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I think Kat would be better off not being friends with someone who has flagrantly abused her trust, yes.
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Fister Roboto posted:I think Kat would be better off not being friends with someone who has flagrantly abused her trust, yes. This preoccupation with trust seems to mostly just be code for "incredibly self interested". Kat lacks that quality, and thus is able to determine the relative value of cheating to be very small in comparison to Annie's life being in the process of crashing down around her. Were the circumstances different, there might have been a stern talking to (almost certainly not resulting in any end of friendship regardless). But in the context of Anthony's shenanigans, it was neither the time nor the place. It would have only served to cause more harm. Specifically it would make this particular outcome more likely. Combed Thunderclap posted:I've posted this before, but in real life, the professional, peer-reviewed consensus is that even when a kid is genuinely failing, you do things like give them tutoring, or catch-up classes, or really anything other than holding them back to avoid the child from doing things like falling into a vicious spiral of self-loathing, social isolation, and public humiliation. I think we've moved on from this particular argument, but talking about how much people actually need math misses the point. tl;dr stop being a loving robot who can only see black and white goddamn you are worse than boxbot
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 06:54 |
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Fister Roboto posted:It has nothing to do with academia. Trust is extremely important to me. I wouldn't have done the same thing in her shoes. Everyone has their own standards by which they gauge others behavior based on their experiences and all that, that's okay. But you have to acknowledge in turn that other people might have different priorities than you. The reason Kat is okay with it, is that she loves Annie (as a friend) and is more concerned about her happiness and well-being than her being honest in academics. Remember, Kat isn't a high academic achiever because she necessarily feels grades are valuable in of themselves. She's clearly pursues achievement because she loves knowledge and making things. Given that, it makes a lot of sense that she doesn't really care that much that Annie copied her work and is more hurt by the fact that she feels Annie is suffering because of Anthony (with the constant humiliations and control he's exerting over her). Right or wrong, that's clearly how she sees the situation. For her, if anything is a betrayal then it's Annie's willingness to hand Renard over to someone Kat thinks will likely hurt or kill him. Though Annie giving Rey to her in spite of her dad helped to ease that conflict between them. If she didn't give him to Kat and something bad happened to Renard as a result, then yeah that would likely be a true betrayal as far as Kat as concerned and she might not forgive that. Right or wrong people are more willing to forgive the people they love than say acquaintances. That's hardly a controversial thing. It might be different if the particular issue of cheating was important to Kat (like working hard to be top of the class was a cornerstone of her sense of self-worth or something), but it's clearly not. She just wants her best friend who's gone through so much poo poo to be okay. JuniperCake fucked around with this message at 07:03 on Jun 9, 2015 |
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Captain Oblivious posted:tl;dr stop being a loving robot who can only see black and white goddamn you are worse than boxbot This is rich, considering that the entire time I've been posting during this chapter, people ITT have been yelling at me for seeing things differently than them. And I'm sure that if I ever suggested that the truth could be somewhere in the middle, people would yell at me for that as well. JuniperCake posted:Everyone has their own standards by which they gauge others behavior based on their experiences and all that, that's okay. But you have to acknowledge in turn that other people might have different priorities than you. Of course I know that people have different standards. I'm not an idiot. I understand why she forgave her, and I won't argue that it's not in character for her, but I find it hard to sympathize because that's not what I would have done. I've had to make some very difficult decisions in my life based on my friends' honesty or lack thereof. It's a subject that I feel very strongly about for personal reasons.
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 07:15 |
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Fister Roboto posted:I think Kat would be better off not being friends with someone who has flagrantly abused her trust, yes.
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Look bro I know you literally rescued me from eternal perdition in the alternate reality spider zone, valuing my safety in that scenario above all else, but you cheated off my homework so gently caress you forever A RATIONAL AND PROPORTIONATE RESPONSE Fister Roboto posted:Of course I know that people have different standards. I'm not an idiot. I understand why she forgave her, and I won't argue that it's not in character for her, but I find it hard to sympathize because that's not what I would have done. I've had to make some very difficult decisions in my life based on my friends' honesty or lack thereof. It's a subject that I feel very strongly about for personal reasons. Non-robots are typically able to sympathize with things that they would not have done themselves, on some level. Barring ya know, genuinely monstrous acts.
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 07:30 |
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Fister Roboto posted:
Ah okay, I thought you were arguing that it was weird for Kat to not feel wronged by Annie's actions based on the events on the comic when you were actually arguing that based on your experiences that part of it was hard for you to accept. That makes sense. Didn't mean to imply anything ill, I just misunderstood. Sorry about that. If you've had some bad personal experiences with friends and trust, of course stuff like that would definitely be something you'd pick up on and find jarring. It's definitely not a pleasant thing to go through.
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I didn't say that I couldn't sympathize with her, just that it's harder.JuniperCake posted:Ah okay, I thought you were arguing that it was weird for Kat to not feel wronged by Annie's actions based on the events on the comic when you were actually arguing that based on your experiences that part of it was hard for you to accept. That makes sense. Didn't mean to imply anything ill, I just misunderstood. Sorry about that. I really appreciate your understanding, thank you.
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Jackard posted:Not even the one with the redheaded men or the one where the killer uses snakes through the vent? Was that the one with Vincent Spalding(?) convincing some red haired guy that all he had to do for some sweet cash was to transcribe the encyclopedia? That was pretty great DontMockMySmock posted:Like some people were saying upthread, most people don't use the stuff they learn in school later in life. You don't need to remember how to complete the square or who the gently caress Marco Polo was; if you ever cared, you could look it up and/or figure it out. But that doesn't mean that Annie can just blow off school and that's okay. This effortpost is for the people upthread who, in all seriousness, thought that it was okay for Annie to cheat and essentially blow off half of high school because she had other things going on (i.e. mediumhood). Fister Roboto is right about that poo poo, at least, and here's why. (Sorry for the wall of text; I give a huge poo poo about education.) A thoroughly great post. Is the hand Anthony lost on the same side as the bind Coyote put on Annie's hand?
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 12:41 |
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EmmyOk posted:Is the hand Anthony lost on the same side as the bind Coyote put on Annie's hand? Yes, both of their right hands.
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 12:43 |
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I think that if Tony had his hand cut off by Coyote's bind, he would have been, so to speak, "impressed". Which we know he wasn't, thanks to Word of Tom.
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Kikas posted:I think that if Tony had his hand cut off by Coyote's bind, he would have been, so to speak, "impressed". Which we know he wasn't, thanks to Word of Tom. I don't think Coyote snipped it I'm just curious about the parallel.
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Captain Oblivious posted:goddamn you are worse than boxbot
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 13:39 |
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What if Anthony just came back to ask Jones to marry him
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Kikas posted:I think that if Tony had his hand cut off by Coyote's bind, he would have been, so to speak, "impressed". Which we know he wasn't, thanks to Word of Tom. nah maybe he just looked at the stump, shrugged and went "meh, I can get another"
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EmmyOk posted:I don't think Coyote snipped it I'm just curious about the parallel. I've seen this parallel brought up before this page, but most people only have two hands, so losing a specific one is, unsurprisingly, a 50/50 chance. And it probably skews heavily toward your dominant hand across all the various ways to lose an extremity, like accidents or aetheric bone surgery. Could just be a coincidence.
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 17:55 |
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Jackard posted:Guess who else is in "a vicious spiral of self-loathing, social isolation, and public humiliation" ...Boxbot?
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 18:15 |
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Nuns with Guns posted:sorry I feel asleep what were we arguing about
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 18:49 |
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The day Gunnerkrigg Court turns into Utena is the day I will truly find happiness.
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 19:34 |
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Captain Oblivious posted:...Boxbot?
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pksage posted:I've seen this parallel brought up before this page, but most people only have two hands, so losing a specific one is, unsurprisingly, a 50/50 chance. And it probably skews heavily toward your dominant hand across all the various ways to lose an extremity, like accidents or aetheric bone surgery. Could just be a coincidence. Yeah that had crossed my mind but that probability assumes it had to be a hand. Why not be any other body part? Granted a hand is the easiest for Annie to accidentally see.
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EmmyOk posted:Yeah that had crossed my mind but that probability assumes it had to be a hand. Why not be any other body part? Granted a hand is the easiest for Annie to accidentally see. Because we use hands to touch stuff and put them in poo poo. Feet are the other big one but it implies a very different cause of injury than hand/arm.
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 23:04 |
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The Red Queen posted:What if Anthony just came back to ask Jones to marry him How can someone marry themselves???
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 23:38 |
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How can someone even less outwardly emotional than Jones be the person to ask? And why does it still result in Annie having a better parent than the one she's got?
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# ? Jun 9, 2015 23:55 |
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Itzena posted:This is after the waltz scene in the flooded rose garden, right? well yes, that's absolutely mandatory
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The Red Queen posted:What if Anthony just came back to ask Jones to marry him He wasn't satisfied taking Eglamore's first girlfriend. Now he's come for the second.
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 02:50 |
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Fister Roboto posted:I think Kat would be better off not being friends with someone who has flagrantly abused her trust, yes.
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 06:28 |
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Thank god! I have been waiting for months for someone to ask that question.
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 08:01 |
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And Donald cuts the bullshit like a freshly-honed scalpel.
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all i have to say is yesssssssssss
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BravestOfTheLamps fucked around with this message at 02:54 on Dec 1, 2016 |
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I love you Donald.
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 08:09 |
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Donny! He says what we're all thinking!
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 08:12 |
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Hey, Donnie. Over here. *finger guns* Yer alright
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 08:13 |
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Don gets better every single time he's on panel.
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 08:46 |
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I love Kat's angry face. Mostly, though, I'm just struck by Anthony's amazing design. He looks like he came from an entirely different comic. It's not just his face scars. Even his knuckles seem overly detailed and gnarly. He's an outsider to the tenth degree.
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 09:03 |
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Roger Explosion posted:Don gets better every single time he's on panel. Pretty much. It's pretty distressing how night and day Annie and Kat's family situations are.
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 09:03 |
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The maddest face!
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# ? Jun 10, 2015 09:09 |
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Donny skips the opening and heads right for the main course.
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gently caress yeah Donny Dons.
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