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karl fungus posted:Why do people care how other people give birth? If someone doesn't needlessly suffer as much as I do during an ordeal they're clearly inferior.
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karl fungus posted:Why do people care how other people give birth? The witches told me that I cannot be defeated by any man born of woman. Even one C-section is a potential threat to me.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 18:18 |
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Gimnbo posted:If someone doesn't needlessly suffer as much as I do during an ordeal they're clearly inferior. What sort of idiot willingly wants to suffer more when a less painful alternative is available?
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 18:48 |
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Lottery of Babylon posted:The witches told me that I cannot be defeated by any man born of woman. Even one C-section is a potential threat to me. Dammit, you beat me to it.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 18:51 |
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karl fungus posted:What sort of idiot willingly wants to suffer more when a less painful alternative is available? "Look how strong and tough I am!" is more or less it. Especially when it comes to childbirth.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:04 |
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Picnic Princess posted:"Look how strong and tough I am!" is more or less it. Especially when it comes to childbirth. But it's natural~~
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:07 |
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I don't know if it's because a big portion of my social group is now birthin' age or if there's actually been a resurgence of this, but suddenly like 3 of my acquaintances are training to be doulas and two are always talking about midwifery and campaigning for midwife rights in our state. As of last year I had never even heard of a doula and now it seems like they're everywhere. Birthing and parenting seems to bring out the worst of medical/science distrust. "How can these doctors be right when I, a mother, etc. etc." edit: I should clarify, most of the doulas I've seen are more of the birth-support kind, who are just there to assist the mother through the birthing process by being a calm and supportive voice who isn't emotionally involved with the baby (like a partner or parent may be). Some of them are also trained to help a mother in the event of a c-section being needed but not planned for, or to help a woman through unforeseen complications. So they aren't all anti-modern medicine people. But the two midwife people definitely are. Double Plus Good has a new favorite as of 19:19 on Aug 17, 2014 |
# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:16 |
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Picnic Princess posted:"Look how strong and tough I am!" is more or less it. Especially when it comes to childbirth. I think it's more "anyone who makes a different decision to me is implicitly criticizing me, my decisions, my birth experience and MAH BABY"
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:17 |
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There is also a school of thought (and I don't know how much validity it has, but I'm guessing "none") that one of the benefits of the natural birth process is the creation of an emotional and physical bond between the mother and the child that is not possible with a c-section. I guess imprinting doesn't happen when the kid is just left to wonder who that woman lying on the table is.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:32 |
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Henchman of Santa posted:My mom's insane Yngwie-listening wannabe cougar friend is back.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:40 |
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A friend shared this from the page, Anti-Feminazi.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:54 |
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Double Plus Good posted:I don't know if it's because a big portion of my social group is now birthin' age or if there's actually been a resurgence of this, but suddenly like 3 of my acquaintances are training to be doulas and two are always talking about midwifery and campaigning for midwife rights in our state. As of last year I had never even heard of a doula and now it seems like they're everywhere. Birthing and parenting seems to bring out the worst of medical/science distrust. "How can these doctors be right when I, a mother, etc. etc." The argument in favor of midwives is that midwives were basically the de facto birthing person for basically humanity's entire history. It's a valid argument, in a way, and midwives are generally quite competent at delivering babies. What they suck at, in that they are not doctors, is dealing with any complications that come up. Most births don't have a ton of complications and go off without an issue so it can look like doctors just want you to go to the hospital to make money to many people. Which is why you hear "well I gave birth to nine children at home with a midwife and all of them survived!" ignoring, of course, that often those children got medical care as they grew up. Some of it is "well it's natural" but other parts of it is "well nobody I know had complications during birth." But that's why the doctors are there. Just in case.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:54 |
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Conal Cochran posted:
Is...is this saying that men just can't not rape?
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 19:57 |
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1stGear posted:Is...is this saying that men just can't not rape? I think the idea is that simply saying "Hey, don't rape," is pretty silly, but it's clearly willful ignorance because I'm sure the woman on the left is quite aware of this fact and probably has a more robust point than that.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 20:07 |
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The Billboard #2 song of 2013 (after "Thrift Shop") was one in which the singer says he hates his romantic interest's "blurred lines" and asserts that he "knows [she] wants it". So yeah, I think that lesson might actually need teaching.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 20:15 |
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karl fungus posted:Why do people care how other people give birth? Conal Cochran posted:
But weirdly, it's the people who claim to be looking out for men's rights who are saying that men are animals who can't control their urges no matter what, and feminists who are saying that men can be better than that.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 20:22 |
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There's a surprising number of people who will agree that yes, rape is bad, and then proceed to agree that there are situations in which it's okay to have sex with a person who doesn't want it, as long as the questions don't actually contain the word "rape."
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 20:32 |
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Plom Bar posted:This is the funniest god drat thing and I want your permission to post it. Go nuts dude!
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 20:33 |
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Well, I'm at the life stage where couples I knew in high school are now getting married. I dread the day they start getting pregnant and posting about it.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 20:33 |
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One of the most original videos yet! And by that we mean the 300,000,000th ice bucket challenge video!!
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 20:43 |
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karl fungus posted:Well, I'm at the life stage where couples I knew in high school are now getting married. I dread the day they start getting pregnant and posting about it. They don't stop, fyi. It's all babies all the time from here on out. I have a toothache, my first solid dooker, I just turned eighteen days old!--everything, over and over and over again. It'll make you pine for the days of "SHARE THIS IF YOUR NOT HEARTLES!" posts.
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GOTTA STAY FAI posted:They don't stop, fyi. It's all babies all the time from here on out. I have a toothache, my first solid dooker, I just turned eighteen days old!--everything, over and over and over again. It'll make you pine for the days of "SHARE THIS IF YOUR NOT HEARTLES!" posts. Also they're profile picture will always be of their kid, always. But it's hilarious if they lose it. Looks like the baby us swearing and raging.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 21:06 |
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Picnic Princess posted:Also they're profile picture will always be of their kid, always. But it's hilarious if they lose it. Looks like the baby us swearing and raging. Jesus, I had to read that twice before realizing you didn't mean 'lose it [the baby]'
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 21:26 |
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KillerEggplant posted:There's a surprising number of people who will agree that yes, rape is bad, and then proceed to agree that there are situations in which it's okay to have sex with a person who doesn't want it, as long as the questions don't actually contain the word "rape." A lot of people are more afraid of being labeled a rapist than they are of actually being a rapist. Funnily enough, I accidentally typed "racist" in the entry box and it works just as well.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 21:48 |
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Nikaer Drekin posted:
Yeah, but it's Carrie Underwood Oklahoma's Least Embarassing Export Gimnbo posted:A lot of people are more afraid of being labeled a rapist than they are of actually being a rapist. "I'm not a rapist, buuuut I just think that women should cover up more and not walk places without a male chaperone"
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 22:18 |
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KillerEggplant posted:There's a surprising number of people who will agree that yes, rape is bad, and then proceed to agree that there are situations in which it's okay to have sex with a person who doesn't want it, as long as the questions don't actually contain the word "rape." Women as well, oddly enough. I know a surprising amount of guys who had drunk sex with a sober woman and everyone claimed it was A-okay, even though those guys clearly felt violated. People in general need to be taught that rape isn't only committed by strangers in an alley at gunpoint. Fake edit: reminds me of a poll I took about crime at my campus. One of the statements amounted to "I have never raped somebody" which almost everyone gave the highest score of agreement on, and then it was followed by a bunch of statements that pretty clearly implied rape (e.g. I have never had sex with a drunk person" or "I believe it is okay for a person to force their partner to have sex with them if they have been dating for a long time") and the results differed. Deltasquid has a new favorite as of 22:23 on Aug 17, 2014 |
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You heard it here first folks: The Purge is real and the media is covering it up. It definitely wasn't a hoax started by a dumbass teenager that publicly apologized for it, supplemented by prank calls, trolls, and fake police scanner apps. Nope. Coverup.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 22:24 |
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Nikaer Drekin posted:One of the most original videos yet! And by that we mean the 300,000,000th ice bucket challenge video!! Yeah well this thing somehow worked out so now you know the next 6 months will feature dozens of attempts to copy it in new and exciting ways for other causes. Brace yourself. Do a headstand for cancer awareness!
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 22:25 |
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1stGear posted:Is...is this saying that men just can't not rape? MRA's who have rapist tendencies think that all men are hardwired to rape women because
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 22:26 |
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KillerEggplant posted:I genuinely do have a girlfriend in Canada. Plane tickets are a regular expense and the subject of who's going to emigrate is under discussion. Plenty of people meet and date long-distance over the internet these days. It's not really implausible, and you sounded sincere. I'd guess your friends trusted your sincerity and are actually happy for you. This. I dated a Canadian for 3 years. I flew there over couple of months for a few weeks, and he would occasionally drive to me. We were talking about me emigrating, looking for places that would hire someone on a visa, etc. when he decided to end it (I can't have kids, he decided he couldn't live with that). Especially with the internet now, it's not implausible at all to be dating someone the next country over. And the "Winni Peg" thing... maybe it's just me, but I don't automatically think of nicknames for people when given their name, especially their middle name. Since you were saying your girlfriend's name, I would assume that she goes by Winnifred. If I'm dating a Jimmy I'm not going to introduce him to people as James and wait for them to figure it out.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 22:37 |
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There are some benefits to an infant being squeezed out the old-fashioned way, like the trip down the birth canal helping clear amniotic fluid out of the lungs. There are also some minor risks associated with C-sections, although a lot of them could be caused by a lot of other things. This is why doctors usually encourage vaginal birth, but are also fine with loading the moms up with pain meds or an epidural or whatever. The ones that push for C-sections because their shift is almost over or because they have a golf game are just dicks. I had a c-section and I bonded with my baby just fine, the hormone that causes bonding and intense parental feelings doesn't go away as soon as the kid pops out. A lot of it is the "Better at momming than you are!" bullshit that's going around
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 22:44 |
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Recently I discovered a website called misandry.com. This is a post on their forum: quote:If women want to avoid rape, they should simply: They don't see any irony whatsoever in saying this, and then complaining that women fear and hate men.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 23:29 |
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Long piece of text bullshit, just going to put this in a quote tag:quote:A TEACHER FROM THE GREAT STATE OF MISSOURI WILL LOSE HER JOB FOR STANDING UP FOR ALL OF US.
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# ? Aug 17, 2014 23:48 |
OptimusShr posted:Long piece of text bullshit, just going to put this in a quote tag: Hilariously, Kathleen Lyday didn't even write that. Her name got attached due to someone else's misunderstanding after Lyday forwarded the email. Let this be a lesson: Don't forward stupid emails, or someone even more stupid will think you wrote them.
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# ? Aug 18, 2014 00:21 |
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I'd fire anyone who forwarded that poo poo to me unless their job was testing new drool-absorbent bibs.
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# ? Aug 18, 2014 01:01 |
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I will never understand how people repost images that are this hosed up from compression.
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# ? Aug 18, 2014 02:34 |
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Someone on my Facebook feed prefaced a post asking for suggestions for beers to try with a huge "TRIGGER WARNING: ALCOHOL". When I saw it I assumed it'd be a post about alcohol abuse or something legitimately triggering, but no it was "my grocery store is having a beer sale and I want to try new beers, what kind should I get?" That doesn't need a loving trigger warning.
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# ? Aug 18, 2014 04:35 |
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IronicDongz posted:
Boy, Aesop sure has a lot of opinions about modern society for being a dead Greek. Also, the original story is about a father and son. Why change it to husband and wife?
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The bald onlooker is wearing a a striped shirt with black sleeves in the first, and a green shirt in the remaining three.
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