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Sexgun Rasputin posted:what's a cougar bar where your mom goes
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serious norman posted:where your mom goes I dunno, I think it would be super awkward trying to pick up at the bar my mum was at.
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# ? Mar 2, 2014 12:19 |
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ZHamburglar posted:Hey virgoons, go to a cougar bar and hang around till closing time multiple times a week. Seriously as long as you have a penis you will get laid. The only reason you are still a virgin is because you are putting yourself out there. To be serious here, I feel like this is a fundamental misunderstanding of the issue that most people have. Or the issue that I had. I wasn't a virgin till age 24 because I couldn't rationally make it happen. I was a virgin for so long because I suffered from extremely low self-esteem, PTSD and other anxiety-related mental illnesses, and the fact that I was a self-medicating drug addict. Not because I wasn't attractive or couldn't make it happen "in theory". And I must say that it's taken me a long time to stop blaming myself, despising myself, and thinking that I didn't deserve to be happy or have intimacy with other people.
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g r r nasty posted:they could be asexual or just undesirable I'm a misanthrope with a low libido and I have pretty high self-esteem and satisfaction with my life, especially in comparison to all the other women I know around my age, who are flipping the gently caress out over ~doing their twenties right~ and just generally being very depressed and lonely to an extent that bemuses me. I've got a job, I've got some money, I have spare time to masturbate, I have a sweet used car and when spring finally hits I can get it out on the town to do my boring-rear end solitary hobbies (hiking, shopping, geocaching, gardening, taking pictures of interesting trees, etc). Most of the women I know are in the same situation, but they feel like there's something missing. Maybe for them there is. Though honestly I think virgin-neurosis hits guys harder--virginity is considered less desirable in men, and the ones who are inclined to let panic build over their circumstances seem to have trouble backing down from that ledge.
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12gauge posted:I had a bit of rant about that here, deleted it because what's the point really..mind if I ask, what did you take that backfired? I honestly don't remember other than that it was an antidepressant & supplement combination. I'm kinda godawful with names kaworu posted:To be serious here, I feel like this is a fundamental misunderstanding of the issue that most people have. Or the issue that I had. Yeah, just going out and having sex with a random person won't help most people who are virgins much at all. Those who don't care about being a virgin won't care enough to do it and will be just fine. Of those that do care, at least in this thread, the number that feel that being a virgin is the problem rather than a symptom of some bigger issue are at best a minuscule portion of those present.
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Forceholy posted:No, but it will increase your odds of experiencing it. Most women don't like dating poor people who live with their parents for whatever reason. Whenever the topic of intimacy arises here, most advice centers on being an interesting person; in other words, having money. People like being with fit (being able to afford a gym membership and food that's not HFCS-laden poo poo), attractive (Being able to afford beauty products, Dental work, etc.), well-traveled (Travel=Money) people. Unless you have the funds to pull this off, you're hosed. My boyfriend is broke as poo poo, has love handles, and doesn't have a passport. I have money, no love handles and a passport. We had sex like 5 times this weekend. You're just a bitter misogynist, sorry.
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# ? Mar 2, 2014 19:10 |
sucks about your loser boyfriend
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# ? Mar 2, 2014 19:23 |
Arakan posted:sucks about your loser boyfriend
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Arakan posted:sucks about your loser boyfriend his parents were killed in a freak passport accident, he spends all his money on charity and sweet rave parties and the love handles are surgically attached so she can ride him like some kind of bucking bronco affair why judge before youve heard the full story??
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insufficient guns posted:My boyfriend is broke as poo poo, has love handles, and doesn't have a passport. I have money, no love handles and a passport. We had sex like 5 times this weekend. because your boyfriend is a robot, yes?
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# ? Mar 2, 2014 22:23 |
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I wonder how some of the virgoons look, I imagine some must look normal.
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# ? Mar 2, 2014 23:26 |
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lidnsya posted:Most women I know are totally turned off by men who talk about their material wealth, cars, how often they work out, etc. If you are financially well-off, that's great but there's nothing interesting about it. Just makes you seem arrogant. Having a lot of money makes you more attractive to women, from what I have seen in my experience.
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tbp posted:Having a lot of money makes you more attractive to women, from what I have seen in my experience. Having loads of money makes you more attractive to everyone. Greed isn't gender specific.
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benzine posted:I wonder how some of the virgoons look, I imagine some must look normal. I'd like to imagine that I'm fairly attractive on account of never actually having been turned down, but I'm also fairly overweight(Freshman 15? more like freshman 50) and just now getting a hold back on my physical shape.
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benzine posted:I wonder how some of the virgoons look, I imagine some must look normal. I don't know why I'm posting here but I think I look pretty normal. I ain't handsome or nothin but I don't think I'm ugly and I'm pretty jacked(23 yo, 5'7", 170 lbs, low bf). I do non-nerdy poo poo like lifting a lot of weights and doing a lot of MMA training. But also I'm a math major and I'm on the computer a lot because I don't have much of a social life. I have bad anxiety and self-esteem issues. However I have my first date either friday or saturday... I really like her, we've been hanging out for a little bit now. So maybe there's hope after all.
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benzine posted:I wonder how some of the virgoons look, I imagine some must look normal. http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3612156
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 00:08 |
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tbp posted:Having a lot of money makes you more attractive to women, from what I have seen in my experience. Having a loving personality does the same thing.
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I don't know. I wouldn't want to be with someone in a much higher financial class. I don't know how I could respect myself if I was being taken care of and not having to work for anything. I've also rarely met a rich person who didn't get there by loving others over. Also yeah if someone only wants you for your money, is that someone you want to be with?
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 00:12 |
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Arakan posted:sucks about your loser boyfriend I too describe the people I date as fat, poor, and uncultured.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 00:17 |
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I can't imagine what a smug douchebag you would have to be to pride yourself on being more cultured because you've traveled. Holy poo poo do you guys ever need to talk to some actual women instead of assuming we like that crap. Having a good personality is hands down the most important thing and if you define yourself by your money, your car, the places you've been, how much you lift, etc. then you come across as having no personality besides self-absorbed. Edit: not that those things are bad or that you shouldn't be proud of them, but they are material things that people can learn about you on their own. Bragging about them or calling other people down for not having them is unattractive. lidnsya fucked around with this message at 01:01 on Mar 3, 2014 |
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They're talking to actual women here and nothing seems to be changing.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 00:32 |
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He looks normal, very nerd. But personality wise who knows, I guess a little clingy. Recently a friend of mine lost it at 25. Not very good looking, but I remember he had some opportunities and even some girlfriends. The problem was his lack of self-esteem that prevented any action, and with time I felt it was a heavy burden at least in his mind for him.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 00:35 |
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benzine posted:I wonder how some of the virgoons look, I imagine some must look normal. It's pretty common for the forever-alone guys to assume we're horribly ugly, have lovely genetics, that women shriek and throw feces at any guy under 5' 11" height, etc.
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Shannonmcn posted:Having loads of money makes you more attractive to everyone. Greed isn't gender specific. Please. How often do you hear about male golddiggers?
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lidnsya posted:I can't imagine what a smug douchebag you would have to be to pride yourself on being more cultured because you've traveled. Then explain why people find foreign accents attractive.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 01:43 |
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Christ Forceholy how about reading what actual women are saying to you instead of ignoring it and believing whatever lovely loving media representation of women you're basing your beliefs on. I have seen more girls being leeched off by guys than the other way around. Different people find different things attractive. No one is going to date someone based solely on their accent. lidnsya fucked around with this message at 01:50 on Mar 3, 2014 |
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Forceholy posted:Please. How often do you hear about male golddiggers? Considering the vast majority of ridiculously wealthy people are men I think you have patriarchy to blame for that.
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lidnsya posted:Christ Forceholy how about reading what actual women are saying to you instead of ignoring it and believing whatever lovely loving media representation of women you're basing your beliefs on. Because this narrative lets him believe that his lack of sex / relationships is due to economic factors and women being shallow bitches.
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lidnsya posted:Christ Forceholy how about reading what actual women are saying to you instead of ignoring it and believing whatever lovely loving media representation of women you're basing your beliefs on. No, but the accent will improve your odds. If you have two similar men with the same backgrounds, education, income, whatever, but one guy talks in an Irish accent, odds are the Irish guy won't be single for long. Also, it's cute you think deadbeat guys are leeches when odds are the girl is trying to "fix" him.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 01:56 |
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amarantinesky posted:Because this narrative lets him believe that his lack of sex / relationships is due to economic factors and women being shallow bitches. Otherwise he'll have to confront the fact that he has a lovely personality that no woman would willingly associate with, and that's terrible.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 01:56 |
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I just want ppl to be around me male or female I don't care
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 01:58 |
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Forceholy needs to get his rear end back to r/mensrights.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 02:00 |
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suztan posted:Otherwise he'll have to confront the fact that he has a lovely personality that no woman would willingly associate with, and that's terrible. Jesus christ is this cruel. Look, here's the thing: There are plenty of women out there who are this guy (or any uber-nerd's) equivalents in terms of attractiveness, personality, social rank, etc. Decades ago the two of them would have gotten together and wed. The sexual revolution however has allowed the women who are equivalents of this guy in terms of sex rank (i.e, 1 to 10 scale) to date men who are higher on the sex rank ladder, all because in our somewhat libertarian sexual enviroment, the top 20% of guys can get more than fair share of women, which puts pressure on the guy's below them on the ladder to date down just to get girlfriends, and to date even further down if they want to mimic the player behavior of the guys with rank 7 to 10. This basically fucks over the unattractive guys. The nicest thing we can do for those guys who have sex ranks of 1 to 4 is to legalize prostitution.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 02:04 |
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Cool we've gotten to sexual capitalism already. Because women are the same as money and goods.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 02:08 |
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I've been saying these things in hopes that some of the guys with lovely confidence will start to realize they don't have to be this ideal rich perfect man for women to like them. Because that is the truth. Forceholy however you are a misogynist coward and no woman who doesn't have major mental health issues will be with someone like that.
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ZergFluid posted:Jesus christ is this cruel. People actually do the 1-10 thing in real life? Jesus.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 02:09 |
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ZergFluid posted:Jesus christ is this cruel. What is your sex rank
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 02:10 |
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ZergFluid posted:Jesus christ is this cruel. How is this thread becoming even worse and more pathetic, jesus. Twisty of Fate posted:I just want ppl to be around me male or female I don't care This makes you one of the more normal people itt so it will probably even happen.
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# ? Mar 3, 2014 02:10 |
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Shannonmcn posted:Cool we've gotten to sexual capitalism already. Because women are the same as money and goods. By the way did you see this video? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cO1ifNaNABY It's ultimate conclusion is feminist friendly because they blame young men.
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ZergFluid posted:Jesus christ is this cruel. Ahahahaha the loving sex ladder these forums are amazing
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