what you need to know oh a corollary to "don't stress about getting honked at" is "don't block the intersection, even if everyone behind you is honking" that poo poo is like a $500 ticket
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:41 |
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I've driven through Boston and taken a cab in Manhattan. Given the choice between the two to repeat, I'd rather ride the roof rack of the cab than drive in Boston again.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:44 |
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Driving in Austin is a special kind of hell. Don't even get me started.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:55 |
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mllaneza posted:I'll give the GF a lot of credit for being there when OP woke up and for staying with him for the two-day stay. You really really should not. The time for giving credit was when OP was trying to contact her with "holy gently caress please take me to the hospital"; blocking his number and continuing to party and only at 3am, getting home, going "oh poo poo he wasn't trying to ruin my evening, something he has never attempted to do before and I had no reason to think he would try to do" is way, way past the time for giving credit. This is 'desperate sucking up to avoid being broken up with' territory. Malachite_Dragon fucked around with this message at 04:56 on Apr 24, 2024 |
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SyNack Sassimov posted:This is not true because I have been informed Germany at some point in the past when NOTHING ELSE WAS GOING ON DO NOT ASK WHY OR WHO WAS IN CHARGE built the best highways and now you can go 300 mph on them and the point is don't loving ruin this for me I have to believe that there's something better in this world than our shittastic crumbling interstates, that there is a shining golden driving nirvana where I can see the needle on the speedometer actually go past half. I mean we have flat straight roads. Very very straight. They had to start putting slight bends in them every so often in case people fell asleep. n.b it’s still another 8 hours until the next major city, can’t stop yet
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 03:57 |
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Snow Cone Capone posted:also I cannot loving fathom the mindset in which my partner texts me "going to hospital" or "need ambulance" or something like that and my reaction is anything other than to immediately drop what I'm doing and figure out how to get to where she is as fast as humanly possible Yeah holy loving poo poo. That's like the lowest bar on the planet. And she was FIVE minutes away, even if she thought it was a prank or something she could have gone back to partying after checking on him. It would be the smallest inconvenience if it was nothing.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 04:48 |
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Doesn't clubbing almost always involve drinking? Not sure why he expected her to be able to drive him anywhere. (she is still the rear end in a top hat)
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 04:52 |
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Scathach posted:Yeah holy loving poo poo. That's like the lowest bar on the planet. And she was FIVE minutes away, even if she thought it was a prank or something she could have gone back to partying after checking on him. It would be the smallest inconvenience if it was nothing. Some geniuses on Reddit are bending over backwards to make him the rear end in a top hat because he pulled a "made you look" gag on her once and therefore she can never trust him again and clearly thought he was just joking now. Also she apologized and that means he has to take her back unconditionally.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 04:56 |
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I. M. Gei posted:Driving in Austin is a special kind of hell. Don't even get me started. We're all dumbasses here but at least the cybertrucks are gonna be gone soon. I have never actually driven in Boston but I have been a passenger in a car driving through Boston and sometimes I had to close my eyes because I was so sure we were about to get in a wreck.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:05 |
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I mean, she could have ridden with him in the ambulance or called them both an Uber. I hope he doesn't take her back. Reddit just gets weirder and worse.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:06 |
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There exists a certain subset of posters both on Reddit and elsewhere to whom the man is always at fault, forever, no matter what actually happened, and they cling to this with the rabid faith of MAGA people clinging to the cheeto. They will twist facts or outright ignore them if they cannot be changed to alter events so that it is Always His Fault.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:06 |
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I mean ultimately the question is moot. He can never trust her now. Even if he says he does it's going to be living in the back of his mind for the rest of their relationship. He knows how important he is and it's less important than her and her friends.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:14 |
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oh jay posted:Doesn't clubbing almost always involve drinking? Not sure why he expected her to be able to drive him anywhere. (she is still the rear end in a top hat) when people in incredible amounts of pain are screaming "someone help me" they're generally not concerned with the logistics
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:14 |
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I like the little detail of how her first reaction upon getting home and seeing puke on the rig was annoyance and the penny didn't drop until she realized he was actually not there
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:17 |
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Deformed Church posted:The stress of cheating on my wife is making me ill – but I can no longer suppress who I am im starting to think he just has insomnia and gastro problems and should see a dr and get therapy
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:21 |
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babypolis posted:I dont see it at all, theres zero mention of any other guys while an incel would be hyper focused on that aspect Yeah. Whilst big broad brush strokes include the incel story as described. Thos particular one lacks the details, and importantly, the spite to make it an incel story. I read it as more a simple " I dont like you enough to put in the effort to do the sex stuff you want" and if so, OP was right to break up withher. For both their sakes.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:22 |
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Snow Cone Capone posted:I like the little detail of how her first reaction upon getting home and seeing puke on the rig was annoyance and the penny didn't drop until she realized he was actually not there Oh GREAT, mister "I'm in horrible pain, get me to a hospital" lost his guts all over the place. Fuckin' rear end in a top hat.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:22 |
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DoubleNegative posted:AITAH For telling my husband that his affair child is not welcome in our home and if he wants custody he will have to move out? Ohhh, this guy SCREWED himself Snow Cone Capone posted:this is slightly less true nowadays but a fun thing about parking in manhattan was that unless it was a tow zone, a lot of times it was cheaper to just park wherever and get a ticket than to pay for a garage Can someone compare driving in NYC vs. driving in New Jersey? I've never driven in New York City but a few years ago changed my attitude from "I hate driving in New Jersey" to "I need to practice driving in New Jersey" and it's made a huge difference. New Jersey drivers just come across as very skilled because they learned to drive in New Jersey and I have to be on my toes to keep up. Anyway, content: Help! I Reconnected With My Estranged Daughter—Only to Realize She’s Too drat Sensitive. She wants me to grovel. Oh no. quote:Dear Prudence,
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:25 |
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poo poo, I had to go to the hospital the other night, I called the number we have locally to ask medical advice about how I was feeling and they were like "yeah, go in right now", and my husband had his shoes on and keys in hand before I even finished the call. That should be considered normal behavior.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:38 |
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You cannot rely on someone who will automatically assume you're lying about needing help or having problems.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 05:44 |
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Having people not believe you or downplay your medical problems - or, my personal pet peeve, say things like “you’re too young for it to be that bad” - has got to be one of the most frustrating, debasing feelings one can feel
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My (33M) wife (34F) thinks my orgasms are gross. How do I handle this?quote:My wife and I have been married only 2 months. We dated 2 years and got married this year.
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The Maroon Hawk posted:Having people not believe you or downplay your medical problems - or, my personal pet peeve, say things like “you’re too young for it to be that bad” - has got to be one of the most frustrating, debasing feelings one can feel "How the gently caress would you know?" is a pretty satisfying comeback.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 06:18 |
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trickybiscuits posted:Can someone compare driving in NYC vs. driving in New Jersey? I've never driven in New York City but a few years ago changed my attitude from "I hate driving in New Jersey" to "I need to practice driving in New Jersey" and it's made a huge difference. New Jersey drivers just come across as very skilled because they learned to drive in New Jersey and I have to be on my toes to keep up. I can't speak to New Jersey specifically but this is definitely a thing in a lot of cities with reputations for very unfriendly traffic. In areas with lower population density there are a bunch of people driving who probably shouldn't be but don't have any choice; in a real city they either learn in a hurry or stop driving, so you're left with people who are very serious about driving.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 06:32 |
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Mordiceius posted:
Troublemaker posted:
Tuesday again already?
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 06:42 |
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Deformed Church posted:The stress of cheating on my wife is making me ill – but I can no longer suppress who I am Just from the style, I can tell this is from Pamela Stephenson-Conolly. Her answers are always the same: very short, very generic, "work through it with therapy"
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wheatpuppy posted:Tuesday again already? Buddy, it hasn't even stopped being Tuesday here yet
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trickybiscuits posted:Ohhh, this guy SCREWED himself As someone who learned to drive and spent most time driving in NJ, I honestly get less stressed driving in NYC. NJ drivers are not great. My commute is 20 minutes and I routinely see significant amounts of a variety of terrible driving, including aggressive and distracted. TBH, I feel like a lot of the generalized stereotypes of "city drivers be crazy" apply more to suburban drivers, at least here. Driving in NYC has structure, it's just weird structure. Driving in NJ is chaotic. Also being in the immediate NYC suburbs means you get a good mix of NYC drivers and also CT drivers, who are real bad too.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 07:10 |
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If my partner said "please come home, my balls hurt" I would assume they were asking for sex and I would make a funny joke about it instead of actually heading back if I wasn't in the mood myself. I'd probably ask them to clarify the situation instead of just blocking them if they were being oddly persistent about it or started talking about needing a ride to the hospital, though.
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 07:12 |
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cat botherer posted:also good at getting people to stay off train tracks what the hell this rules
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The Maroon Hawk posted:Having people not believe you or downplay your medical problems - or, my personal pet peeve, say things like “you’re too young for it to be that bad” - has got to be one of the most frustrating, debasing feelings one can feel So my issue was I got badly dehydrated due to a severe case of travellers diarrhea, and while most people were sympathetic, helpful, etc, I did have one person ask why I wasn't drinking water. Who the gently caress said I wasn't? I was trying, okay, I was drinking a ton of water, electrolyte drinks, and my meals were juice because my appetite was like negative 100, and it simply wasn't enough to keep up because of how severe my case was. I got 2 liters of IV fluids, and it was administered in like an hour and a half. I have 8 liters of water in various bottles throughout my house so I can just keep loving drinking wherever I'm sitting even though my gut is like 80% normal now. Why weren't you drinking water. Get hosed. Makes me so mad!
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 08:24 |
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Another unwanted family reconcillator story. Fortunately, OP has a Pete-like spine. AITAH for not trying couples therapy with my ex because she gave my number to my brother? quote:When I (25M) was 10 my mom passed away. My brothers were 19 and 23 at the time. None of my 'family' members took me in. Not even my brothers and I hated them all for it. While in foster care, we had the occasional call once in a while but I never enjoyed it. When I was 20 I still resented my 'family' so I just decided I needed a fresh start. A: If you do [that thing], I will break up with up B: * does [that thing] * A: I'm breaking up with you B: (sobbing) H-how could you?!?
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# ? Apr 24, 2024 08:29 |
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Here's a more traditional relationship "test" (the test is to see if OP is smarter than a turnip) AITAH for refusing to have a joint bank account with my girlfriend? quote:My girlfriend and I recently moved in together, renting an apartment. Since things are starting to get serious, she proposed to open a joint bank account for us to use together. I am not opposed to open the account, if the reason is to use it to pay rent, bills, taxes and other shared expenses, but she wants it to be our only bank account where to put what she calls "our money", saying that doesn't matter who earns what, because we are a team.
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wheatpuppy posted:Tuesday again already? Dammit I searched this thread for "lake house" and it found nothing! Bah!
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