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LEPRECHAUN 6: BACK 2 DA HOOD
INCHI DICKARI fucked around with this message at 21:47 on Apr 29, 2015 |
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Mar 26, 2015 03:09
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Okay, listen, I'm not trying to make you feel worse at all or anything. Seriously. But I do have to mention that, except for younger (<19 or so) kids that get help early, most behavioral transports I take (I run a behavioral-focused ambulance - we do emergencies too, but 90% of our calls are from a hospital to a psych place or from an emergency (think: cop "HOSPITAL OR JAIL" hospital dropoff that limits holds to 24 hours) psych place to a longer-term hospital) seems to be in the system forever once they get in. Most of our transports are also involuntary, which is usually why they require an ambulance (when someone is 4-point strapped down they require medical monitoring, even from just an EMT). It's not always the patient's fault, though. The United States is horrible at mental health treatment, and people bounce from facility to facility and from drug to drug for years and years, without their consent. I mean, it starts off all nice and good, with docs that care and prescribe sane doses of medication. Docs that actually try to help people and make them better. Docs that don't immediately medicate somebody, and instead have rehabilitation programs that actually work. Many times, I've heard, in these early stages people can actually get the assistance they need to self-help and get out of a bad situation. After a certain amount of time, though, both the patient and the patience of the facilities start to wear thin. If people don't show any progress after an extended period of time, a lot of providers will throw their hands up and declare terminal medication. I say "declare," but it really happens piece by piece as a person goes from doc to doc. They go from one facility to another without improvement, and a doctor reads their chart and notes and goes "I can still help this person." He tries his best without resorting to total medication, but if the person still doesn't improve, he'll make his notes and eventually (days, weeks, months, or years down the road depending on the doctor and the severity, as well as state laws and medical district general practices) the patient will go to another doctor, who looks at the notes from two docs, now, that state no improvement or even worsening without severe treatment. You can see where this is headed. Eventually, if the person is bound and determined (either intentionally/consciously, as part of a social disorder, or as part of a physical impairment or imbalance) to "not be helped," they circle back around and end up living within this weird "system" for what could be the rest of their lives. This is where our healthcare system fails, because a bastard combination of insurance limits, otherwise innocent medical administration (bookkeeping, not drugs) procedure, and medication administration, means that we have to stop after awhile. There's nobody that really offers long-term help programs that aren't profit-focused or merely publicity fronts for a larger hospital in the end.
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Mar 26, 2015 04:01
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DODGE GRAND CARAVAN OF COURAGE: AN EWOK ADVENTURE
INCHI DICKARI fucked around with this message at 21:45 on Apr 29, 2015 |
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Mar 26, 2015 04:09
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INCHI DICKARI fucked around with this message at 21:44 on Apr 29, 2015 |
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Mar 26, 2015 04:19
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OFFICER 13 INCH posted:eat herself alive in the most horrifyingly destructive way i could ever imagine circling the drain Don't let this happen to yourself, too.
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Mar 26, 2015 04:41
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Pham Nuwen posted:Don't let this happen to yourself, too. I have a caretaker. 
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Mar 26, 2015 04:49
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OFFICER 13 INCH posted:I have a caretaker. That's a good-rear end catte
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Mar 26, 2015 05:41
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OFFICER 13 INCH posted:Life's not a Disney movie. Some people don't get happy endings.
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Mar 26, 2015 05:53
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Sometimes people are just lovely. Nothing you can do about that. It took me years to figure out that I couldn't fix other people's problems for them, and the more you try, the more they expect you to do it for them. All of those people you've dated? They sound like they suck. Sorry. It doesn't matter if you've known someone for 8 years; if they treat you like poo poo at the end, they're still bad. If you have to beg your SO for anything, especially for them to get help, then you're already on the losing side. Every time you ask someone to get help and they refuse, they're saying they don't value your opinion. They don't care that you are being hurt by their decisions. That is not your fault. It's their fault, and only they can fix it. I say this as someone who has been on both sides of that scenario. And the only way you escape an endless cycle of dating people who take advantage of you is to learn the warning signs and stay away from people who fit those patterns. You seem like a good person. You're awesome at what you do, you're self-aware enough that you don't try to gently caress other people over, and you care about those around you. People on this forum have supported you and your projects because you have been judged by an impartial panel of strangers to be a good person. Don't drink yourself into oblivion over other people who can't get their poo poo together. Focus on what makes you happier, because you shouldn't punish yourself for other people being idiots. You should really just be pissed that some people are stupid. And pet your cat.
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Mar 26, 2015 06:08
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It took me until I was thirty-six to find a not-crazy to stick my dick in. I'm now married to that not-crazy, but for a year or two I felt like I was at rock bottom and seriously contemplated suicide since it felt like nobody was ever going to care about me. It doesn't feel like it'll get better, but it does. We're here for you 13". 
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Mar 26, 2015 06:18
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LoreOfSerpents posted:Sometimes people are just lovely. Nothing you can do about that. It took me years to figure out that I couldn't fix other people's problems for them, and the more you try, the more they expect you to do it for them. Jesus gently caress listen to this dude. Hanging on to people who won't help themselves is a great way to have a really poo poo life.
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Mar 26, 2015 14:37
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All of that stuff is correct and good and I agree completely with it. But also: alcohol makes you depressed, and you are never going to be happy until you stop drinking. It'll suck but a month or two after you're completely sober, you'll start feeling better. It won't fix your life or make the people who have hurt you magically disappear, it won't change your employment or your friends or any of that. But you'll be less depressed and also you'll suddenly have a lot more money as a bonus.
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Mar 26, 2015 14:49
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Wake up. Breathe. Keep breathing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XkNAL85Vc9Y Nicole Blackman knows what's up.
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Mar 26, 2015 15:09
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People care and worry about you too 13. A bunch of internet strangers are concerned about you. Take care of yourself so we don't have to be pissed that you destroyed yourself
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Mar 26, 2015 15:13
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drat dude, maybe you need a vacation? Fly to Thailand or Switzerland or somewhere far away and weird and just get out in the world and recharge for a week. Plane tickets are crazy cheap now, especially if you fly on Russian airlines.
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Mar 26, 2015 15:23
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On that note I've got a spare bed in sunny blightly if you could make it that far and fancied a holiday. Coventry has a decent amount of AI stuff to look at.
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Mar 26, 2015 15:34
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Where do I buy tickets for the 13 inch world tour?
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Mar 26, 2015 15:36
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If you just want to hang out and watch a movie or so-called-once-Top-Gear and barbeque some poo poo, I'm just around the corner. I will PM you some contact info.
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Mar 26, 2015 16:04
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Top Net Gear Flix?
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Mar 26, 2015 17:07
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Someone who has mental retardation can't wake up one day normal because people told them not to be retarded. Sometimes you find people who have brains wired to destroy themselves and others.. you cant fix them by saying dont be retarded. Look at tcc for inspiration... "shat my innards out and nearly killed my family.. next time will dose 75%" Sucks youve had a bad run but it has to change sometime right?
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Mar 26, 2015 17:27
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RAINBOW BRIGHT AND THE FART STEALER
INCHI DICKARI fucked around with this message at 21:43 on Apr 29, 2015 |
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Mar 26, 2015 22:00
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I normally wouldn't recommend this, but join the army or the peace corps, for real.
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Mar 26, 2015 22:24
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OFFICER 13 INCH posted:Yur posst mades the assumption my brain isnt wited waitin for its one chance one excuse to just finally giveup I dno being hammered all the time isn't good either.
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Mar 26, 2015 22:32
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ERNEST GOES TO JAIL
INCHI DICKARI fucked around with this message at 21:41 on Apr 29, 2015 |
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Mar 26, 2015 22:48
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BAD TIMES AT RIDGEMONT HIGH
INCHI DICKARI fucked around with this message at 21:41 on Apr 29, 2015 |
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Mar 26, 2015 22:57
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GIGLI
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Apr 29, 2015 21:46
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 https://youtu.be/H13SbiOIVbQ OKAY YOU FILTHY ANIMALS LISTEN UP. I HAVE REPLACED THE LAST PAGE WITH SOME ITEMS MORE ENTERTAINING THAN THE DRECK FROM BEFORE. NEW THREAD RULES NO TALKING ABOUT EXES OR CARS OKAY?? LET'S GET MOTIVATED ----------------
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Apr 29, 2015 21:50
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Welcome back  Oh poo poo OK uh then... how's the cat?
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Apr 29, 2015 21:50
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Oh holy poo poo, those edits are amazing 
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Apr 29, 2015 21:53
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CAR TALK IS OKAY It's what we call in the cutthroat business of being an oversized phallic representation a joke
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Apr 29, 2015 21:53
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What fluids is the Civic leaking nowadays?
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Apr 29, 2015 22:00
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Twerk from Home posted:What fluids is the Civic leaking nowadays? All of them 
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Apr 29, 2015 22:25
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T1g4h posted:Oh holy poo poo, those edits are amazing They're also all real things... I don't advise the 1 man 1 jar video though. It doesn't end well.
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Apr 29, 2015 22:28
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Welcome back now post a loving picture of your cat. We're due at least one.
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Apr 29, 2015 22:35
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Twerk from Home posted:What fluids is the Civic leaking nowadays? 
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Apr 29, 2015 22:44
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HE'S ALIVE
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Apr 29, 2015 22:50
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Astonishing Wang posted:Welcome back now post a loving picture of your cat. We're due at least one. 
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Apr 29, 2015 22:51
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Unlike the Civic or my love life, that catte is functioning to spec.
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Apr 30, 2015 00:45
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Okay guys so listen. I got this in my Fortune Cookie. My mechanic neighbor who's known I turn wrenches for four years just today put this piece of cardboard out on something that caught my eye.  How bad an idea we talking here. ---------------- INCHI DICKARI fucked around with this message at 04:06 on May 3, 2015 |
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Apr 30, 2015 04:31
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If by "bad", you mean "bitchin'", then yeah, that's a totally bad idea. The best kind of bad idea. Dooooo eeeeeeet.
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Apr 30, 2015 04:33
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