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my dad called me today to ask if I could figure out where some OTC medical stuff was for him. I sent him a giant crate of it because he uses it frequently and he'll probably turn into a psychotic abusive when he gets stressed again within the next six months. This is about a year's worth so I figure he'll have it on hand until his brain straightens out again. I haven't seen my parents on my birthday since I turned 22 so maybe consider telling her to go gently caress herself next year, OP.
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I only ever see your mum on her birthday op
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Apr 10, 2022 03:58
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Who What Now posted:I used to think it wasnt that easy. Turns out it is! yep, i went through this in the past two years with my parents. turns out that just walking out of their house and driving home when they can't stop saying racist or homophobic poo poo really does work. also hanging up on them or blocking their texts/emails for a couple months if they don't respect boundaries. they are much better behaved now after i started setting limits, because it turns out that they want attention from their kids more than they want to talk about covid conspiracies or complain that gay people are allowed to be out of the closet these days. (i'm sure they still talk about those things with anyone who is forced to listen to them, but i have successfully extracted myself from that camp.) also, it's usually my dad that can't help but spout off about the last thing he saw on tucker, and now my mom will get mad at him and try to shut him down because she knows i might just walk out if he doesn't stop. i feel a little uncomfortable about inadvertently playing them against each other, but also it's pretty effective.
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Apr 10, 2022 04:01
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Leave one of your nasty tar shits on her placemat OP
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Apr 10, 2022 04:03
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Your piece of mind is the most important thing so do whatever you have to. Don't answer calls, say you're ill, whatever. Boundaries. The nasty poop might help but I can't confirm. Good luck, happy birthday and may your next year be better. You got this.
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Apr 10, 2022 04:11
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gotdam hes right
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Apr 10, 2022 10:42
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Just do what I did and move to another country. Works every time.
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Apr 10, 2022 13:43
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It is said that you can choose your friends but not your family but has it ever been scientifically proven? I bet you could choose better parents if you really really tried.
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Apr 10, 2022 14:17
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Yeah just get adopted, there's no age limit to that
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ellasmith posted:it's not that easy It is, you put up with your garbage family only if they're feeding you or keeping a roof over your head. Afterwards you make like a skeleton and gently caress off.
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