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Milosh posted:my wife miscarried last night. gently caress 2021. you don't have DMs so uh this is how i kicked off my 2020 a little over a month before the pandemic hit it was our first pregnancy and we haven't tried again. don't know if this is your first but i hope you haven't suffered through this poo poo repeatedly. after our miscarriage my wife changed jobs and we moved. the whole thing is shaping up like a road not taken since i don't know how to rationalize trying again right at this insane moment. therapy is good in this situation because partners grieve differently and can be unsuited mediators for each other's grief i've felt less alone because of the number of friends who have shared that they've had similar experiences, and also the pervasive sense of loss in this moment there's no right way to handle what you're experiencing right now and the same goes for your wife. the next few days as her body comes crashing off of all the pregnancy hormones and she suffers through whatever Rx or procedure is needed are going to be some version of hell for her, both physically and emotionally. it seems like physical pain levels are wildly variable. nursing her through that will keep you very busy for the next few days and give you a sense of purpose when everything feels like absolute poo poo. focus on that for now and you'll have plenty of time later to process how you're feeling. condolences on the things that can't be changed and good luck on the things that are indeterminate
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Yeah turns out the college thing is just everywhere, lol. My social media feed is filled with friends who are at packed indoor concerts. Open Biden I guess.
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Salt Fish posted:I got tim tams during some SA candy exchange thread where I traded 50 dollars of candy to some bloke in AUS. That was pretty cool but I'm too lazy now for something like that now. They taste great if all you drank was soda
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 04:45 |
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Also just got around to reading the interviews with the Sydney limo driver patient zero, and yeah, he comes across as a tool
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 04:46 |
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God loving drat it, Melbourne is really genuinely gonna let 'er rip:quote:Victoria records 183 new locally acquired cases of COVID-19, with 101 linked to known outbreaks
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 04:47 |
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LOL not to be outdone, Sydney is promising to open up even harderquote:COVID live updates: No statewide lockdowns 'ever again' once NSW is 80 per cent vaccinated, Berejiklian says
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 04:51 |
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covid is over!
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 04:53 |
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LionArcher posted:this is from today. The crowd is dressed like that covid virus pic we have all seen for ages now.
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 04:54 |
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Fireside Nut posted:ah poo poo. that’s awful. younger male? Relatively, yes. 46 years old. Also a whole bunch of comorbidities and mrsa sepsis, drug use, alcohol, etc. If he did truly get myocarditis, then it happened at the worst loving time possible (we can't do a cardiac mri because he won't fit and also a study where you hold your breath 80+ times is hard when you're intubated). Anyway there are 6 critical care ICU patients just hanging out in the ED right now because all the ICU pools are full (neuro, med, cardiac).
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 04:59 |
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More importantly wvu lost and that mad me mad and then I think about ea dropping that college game in the near future and it's going to be such a lovely disaster.
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Steely Dad posted:I want one of those covid is over graphics except with 9,000 covid dead yesterday Covid Forever Covid Returns Covid: The Long Halloween Covid: The Man Who LOL LMAOs
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Animal-Mother posted:I'm an introvert. It's a piece of cake for me to avoid people. My partner is an extrovert. She was willing to play it safe until she got vaccinated. After that, I have had a hard time talking her out of going places and doing things un-masked. Her lungs are already damaged because both her parents smoked indoors. She knows this, she knows the risks, she believes all the doomer data I show her, she isn't a succlib or a chud, but she's insistent that she must hang out with people or she'll go insane. And she might be right. She's had some serious breakdowns during all this. I'm a barfly by nature This entire pandemic has been pretty fuckin' easy for me to handle because I realized that if I gently caress up and die I can't go back to the poo poo I used to love. It goes away forever. A person I worked with put it best, "this is a moment in time, the stuff you love will be there in the future if you do the right things now." People who suicide over the need to hit Red Lobster right now aren't extroverts, they're just nihilists.
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Nihilists think that nothing matters, not that red lobster matters so much that life isn't worth living without it.
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:I'm a barfly by nature Same here. My favorite thing to do with my SO was go out and try new restaurants. I loved going out. And I'll get to do that again unless one or both of us gets hosed up with Long Covid or worse because we couldn't keep it in our pants for a couple years when death walked the streets. People are rationalizing poor decisionmaking because IT'S MY LIFE I HAVE TO LIVE well it's real loving easy to say that until you can barely make it up a flight of stairs or can't pull a paycheck anymore because you can't focus for more than five minutes without getting a migraine. It's one step removed from people saying my body my choice and then getting tubed a month later. Actually one of the worst things about this poo poo situation is that I'd really like to hang out with people at this point but almost none of the piece of poo poo libs I used to be friends with will wear masks when they hang out outside, so it's a no go. Because wearing masks is ~upsetting~, why can't it be ~normal~. The Oldest Man fucked around with this message at 05:17 on Sep 5, 2021 |
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ban the NCAA forever
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 05:15 |
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I'm pretty sure China's still a developing country as far as IMF loans are concerned.
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:I'm a barfly by nature same. my social dances too, and martial arts. and I’m just holding out and waiting. the next three months is me losing weight/ and just focusing on my business. LionArcher fucked around with this message at 05:55 on Sep 5, 2021 |
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"You just like to be alone and are using this as an excuse" Weird how much I must love being alone when before covid I was on an adult amateur sports team with twenty other people and traveled with them for tournaments for no reason other than I enjoyed doing that.
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The Oldest Man posted:Same here. My favorite thing to do with my SO was go out and try new restaurants. I loved going out. And I'll get to do that again unless one or both of us gets hosed up with Long Covid or worse because we couldn't keep it in our pants for a couple years when death walked the streets. People are rationalizing poor decisionmaking because IT'S MY LIFE I HAVE TO LIVE well it's real loving easy to say that until you can barely make it up a flight of stairs or can't pull a paycheck anymore because you can't focus for more than five minutes without getting a migraine. It's one step removed from people saying my body my choice and then getting tubed a month later. I'm going insane here at being shitbagged by supposed normies for being a 'basement dweller' when I never was pre-covid. I am now, and it's their fault. thanks guys.
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Back of the chair could easily be a headstone
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# ? Sep 5, 2021 05:33 |
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no one in america has actually ever been asked to sacrifice anything ever. telling people they have to completely halt their lives for months is just never going to work with people who have enormous tantrums about high efficiency lightbulbs and low flow toilets.
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Stereotype posted:no one in america has actually ever been asked to sacrifice anything ever. telling people they have to completely halt their lives for months is just never going to work with people who have enormous tantrums about high efficiency lightbulbs and low flow toilets. They're dying
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LionArcher posted:same. my social dances too, and martial arts. and I’m just holding out and waiting. the next three months is me losing wait and just focusing on my business. not to mention documented evidence bear orgies are a nogo if u don't want to get infected
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Stereotype posted:no one in america has actually ever been asked to sacrifice anything ever. telling people they have to completely halt their lives for months is just never going to work with people who have enormous tantrums about high efficiency lightbulbs and low flow toilets. this is so wrong, sometimes I mistime the skip 30 second button on my DVR and have to watch a commercial
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Stereotype posted:no one in america has actually ever been asked to sacrifice anything ever. telling people they have to completely halt their lives for months is just never going to work with people who have enormous tantrums about high efficiency lightbulbs and low flow toilets. never understood people complaining about lightbulbs. okay, so the law says i have to buy the lightbulb that lasts 100 times as long and uses 1/10th of the electricity. hold on while i rend my garments and tear out my hair
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astronautism posted:Hello friends! One thing I have found to keep your chin up is to have a pet and get a friend or buddy to take pictures of you. Here is my example. I hope this finds you all well and I'm going to continue daydrinking the aura of this post is, quite frankly, outrageously powerful i will offer blessings to you and your cat, goon. stay strong during these uncertain times
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:They're dying well they haven't died yet, so how dangerous could it be. they'll stop being obnoxious crybabies when they're dead.
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Stereotype posted:well they haven't died yet, so how dangerous could it be. they'll stop being obnoxious crybabies when they're dead. it's fun because they keep dying and also there are more of them and they keep dying the same way.
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Steve Yun posted:It’s the μ normal
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Steve Yun posted:It’s the μ normal lol
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Snowglobe of Doom posted:God loving drat it, Melbourne is really genuinely gonna let 'er rip: It's lunacy. I've got a toddler. My friends have got toddlers and kids too young to be vaccinated. I've got immunocompromised mates, some in high risk work. The official policy is basically for them to go gently caress themselves so we can all head back into the office or go for brunch and pretend nothing is wrong.
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:it's fun because they keep dying and also there are more of them and they keep dying the same way. everyone seems to be thinking "how bad could it possibly get" and man, there are a ton of people who are going to die. there's a seemingly never-ending stream of identical fat white people clumsily telling you about an article they read on facebook about how actually the lockdowns and vaccines have killed more people. big numbers are scary because people do not understand them at all. i do numbers for a living and i definitely can't properly imagine them. there are a lot of people who are awfully confident that whatever numbers they are saying are okay, people i assure you would cringe and say "oh i hated math" when i tell them what my job is.
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Steve Yun posted:It’s the μ normal
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:I'm going insane here at being shitbagged by supposed normies for being a 'basement dweller' when I never was pre-covid. I am now, and it's their fault. thanks guys. lol this made me realize that for years pre pandemic I was on a bo burnham type arc of coming out of a depressive and isolatory shell due to paat trauma over the course of years and had for the first time in my life felt a sense of purpose and belonging and community and then everyone in that community got brain damage from trump leading to full blue maga mindset leading to full open biden and here I am disconnecting fully from a death cult society again but this time it's good alienation because it's based on valuing life
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Pandemic Unemployment Assistance ends tomorrow
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ram dass in hell posted:lol this made me realize that for years pre pandemic I was on a bo burnham type arc of coming out of a depressive and isolatory shell due to paat trauma over the course of years and had for the first time in my life felt a sense of purpose and belonging and community and then everyone in that community got brain damage from trump leading to full blue maga mindset leading to full open biden and here I am disconnecting fully from a death cult society again but this time it's good alienation because it's based on valuing life
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to the goon who makes the covid gear, bring back v-necks you son of a bitch
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Steve Yun posted:It’s the μ normal lol
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how long til yr remote work opportunities expand to california ???
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ram dass in hell posted:how long til yr remote work opportunities expand to california ??? no idea but as soon as i know we've expanded, i'll update my poo poo
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