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halenaw posted:Lol reminds me of a guy who followed me around a New Years party asking "is it my turn yet?" even after I told him no. Well, did he take a number?
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I'm going to move into an apartment type place soon and was wondering: How do you have the sexytimes when other people might hear you? The loud-rear end stereo isn't an option; there's regulations on noise level.
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Dec 18, 2015 06:15
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When I lived in an apartment it was pretty much a fact of life that you'd hear sex noises through the wall. We were woken up at least twice a week by the couple on the other side of the wall having extremely loud, long sex sessions.
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Dec 18, 2015 06:51
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The arrangement I have made with my neighbors, wordlessly, is I'll gently caress whenever and you gently caress whenever. It seems to be working out okay.
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Dec 18, 2015 06:54
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Violet_Sky posted:I'm going to move into an apartment type place soon and was wondering: How do you have the sexytimes when other people might hear you? The loud-rear end stereo isn't an option; there's regulations on noise level. You can be as loud as the hell you want when you're making love.
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Dec 18, 2015 07:37
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Violet_Sky posted:I'm going to move into an apartment type place soon and was wondering: How do you have the sexytimes when other people might hear you? The loud-rear end stereo isn't an option; there's regulations on noise level. seriously if people hear you they won't give a gently caress and if they do that ain't your problem
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Dec 18, 2015 07:44
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Violet_Sky posted:I'm going to move into an apartment type place soon and was wondering: How do you have the sexytimes when other people might hear you? The loud-rear end stereo isn't an option; there's regulations on noise level. Agreeing with everyone, you have the sexytimes, then they might hear you.
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Dec 18, 2015 08:17
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If they hear you loving then by law they're allowed to come round and join in, so check your new neighbours for attractiveness.
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Dec 18, 2015 08:20
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Violet_Sky posted:I'm going to move into an apartment type place soon and was wondering: How do you have the sexytimes when other people might hear you? The loud-rear end stereo isn't an option; there's regulations on noise level. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPqOx-Smqrc fe: f;b
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Dec 18, 2015 08:41
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You can and you should have sex whenever the hell you want and be as loud as you want. But that isn't an excuse not to show some respect to your neighbors. If they have kids try not to wake them up by loudly screaming on the other side of the wall. Try not to loving bang on the walls either. When I lived with my housemate I could often hear her loving her bf on the other side of the wall, I appreciated it when she turned on music. I could still hear her loving but at least the music was good. Also used to be with this super loud girl, when she came she loving screamed. So I'd just gag her. She liked it and I did too and the neighbors probably appreciated it. So play music, try not to scream like an animal, and consider gagging your partner.
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Dec 18, 2015 11:11
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Protip: If you shove your shirt between the headboard and the wall, it won't bang when you do. You're welcome.
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Dec 18, 2015 16:31
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Affi posted:I could still hear her loving but at least the music was good. Play music and make sure it's good music.
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Dec 18, 2015 17:12
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Affi posted:So play music, try not to scream like an animal. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IfVAEEk9wbY If you're having sex the least you can do is let people have a bit of a wank if they want to listening to it.
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Dec 18, 2015 17:50
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Yeah, the only thing in the rules is to keep noise to a reasonable level after 10PM which is understandable. My apartment's more of a singles type place, so there won't be any kids. I just kinda want to show some respect for my neighbors as well. It's my first apartment and I don't know what rules are enforced or not and oh god HELP.
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Dec 18, 2015 18:06
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Just gently caress and be as loud as you naturally would be, drat. gently caress em, you're a grown rear end adult.
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Dec 18, 2015 18:10
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It is nice of you to not have screaming sessions at 3AM or something, no matter what the activity is. Make your girl shove her face into a pillow or something
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Dec 18, 2015 18:25
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Travis343 posted:Just gently caress and be as loud as you naturally would be, drat. gently caress em, you're a grown rear end adult.
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Dec 18, 2015 18:32
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Cuckoo posted:It is nice of you to not have screaming sessions at 3AM or something, no matter what the activity is. I'm a straight woman, so 
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Violet_Sky posted:I'm a straight woman, so Make him shove his face in a pillow, then? I don't see how the advice still doesn't apply. 
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Dec 18, 2015 18:51
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Alternatively, shove your face in a pillow? This is pretty sound advice for all parties involved.
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Dec 19, 2015 17:44
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Sage Grimm posted:sound advice 
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Dec 19, 2015 18:59
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a great way to moderate the noisiness of your sex is by being so unappealing in your day to day life no one wants to have sex with you that little pointer is free
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Dec 20, 2015 08:59
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What do screamers do when they masturbate?
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Dec 20, 2015 17:09
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LingcodKilla posted:What do screamers do when they masturbate? Call out their own names, obviously.
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Dec 20, 2015 17:38
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LingcodKilla posted:What do screamers do when they masturbate? 
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Dec 20, 2015 17:54
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LingcodKilla posted:What do screamers do when they masturbate? Talk normally
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Dec 20, 2015 23:42
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Cuckoo posted:It has nothing to do with working out. I have interstitial cystitis, which tends to come with/maybe cause pelvic floor dysfunction syndrome AKA tight pelvic floor muscles. This is why they say traditional kegels could be a bad idea; like overstressing a strained back, you could just be making your problem worse. Anyway it turns out the day after I did the pelvic floor exercises, I saw a ton of blood Have you been assessed by a PT who specializes in pelvic floor physiotherapy? Lots of people who have hypertonic pelvic floors also have weakness of some or all of the pelvic floor muscles so usually the PTs will recommend some combination of strengthening exercises (e.g. Kegels, especially "long-hold" Kegels) and relaxation exercises (e.g. "reverse Kegels"). If you haven't already (and if your insurance covers it and/or it's otherwise financially feasible), you might consider going to see a PT for an assessment and treatment plan - especially if you have interstitial cystitis, which as you know is pretty miserable but can often improve with PT treatment. Good luck!
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like, first day period's blood. Then it went away. I'm used to seeing blood out of loving nowhere because I have endometriosis and am on birth control, and both can cause irregular bleeding, but seriously what the gently caress? I'm going to probably try it again tonight to see if there's a direct correlation between the exercises and the bleeding.
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Cuckoo posted:Thanks. PT is on my specialist's list of treatment, he wanted me to take some Elmiron for a few months and try to get my pelvic area out of that "red zone" of pain before stressing it out with PT exercises. To my knowledge, IC and regular Kegels don't mix. I see my specialist in a couple of weeks and will bring this up with him, since by now I've been on Elmiron for about 3 months. Depending on what a PT finds on assessment they might recommend some strengthening exercises because hypertonic pelvic floors are often quite weak as well, but you're right, usually not until relaxation exercises have been effective for fear of tightening the pelvic floor even more. They also sometimes use other techniques like manual release of "trigger points" for tension/pain that can be really helpful. Spotting between periods and after sex is pretty common with endometriosis but you might raise it with the specialist as well just to see if they have any other investigations they'd want to do. Poor you; your pelvis sounds like a very un-fun place right now.
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Geoj posted:When I lived in an apartment it was pretty much a fact of life that you'd hear sex noises through the wall. We were woken up at least twice a week by the couple on the other side of the wall having extremely loud, long sex sessions. What's the point in moving out of your parents place if you can't hammer away at full volume while shouting out literally what you're doing in your own apartment? A person's home is their castle and all that.
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Heners_UK posted:What's the point in moving out of your parents place if you can't hammer away at full volume while shouting out literally what you're doing in your own apartment? I never understood that "say what you're doing" thing. Do people actually say "I'm sticking my penis in your vagina! This is loving! We're having sex!"? Who gets off on that?
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KillHour posted:I never understood that "say what you're doing" thing. Do people actually say "I'm sticking my penis in your vagina! This is loving! We're having sex!"? Who gets off on that? Your mom. Seriously? I just figured it was a porn thing for blind people.
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Dec 25, 2015 07:10
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LingcodKilla posted:Your mom. I've heard the "Say what you're about to do, say what you're doing, say what you just did." advice several times in this thread alone. I can only imagine that's what they're doing. Followed by several minutes of https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQlIhraqL7o.
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KillHour posted:I never understood that "say what you're doing" thing. Do people actually say "I'm sticking my penis in your vagina! This is loving! We're having sex!"? Who gets off on that? No that is not what people say, and you are dumb for thinking it is.
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Heners_UK posted:What's the point in moving out of your parents place if you can't hammer away at full volume while shouting out literally what you're doing in your own apartment? I don't know. Maybe to become an adult? I have loud sex, I'm still respectful to my neighbors. I don't know why you can't do both? I don't mind hearing my neighbors gently caress but I think I'd hate living next door to you.
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KillHour posted:I never understood that "say what you're doing" thing. Do people actually say "I'm sticking my penis in your vagina! This is loving! We're having sex!"? Who gets off on that? I have never ever heard of that.
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Shine posted:No that is not what people say, and you are dumb for thinking it is. I admit I'm not entirely sure how else to interpret "say what you're going to/doing/just did" other than as some sort of audio transcription for the hearing impaired. But then I've never much seen the appeal of vocalizing during sex a lot.
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OwlFancier posted:I admit I'm not entirely sure how else to interpret "say what you're going to/doing/just did" other than as some sort of audio transcription for the hearing impaired. I hate silent sex so much
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bobula posted:I hate silent sex so much You don't have to be silent, far from it, just don't find there's a lot to talk about during.
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Mostly repeating "fuckfuckfuck" works for me.
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